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    Proud to be a man

    How well would a woman survive on her own (or in the company of other women) in a true survivalist setting? It is en vogue to act like women are fully capable of everything men are physically, but truth be told they would stand almost no chance unless they were a true physical specimen. "Wonder...
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    What to do?

    Aloof as in not divulging that much information and keeping it short and to the point. In person, you DO NOT want to be aloof. You want to be charming, outgoing, charismatic, etc. On text, you keep it mysterious. Mystery is your biggest ally early on for creating sexual tension/anticipation.
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    What to do?

    OP, Way too much texting coming from you. Not only the volume of texts, but the vibe of them makes you sound like some puppy dog about ready to burst from his excitement that he is getting to talk to this chick. Dial way back the amount of texts and also be much more aloof in the texts...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Right now you are simply addicted to the "drug" - your ex. Frankly, the number one thing you need to get over her is simply the passage of time. Other things can help - but it is more about weaning yourself off of her and letting your body and mind re-adjust. If you don't want to date other...
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    Does bad sex turn women off?

    Bad sex is a problem for young girls many times. And this is usually because they think it means you have some issue with them. Older women with more experience tend to not really care that much at all unless it is something that is happening over and over. If that is the case, you need to ask...
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    Messed up with hb 10 at the gym, is she in Autorejection? Can it be saved?

    This is a lot of to do over nothing. OP - you lost your opening, but really nothing else happened. You didn't say anything you need to be embarrassed about. On the surface, you just made some small talk with this girl. Go about your business as usual. The other guys telling you to work out...
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    Love Bombing vs Genuine Burning Desire

    This. You get better at being able to differentiate this once you have been with some Cluster Bs who specialize in love bombing. Generally speaking, they come on STRONG really fast. And this is not hopping in bed with you on Date 1 (although that can be the beginning). It is wanting to spend...
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    Dealing with this sh1t test

    I feel a flake coming your way for Friday evening. You said she initially gave the "green light." Meaning she said Friday sounds great before you asked for her number? I would go silent at this point with no more banter unless she initiates. I would, however, send a confirming text Friday...
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    Kicked a disrespectful 304 out of my house tonight!

    Russian women (I can't speak on Ukrainian) are a special breed. They generally are very submissive and traditional unless you show weakness, and then they will quickly go full rage towards you and are completely unforgiving. Regardless of this chick's ethnicity, he needed to take a stand to the...
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    Kicked a disrespectful 304 out of my house tonight!

    Normally we agree. On this we don't. Women almost never completely understand apologies. The problem with an apology here is that SHE is going to view the apology as OP apologizing for not just kicking her out but also for taking a stand on the phone issue. And given the gaslighting she was...
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    The elephant in the room that apparently no one sees

    Everyone you see, male and female, is who they are based upon their genetics and their environment. Generally, the more stressors someone has at a young age, regardless of what they are, the more mental deficiencies develop that make these individuals have difficulty relating to other people...
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    Kicked a disrespectful 304 out of my house tonight!

    OP, I think you overall did the right thing by giving her the boot. Not because of the phone per se, but because of the attitude and the gas lighting. Those are the real issues here. Because they are foreshadowing of what would be to come with this chick. So you saved yourself a huge headache...
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    How to game women you got in a car accident with

    What you are saying is so nonsensical I am not sure where to even begin. Although, I think you are well aware of that.
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    Is it a bad idea to post social proof (pics of you with hot exes) for dating profiles?

    Agree with this. More subtlety is required. I think a group pic somewhere fun with some hotties in it is way more effective. A picture of just you with another chick, even if she is attractive, definitely looks "try hard" to most.
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    How to game women you got in a car accident with

    @corrector Your thinly veiled contempt for SS is palpable in a post like this. Serious question - what do YOU get out of being here these days?
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    Who Should Initiate Sex Most Of The Time?

    Agree a man should never expect the woman to initiate. I will say that if a woman is never initiating in an LTR that this probably hints at there either being an issue in said relationship OR that she just has a very low sex drive (which in itself would be an issue for most men - myself...
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    Becoming a male stripper

    This was actually my first thought as well. You will get the occassional woman who likely is deserpate (sub HB 5) and some bachelorette parties. Many (if not most) will probably be homosexual that want a male stripper.
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    Someone explain to me why Incels are so heavily involved in discussions about game/dating/sex.

    Admittedly, I don't know a lot of incels personally. My social circle is about 50/50 between married guys and then guys who have moderate to high success with dating women. The guy I mentioned previously is one of my best friends from childhood, but he is probably the only guy I know that I...
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    What you think? Would a Super CHAD get this reply from her?

    @Modern Man Advice highlighted the problem you had. Being direct is always a good thing, but directness does not equal bluntness. You were completely blunt. No finesse. No buildup. Just "show up here and let's bang." I would have asked her to join me for a drink prior and then teasingly told...
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    3rd person marriage?

    Married to TWO women? One woman's BS in a marriage is plenty. Poor guy. He will go to an early grave for sure if it lasts.
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