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  1. Barrister

    The harsh truth about social circle game

    I will admit that I literally almost never watch any of the current red-pill "gurus" online. If you stick with the fish analogy, the fish is always going to tell the fisherman that his pole will never work to catch him. Women will do the same. They don't want to feel like there is a solution for...
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    She can't let me go

    You won't be able to emotionally connect with any other women so long as this one is such a focal point. Now, I would argue you shouldn't even be trying to do that anyway at this juncture, but you need to decide what you want to do. I do think sleeping with other women solely for sex will help...
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    She can't let me go

    I think those things can certainly be involved to an extent - but when it comes to weening yourself off a Cluster B type it is much more that the rollercoaster of sex and fighting is a high and low of a drug. It is difficult to break off from that and can affect even the most confident of men. I...
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    New forum section: the blackpill?

    Except they won't stay there to post. And labeling posts or posters "black pill" can be very subjective. What I think qualifies may be completely different then what the poster thinks or what one of our mods thinks. Slippery slope.
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    Had sex but missed gym

    You keep skipping leg days to spend time with her she will probably be asking for a ring soon. That's real commitment.
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    The harsh truth about social circle game

    OP, No woman is ever going to "adhere" to red pill (and especially not black pill). If you even mention it to them, you are likely to get labelled a misogynist or worse since mainstream society doesn't really understand it - it is just viewed as a bunch of guys who want to take advantage of...
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    New forum section: the blackpill?

    Most of us red pill guys fundamentally disagree with the black pill ideology. But I am fine with them being integrated in this forum if they can be reasonable in discussion. What I don't like is the constant negativity that ends up overtaking a lot of threads where it just becomes a...
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    Chest hair

    I think most women like some chest hair on a man. The completely shaven look is something I think very young women might be into, but most women above the age of 25 that I have spoken to generally prefer some hair. If you have the carpet going though that will be too much.
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    Trying to Setup a First Date

    You keep mixing business with pleasure (not in a good way) and it doesn't work. Come on brother - "unreliable and dishonest" if you double book? You aren't double booking clients at your business. This is dating we are speaking of. A woman's opportunity to meet you and for you to properly screen...
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    Trying to Setup a First Date

    Most women are absolutely brutal to men when it comes to the dating world. I have had my shares of flakes over the years and frankly I have lost all disillusionment that women are overall "nice" and "understanding" when it comes to a man's time. They only care about their own time. So I have no...
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    Trying to Setup a First Date

    My friend, remember that "all is fair in love and war." Women will show you no mercy no matter how nice you are to them. Why you would try to give something that will never be reciprocated I have no idea - but that is your choice.
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    Trying to Setup a First Date

    Historically I have only ever done a "soft" double booking. Generally, the girl I am less interested in (Girl B) I will say I have a meeting/dinner already planned but assuming it works out we can meet at 9. Meanwhile, I have the one I am more interested (Girl A) in at 8 lined up. If the one I...
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    Trying to Setup a First Date

    I have to say I am surprised you hold this view. I wouldn't consider double-booking unethical at all. More like what comes around goes around. Women get to be flaky; men get to double book and make a choice (or if one flakes it gets real easy). Booking multiple nights in a row has merit, but it...
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    She doesn’t know what she wants

    OP, I don't mean any disrespect, but this seems to be a YOU problem more than this chick. And I don't say that just based on your OP here - I say that because I feel like your posts always have this theme. You get hooked way too easily on women and immediately come here and start posting about...
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    Have you ever received a heartfelt apology from a woman?

    Atom Smasher took the stance you never apologize. Period. Again, I don't think I would go that far. I would still offer an apology if I legitimately was an ass about something. It has happened a few times - but very rarely. I think many (maybe most?) men apologize far too often. I also think...
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    Have you ever received a heartfelt apology from a woman?

    I think our friend Atom Smasher had an entire thread on this. I believe he always stated a man should never apologize to a woman. Her female brain doesn't know how to process it other than as a form of weakness you are showing. I don't think I would quite go that far. If I legitimately do...
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    Mentors’ daughter?

    OP, This kind of falls in the "don't sh1t where you eat" thing. I agree with the others that if you are considering an LTR with this chick then you could do it and not fvck up the relationship with your mentor. But if you are not wanting an LTR this has more potential to hurt you long term than...
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    Have you ever received a heartfelt apology from a woman?

    I guess it depends on what you mean by "heartfelt." I have received an apology for very minor things. If you mean an apology because of their bad behavior in a relationship, yes, but ONLY when I am threatening to end the entire thing and they are scrambling to keep me in it. Then of course the...
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    How would you deal with this?

    You're in No Contact. That means no contact regardless of whether she is reaching out or not. Any type of response just opens the door to her either trying to get you back into her orbit or mind-numbing arguing. Either one is not what you need right now. Ignore.
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    Ufc fighter's wife cheats on him on wedding day. (With team mate/homie)

    Careful - we have a few white knight posters who will probably come to the defense of this chick's honor.
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