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    Females are the foundation of a life well lived.

    This made me laugh. Took me back to a out-west trip with my ex-wife that was literally ruined by her acting like a 5 year old the entire time.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Just rub one off (and don't fantasize about her while doing it) and move on, brother. If you are feeling especially horny in general, get on a dating app and start some swiping. These women aren't long term solutions, but they are low hanging fruit and can reach that "itch" you have right now so...
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    Females are the foundation of a life well lived.

    If life is a cake, females are the icing. Sure, they really tie the whole thing together and give it that final touch. But the foundation? Not at all. The main ingredients all come well before the icing comes into play. If this is your mindset you are setting yourself up to be very unhappy when...
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    Why Marriage Doesn't Really Make Sense Anymore

    To reiterate the point that @SW15 mentioned, no, longevity doesn't count for anything. Many blue pilled men stay in bad marriages for years, decades....sometimes their entire LIVES. Number of years a relationship go, by itself, doesn't indicate the health of the relationship. I think the...
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    Men need women more than women need men

    I can certainly see your point you are making, but in my experience having dated a multitude of women between 21-36 in the past few years, I think your post is, with all due respect, giving way too much credit to the female side of things. You are describing women from perhaps your generation...
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    Men need women more than women need men

    I think the phrase "men need women more than women need men" is very misleading. I think most women under the age of 40 are completely insecure in themselves and spend 80% of their time plastered to social media. And the reason ultimately is men's validation that they are seeking. Now, if you...
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    Walked out on my date, did I over react or stood up for myself…

    Yep -- pretty clear she not only is on the market for c0ck but also on the market for orbiters.
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    Walked out on my date, did I over react or stood up for myself…

    It doesn't necessarily get you locked into anything I agree. However, I think most women begin to develop an attachment and want more probably about 75-80% of the time after you have slept with her. I have also had women try to play it off like it isn't a big deal we slept together when in...
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    Walked out on my date, did I over react or stood up for myself…

    A man should never be cool with this. However, in this particular case, OP definitely made his bed by not doing any escalation at all in the previous three dates. So this chick's behavior, while not respectful towards OP, is completely predictable in this situation given OP's own misfires. Had...
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    Walked out on my date, did I over react or stood up for myself…

    OP, Until you have slept with a woman - as in - had sex with her, you are nothing to her at all. Kissing means jack sh1t. You were 4 dates in and had not really done much of anything let alone slept with her. You were heading straight into orbiter status for her and that is exactly how that...
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    Emotionally Unavailable Guy

    The issue is that being "emotionally available" is such a feminine phrase and reflects a feminine outlook. Generally speaking, women will use this as a placeholder term for whenever she doesn't see eye to eye with you - almost a form of gas lighting honestly. "Oh, you don't agree with me abut x...
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    Dating Career Women

    I think the primary difference is a woman who is puts her job as the absolute priority vs. one who will put her relationships with other people first. The former is the "career woman" archetype. You can still have women who are highly educated and successful even but not fall into that category...
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    Dating Career Women

    Most female attorneys are not attractive. My ex was one of the rare exceptions. And I think most "careerist" women are on average less attractive than non-career women - the legal profession is no exception. But there are always outliers. And yes - her looks definitely kept me in that...
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    Dating Career Women

    I have known many women like this. And frankly, I think it is unnatural. Women are hard-wired to want to raise their children in a very hands on way. Now, some lower income single moms don't have a choice. But the types we are discussing do and choose not to. I look at it as a red flag when it...
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    Dating Gurus' Ugly Girlfriends and Wives exposed

    I phrased it as getting blown - but yes, I DO think regular sex is incredibly high on the list of important expectations in an LTR. And kudos to you that you have never let things get to that point. In the past when I was blue pilled, I let things get to that point. The sex had dried up, she...
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    Dating Gurus' Ugly Girlfriends and Wives exposed

    "Novice level expectations" eh? Not sure if that is some indirect dig at me, but if you think you have it figured out otherwise then more power to you. I know nothing about Rollo personally at this point. I know he wrote a masterpiece about a decade ago. Maybe he has lost sight of things since...
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    Dating Career Women

    The problem is what you're describing here isn't a "career woman." You're describing a well-educated woman who has a career and meets a guy then decides to take on the mother/wifey role. She puts her kids and her marriage before the career. Yes, this is ideal for a marriage because she has...
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    Dating Gurus' Ugly Girlfriends and Wives exposed

    By itself, longevity of a relationship means absolutely nothing. If you are a high earner, you can keep around a b1tchy wife forever until the day you die if you want to because she is smart enough to know she shouldn't leave after a certain age because she won't do any better. What really...
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    Dating Career Women

    As @SW15 said I can speak on this having been in a relationship with female attorney for 2.5 years (HB 8.5). What I will say is that they generally are not going to be ones you want to sit down and try to do the whole marriage thing with. Their focus is on their career. I do think they are...
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    Harridan says men that aren't "smart enough" or "brave enough" to date older women date younger women instead

    Whatever helps her sleep at night. This is just cope and nothing else. Goes to show that cope doesn't strictly exist in the manosphere but also affects females the same. Everyone wants to feel like they're still good enough - so naturally they try to tear others down like this woman.
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