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OP, An incel who is actually trying is worth having here. Learning how game works and understanding female nature (along with bouncing back after a bad breakup and exchanging field reports) is probably one of if not THE primary purposes of SS. Generally, this place is to help men out with...

The fact you are getting additional dates is a good sign. It is a bad sign that she got angry with you over a kiss on the first date, but I do commend you for going for it. And I wouldn't say this is a lost cause since you did make out on Date 2. Many times, if a woman does not put out by Date...

I think if you are using it strictly for sex it will still work. I have a buddy who is 50, bald, about 5'8 and consistently cleans up on it. Now, he does have high SMV, but he is routinely scoring decent chicks (HB 6.5-7.5) in their early to mid 30s, which I would say is pretty good given his...

In my experience, most hot women (HB 8+), tend to be Cluster B. Probably due to the immense quantities of validation they have been given just based on their looks their entire lives. And what do Cluster B types generally thrive on in relationships? Conflict. So yes, hot women generally...

Give it another 3-4 months. Then it will be "you never listen to what I say and don't respect me!" Not that you will be doing anything different than you are now. It's just how they work.

Nothing "voodoo" about it. Just female nature. They are capricious creatures who will give in to every whim and mood change that they have. One day, you are Caesar, the next you are scum of the Earth because she didn't like the way you greeted her. Most women are strongly attracted to a...

OP, You're doing this wrong. Until you have "the talk" with the woman, you each are free to do whatever you want. You also shouldn't invest so heavily in ANY woman until that point. The fact you are sitting around worrying about her seeing other men means you have already lost here because you...

And I agree with that. I would never penalize the waiter/waitress for the kitchen screwing up. I will still give them the standard. When I mentioned poor service, it was in reference to the waiter/waitress being awful personally or messing up the order themselves.

I don't know all the ins and outs of the software behind it - that's interesting. But that Seinfeld episode (like most Seinfeld episodes) is a classic. It has just gotten to ridiculous levels. Leaving a tip for moving things onto a sandwich or plopping ice-cream and mini Reese's cups into a cup...

What do you guys do when it comes to tipping? Generally speaking, if I am being served by a waiter/waitress in a sit-down restaurant I will have my starting point be 20%. If the service is very exceptional, I will increase it. If the service is mediocre or even poor, I will decrease it. If it...

For those who haven't read Atlas Shrugged, it is an interesting, albeit very long and sometimes tedious read, on the effect of socialism vis-a-vis capitalism. It is what Ayn Rand is known for more than anything. And yes, she is vilified by most liberal colleges across America. As to OP - I...

OP, When it comes to texting before the 1st date, you just need to set it up, and then only text when she reaches out. Less is more. You want to be building up her anticipation and letting her wonder what you are up to before the date. @Glassguy and @Dr.Suave gave you good advice to a T on how...

OP, I didn't read that first post as being that you are "worn out" from dating so much as just worn out from going out a lot and socializing in general. I have been there before in my life as well, and I have found that having personal time is just as important as cultivating...

No one here, to my knowledge, has ever said that height has zero relevance in attracting women. All things equal, the taller man will be preferred over the shorter one. Just like all things equal, the guy with more money will be preferred over the one with less. This stuff is by no means rocket...

Based on what you described I wouldn't consider this "a bit much" by a longshot. Women aren't stupid contrary to a lot of opinions around here. They KNOW when they are crossing boundaries. Your problem isn't the charismatic 33 year old - your problem is your woman. Because if is isn't this guy...

OP, While I agree that something needs to be done, I don't agree with an emotionally charged response. You as the man have to always be in control and not give in to emotions. This woman's interest level in you, while possibly high originally, has clearly taken a hit and she is enjoying the...

Generally, I explain my position very clear ONCE. I also will listen to what she has to say and I will respond to it in a reasonable way. But I stick to my guns. I don't give in "just to get along." If she won't see reason and keeps nagging you have no option but to employ silence and distance...

Nice list, OP. My biggest thing I would have changed going back to my twenties, and especially my early twenties, was that I cared way too much what people (not just women) thought of me - I definitely had the blue pilled "nice guy" syndrome. It definitely permeated my dating life and probably...

It could mean that. But what I have found is that demanding "meaningful communication" is really just an extension of nagging at the end of the day. In every relationship I have ever had, I was always the direct and clear communicator - my women have had different levels of communication but...

On the surface, "eavesdropping" is certainly a common act by someone who is insecure and/or has trust issues and/or doesn't trust the person they are with. I am not sure if you are saying it is a positive trait, but I think if you are that is a tough sell to most people. I know that if I caught...