Does bad sex turn women off?

[Don732]

Does having bad sex turn women off? Let's say if you had a premature ejaculation that night (5-6 min) , would that turn woman off? Let's say if it was your first sex with her

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Depends on her age, and experience level. But for the most part women are very disappointed when you can’t hold off, unless she knows you can get her off and it’s just a quickie.

For guys that have issues like this I always recommend long foreplay, and trying to make her O before you penetrate her. Watch some videos on how to finger a woman, how to touch her body, and frankly learn how to go down on a chick. While you develop sexual stamina you can satisfy them through other means.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

IME no. I've had subpar sex (on my end not hers) and they still come back / chase afterwards. Premature ejaculation, got tired etc. At that point her vag is invested. It would have to be pretty bad, like something revolting to her, to scare her off.

 

[IKO69]

Yes, it's very important. It Is your greatest weapon (satisfying her sexually). If you can't she will certainly get it elsewhere.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Nope ,

I think through over exposure to porn men, the male obsession with d1ck measuring and feminism we have festered this ideology that it's our job to please women in bed

If you are generally terrible in bed yes it's going to cause problems but only if she doesn't really respect you anyway

Fundamentally though......

IT IS THE WOMANS JOB TO PLEASE THE MAN WITH SEX TO MAKE HIM IMPREGNATE HER

That is literally the entire biological point of the act

Print it out and stick it on your bathroom door

Most normal feminine women are going to be pi$$ed off If you DON"T ***

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I was fvcking my fvck buddy a few weeks ago and I came quite quickly like after 5- 10 mins simply because I wanted too and couldn't be bothered to keep going

I just said " oops " and she said " d/w I like that I made you *** quickly"

 

[SW15]

If the initial instance of sex is bad, she becomes less likely to answer texts or answer/return phone calls after it. That's enough to end an interaction.

Ejaculating after 5-6 minutes of penetration is not premature.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It’s not a dealbreaker, I’ve had women that I gave orgasms every week and they would still bvtch and play games. I think women prefer emotional stimulation because they tend to trade off with bad, transactional, and no sex for emotional stimulation or monetary.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

When she let you put your D inside her, she is already emotionally connected and invested.

Also dont forget their ego, if they think you underperformed cause you werent into it enough, she will make a point to make sure you will be the next time.

 

[Hal9000]

Being good at sex is one of the best ways to differentiate yourself from the rest of the pack. Just finishing after a few minutes of sex doesn't necessarily make it bad however as you can't always equate quantity with quality. If you got her off a couple times and made those few minutes count it could have still been an overall good experience for her. Don't really have enough info to say for sure.

 

[corrector]

It was an issue with ex wife. Having to use herbals to get it hard or losing erection while having sex even with herbals would probably qualify as bad sex.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Let's say if you had a premature ejaculation that night (5-6 min)

5-6 minutes is not that bad. 5-6 seconds would be a different story. But if she´s already in love with you it doesnt matter.

 

[corrector]

But if she´s already in love with you it doesnt matter.

She could fall out of love if that's an issue.

 

[CornbreadFed]

When she let you put your D inside her, she is already emotionally connected and invested.

Also dont forget their ego, if they think you underperformed cause you werent into it enough, she will make a point to make sure you will be the next time.

I think what happens is that guys get lazy and think sex is the only thing they need to maintain to keep the relationship strong. I know plenty of guys that have been burned with this mindset.

 

[NealIRC]

What about if you made her *** good, regardless of whether you did ejaculation sex?

 

[CornbreadFed]

What about if you made her *** good, regardless of whether you did ejaculation sex?

I find that women get more ticked off if you don't ejaculate than them getting off. They will assume they weren't good in bed, you are fvcking other girls, etc.

 

[Bokanovsky]

The answer to this question is the same as the answer to most other questions. It depends.

 

[RangerMIke]

Does bad sex turn off women? Yes.

Can you recover from a bad night? Yes.

If you are not good in bed you need to work on that and get more practice.

 

[Barrister]

Bad sex is a problem for young girls many times. And this is usually because they think it means you have some issue with them. Older women with more experience tend to not really care that much at all unless it is something that is happening over and over. If that is the case, you need to ask yourself what the issue is and address it. But every man has an off night here or there.

 

[Gamisch]

The thing is that sex for women is much more than only penetration. I'd say penetration is probably 10/15% of the total package. That's why it's so hard for "normal decent " men to compete against bad boys. No sane man wants to switch up his entire life and character just to get on the other side. One of the things that proves my theory is that you see more and more men PLAYING gangsta while they "just" have a normal life; to appease to women.

Remember that scene from Robert deNiro in Jackie Brown? He finally hits it, comes after a few seconds. Still it might've been "good sex". Because lets be real; no man will have trouble to ravage a woman after he came 2 or 3 times already. Hell, if I am ravaging a woman 15 minutes straight I might take a break. If i dont come after like 30 minutes I call it quits myself.

So imo, good sex for a woman starts when you are NOT around. How does she feel when she's not with you? Can you feck her mentally? Is she soaking wet when you or she is on her way ?

Bad sex = bad vibe. Not necessarily "bad motions ". The motion of sex isn't that versatile. The poosy is most sensitive at the beginning anyway. Look at modern pron. All incest and shyte. Because somehow the same actress playing a step daughter triggers something else in the viewer than the same actress "just" being a horny sloot. The latter isn't enough anymore. Same thing with women. They'll get numb to enjoying just a romantic love making session.

 

[The Duke]

It's rarely one thing that turns a woman off enough to leave. But you get enough demerits next to your name and she will call it quits. A guy that comes too fast, is a selfish lover, can't get it up are demerits. I've heard all of these things from women I've dated in regards to their exes.