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You and your students just suck at DHVing, so you have to rely on socially-conditioned passive DHVs that appeal to the needs of women in other countries. Just like in the USA looks or a sick car or tattoos are passive DHVs that appeal to the socially-conditioned needs of women in America (not...

I’ll simplify all this massively: If I’m still having fun and I’m still interested, I keep seeing her/trying to see her. If, at any point it stops being fun or I lose interest, I move on, her loss. I don’t worry about interest level, whether she initiates, whether I have to double text...

Same way I judge anything game-related--if the concepts are things that I can go out and field test and they work (or if I've had similar experiences that played out in similar ways), then I give it the benefit of the doubt. If it feels like the OP is just posting to fluff himself or for...

Lincoln's good, Ocean Dr's good, but my fav is the sidewalk between the boujie hotels and the beach--just a lot of really good opportunities there. Beach itself is good too. Haven't spent much time in Brickell other than at night--tho that's where I found the most potential for cover-free nightlife.

Haven't spent as much time in Miami as I'd like but can confirm Wynwood is trash-tier in terms of quality. And though Miami has a reputation for nightlife, unless you have money and connections (which aren't all that hard to build if you know where to hangout), you're way better off doing...

I’ll go against the grain here…I think there’s a good chance that you’re pouring yourself into your studies, etc., to compensate for the loss of your relationship and to avoid having to put in the work required to have agency in your social/romantic life. A couple problems with your current...

Thank you. I get so tired of guys here who are still comparing themselves to the (mostly) mythical frat guy who fvcks ALL the girls they didn't get to fvck and feeling like they "missed the boat" or whatever. Everything you posted lines up with my experience/observations as well. To quote...

Most frat guys aren't getting laid at all--or maybe once or twice a yr with drunk freshmen. Go out to college bars and meet them. You can throw medium-busted girls at them and they'll try to be your friend for life. Middle to upper-tier frat guys almost always end up wifing up one of the hotter...

For the sake of privacy, a little vague: but early 30s. (Also girls gave me infinitely more **** about my age when I was 24 & insecure about being the old guy in the college bars lol. These days when I tell girls my age they’re like, “Oh my god!! That’s amazing” or tell me how they love older...

Lol. What? I think you're confusing proximity with access. Ya, you won't have hot, young girls that you see everyday in class (proximity) but most college dudes don't have real access to those girls. They have no tangible skillset to convert those girls--tho they may get lucky from time to time...

Lol we're running the same playbook

I don't know of any PUAs who still recommend waiting a couple of days to text since ~2014--so it seems you're arguing against a strawman. Before that, it made sense because that was pre-smartphone, pre-insta, pre-tinder and you could expect a girl's emotional attention span to last longer than...

My 2 go-to’s I use 99.9% of the time are wine (if she’s down) and wafflehouse (if she needs a little more time/comfort or has ASD—kinda regionalized but just replace with whatever popular late night food choice). These work in pretty much any situ. Just “What’re you doing later? Grab waffle...

Spot on. Glad to see content like this popping up; reminds me of the old days. I'd just add onto this that we also get to choose our thoughts and our emotions. In western society, we're always taught to see ourselves as subject to our identity, thoughts, emotions, past circumstances, etc...

Just to be clear, I 100% believe in reading IOIs and body language (think it's massively important to social calibration in general and you can definitely use them to find layups). I just don't believe in using those as a prerequisite to approach. Most guys aren't able to read those accurately...

I can tell just from this that your tonality sucks. You're either not loud enough or not breaking rapport enough or both. I'd guess I get that type of response maybe 1/200 approaches--when I was starting out, I was getting this type of response most approaches. Tonality and eye contact (direct...

Then you're giving them something to fix ;) Trust me, girls will try to nest and domesticate, regardless--and they'll enjoy/value the process of trying to do that more than if you try to be plug-and-play. The more complete your life is, the harder it is to get investment. But I don't have tons...

I started with YaReally (highly recommend his archive starting with the Scray FRs)--just ignore the texting stuff & pay attention to his stuff on frames/sexualization/secret society since a lot of that stuff got lost in the more mainstream stuff. Ya put me onto Julien who seemed like the most...

I never deal with 27 or older lol--but they're more of a headache in general judging from some of the stuff my buddies text me about. But I'm still pretty minimalist--just live in nicer apartments that are centrally located. Only thing I spend real money on are clothes. Girls'll sleep with a...

During the peak of that phase 24-27. Most of the girls were in college; a few in their mid 20s; usually from higher socio-economic backgrounds because I got off on that dynamic at the time.