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Social proof is not the same as your social circle. There is some overlap there to be sure, but I mean more going out and running into a lot of people you know, some of them very affluent and distinguished members of the community. They come up to talk to you and you introduce them to the woman...

Most if not all women require some financial maintenance from the man. That doesn't mean putting money in her pocket or paying for a new car for her, but generally speaking the man ends up paying for more things tangentially connected to the couple's activities. Maybe that isn't true if she is...

If a woman is gearing up to be the dumper, she begins detaching herself during the relationship. It is part of the reason why they seem so cold during the actual breakup if they are the dumper (aside from the other obvious fact that others have mentioned that she can be in another LTR inside of...

As the fisherman don't believe what the fish tells you about bait. Since we are being anecdotal, when I was 33 I slept with 3 women who were 21 on the dot. My story has no more meaning than yours does, but you should never think something is impossible.

I will agree with you on the bolded portion. My post you responded to was obviously contingent on the man staying in good shape. And I would say only a very small percentage of men stay in good shape past age 30 let alone into their 40s. Most guys even in their 30s I know are beer guzzlers that...

If you stay in good shape, a man's true peak I think is around 45. Social proof continues to grow as you age and mid-40s is the perfect blend of still looking relatively youthful while still getting a bit of age on you (most women like this) and having lots of connections socially that make you...

Since I have been here in 2018, which admittedly is not long in the total life of the "manosphere," I have never seen any "shifting of the goalposts" or preaching that you need to be "a shredded Giga Chad" to get women. This all hyperbole not to mention a straw man argument. No one worth their...

I can relate to how you feel at times. Growing up, I was naturally an introvert and preferred to be by myself doing my own thing. As an adult in my early 20s, I at first had to consciously force myself into a mindset where I was going to enjoy meeting new people and being in huge groups of...

I agree it won't impact him if he is living in a small metro or larger community. And further agree nothing is completely permanent and you can bounce back from anything. But if he lives in a small community it will have the potential to affect his ability to pull there - at least on a temporary...

OP, a few things: 1. Why are you continuing to hook up with an ex-girlfriend? You have been here long enough to know this ALWAYS leads to trouble in some way. It is always a guess in the how but it essentially always does without fail. In this case, she essentially sabotaged your entire...

I am not saying you aren't making decent points because you are. But frankly, you can use this argument you are using against having any long-term relationship with a woman. And many do just that. There is merit to that stance, but if your implication is that 18-21 year olds are better suited...

The "wall" has always been a cope for men who are having trouble on the dating scene. Most people in general are going to physically start losing a step by 50 or so. This is a human condition. Suggesting that a woman has hit the "wall" by age 26 is beyond asinine. I would argue that those women...

OP, I am sorry you are going through this. It is never easy breaking up - especially with the high school sweatheart/first real relationship you have. I remember that well even years later. First, accept that it is over, because it is clear as day. Second, understand that you and your life are...

If we are talking pre-first date, the only way you are going to notice signs of a flake coming are if you are over-texting. She will be giving very short answers to your texts or taking incredibly long amounts of time to respond. Which is why you should only be texting to set up the date before...

My ex who was an attorney was "hot" IMO -- HB 8 category (which most female attorneys are not -- usually sub HB 6). Her personality though, was a net negative. She was easily the most "masculine" LTR I had been with in terms of personality -- very direct and frame wars were common. She looked...

I am not going to waste an experience on a random chick on Date #1. That's always a simple drinks date IMO. In fact, until I have slept with a chick I am hard-pressed to do anything other than drinks -- dinner included. This girl needs to prove herself before she gets a more involved experience...

Men have to desire women in order to go after them. Your friends that have turned into video gaming couch potatoes clearly don't have that drive. No amount of imploring or cajoling is going to get them to suddenly decide they want some pvssy. In fact, if anything, it likely will just make them...

She's got big boobs which is a +. Outside of that, I would say she is a HB 6 at best. Her bigger issue is she comes across entitled, b1tchy, and looking to tell the men she is with "how it is." Remember, men are the gate-keepers to relationships. So for her to at the outset tell you that she...

An act of disrespect is certainly a reason to NEXT a woman. However, most of the reasons given in this post are way too rigid IMO. I can't tell you how many lays I would have lost out on over the years if I had axed a girl in early stage dating because she didn't text me back for a few hours or...

Opening a door is a form of chivalry when it comes to people in general. It also demonstrates leadership when it comes to women specifically. Anytime you are ushering a woman in a physical or nonphysical way to go a certain place, there is an undercurrent of your dominance over her. By opening...