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  1. Barrister

    I am tired of blackpillers and anti-self improvement guys on here

    No dispute we are discussing hot women 18-29. Everything else though is just Exhibit A for black pill mindset and how it is self-defeating. It all comes down to SMV. Looks is just a part of the SMV equation, and frankly, the least important one.
  2. Barrister

    I am tired of blackpillers and anti-self improvement guys on here

    I won't speak for them, but I think on some level a lot of the black pillers (not all) are generally men who are not well-endowed in the looks department and think they are doomed from the very start for this sole reason. However, unless you have a true physical disability, a man always has...
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    Scar Down her Lower Stomach

    Did you ask any follow up when she said it was a tumor? Like - what kind of tumor, what she had to go through to get that taken care of, recovery time, etc. Stuff that kind of shows you care but at same time lets you do some investigating without making it really obvious that you want the...
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    I am tired of blackpillers and anti-self improvement guys on here

    You are nice to say so. And it can be hard to sift through the topics to find the gold -- probably harder now than it ever has been. I think over the years of being here you tend to recognize posters who you can trust what they say. Generally, sifting through their posts will let you uncover...
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    Help needed! Ask or not? And why?

    Obviously, asking for her number as soon as it can be done in a natural way is the best course of action. But I don't know why you wouldn't ask next time you see her. What do you have to lose? If she gives some excuse like "I have a boyfriend" etc., who cares? Just move on and go after some...
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    MMF threesome

    I agree you need to find this kind of thing out IF you are thinking of an LTR with a woman. And even then, it needs to be done so discreetly. I would never point blank as a girl something like this. Typically, this kind of information makes itself known the longer you are dating someone without...
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    Beautiful girl always putting up hoops

    You're overthinking this. As other have pointed out, accept this as a soft rejection and move on. She isn't interested in you for whatever reason. Don't become an orbiter and just feed her ego at this point. Second, she is actually doing you a favor. She sounds like a time-waster. You went on 4...
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    MMF threesome

    Agree you should never divulge your sexual past nor ask about hers for that matter. However, MOST normal, healthy women have not been in a threesome. The number is even less of women who have been in a MMF threesome. The couple of times in my life I was propositioned for being the second "M" in...
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    I am tired of blackpillers and anti-self improvement guys on here

    Good post, OP. This place really started to make a shift to more black-pill themed topics on a more regular basis about three years ago in 2020. It started to change once Covid hit - and maybe part of that is that a lot of guys were stuck inside feeling hopeless. I can't say for sure. What I...
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    Finally left my wife

    NC = No Contact. It is the "No Contact Challenge" pinned at the very top of the list of topics in the Don Juan Discussion section.
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    There is too much toxic male dating advice for younger men these days

    I am much less concerned about dating advice from any of the self-proclaimed gurus as I am the overall pvssification of our society in general by mainstream education, media, etc. That is where the worry should lie because that is being pumped into our children's brains at a young age, many...
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    Finally left my wife

    OP - good for you for pulling the trigger and dealing with a little bit of pain to gain your freedom. At first it really sucks but then once you are free from that bondage you feel like a new man. And being able to slay it again is quite a prize in itself. That said, I am sorry this didn't work...
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    Getting Started with Instagram

    I don't disagree that every man should be doing exciting stuff. But to me, Instagram is just a validation tool. I want to lead an exciting life - but I don't need to post about it every time I do something cool for others to approve and shower me with compliments. I also don't need to post about...
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    Getting Started with Instagram

    And if you're leading a very exciting lifestyle - like the one I mentioned, or you have a boat in the Atlantic, etc., I can see it working. Most guys don't though. Most guys work 9-5 then hit up the same bars, restaurants, and dives every single weekend. There are only so many times that taking...
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    Getting Started with Instagram

    The only way I would invest in Instagram is if I travel A LOT for my job where I can constantly be taking interesting pictures in different places - food, scenery, etc. Something that will draw a lot of attention. Otherwise, there is almost no purpose to it and it isn't going to help you with...
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    Too many options are making me less desirable?

    At the end of the day almost all women want to lock down a man for a long period of time. Sure, there are some out there who just want to bang but they are pretty rare. So naturally, when it becomes widely known that you are just out for a good time and women know when they see a new girl with...
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    Talking about redpill stuff with women

    Don't ever bring it up to women. Period. To mainstream people (women, blue pill simps, etc.), red pill is tantamount to being a misogynist. I am sure if you go onto a women's site that is aware of SS, we are perceived as women-hating Neo-Nazis here. Obviously, this isn't even remotely reality...
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    Rank the 3(Looks, Status, Money) from most important to least important

    OP, For just getting laid you have the correct sequence. However, for LTRs with hot women it is Status, followed by money, followed by looks.
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    Is "creepy" a skill issue

    Has someone actually described you as "creepy" or is this a fear you are projecting outwardly? It is sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you feel you are being creepy then you most likely are through awkwardness and lack of confidence. Conversation has to be free-flowing and non-contrived so...
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    Genetic diversity - there’s more to it than being ‘alpha’

    I think women generally want to have children with men who look similar to them but are masculine. Take a look at LTR couples and you will notice this trend. They share a lot of similarities outside of the obvious difference in gender. I think that is the only "genetic" argument that can really...
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