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Hmmm - you may be right. His use of quotes threw me off though considering that is generally used as a way to highlight what someone said verbatim.

Sounds like she is low interest from what you describe. If she has told you point blank "I just want to fvck" I would have responded "glad we're on the same page" and proceeded to invite her over to my place. Reading between the lines it sounds like "she just wants to fvck" guys other than...

I don't see anything about "loving to travel" or how much she loves wine. Otherwise, fairly on point.

This is exactly why you are 100% right. Did he do anything wrong by doing what he did? No - of course not. But in our feminized society where men are constantly put on blast over the most innocuous things you have to smart about these situations. It is especially perplexing when guys who...

Yes - I have posted about this before on here, but I generally can plate spin for about 6-8 months before I start getting tired of the constant traveling and date set-ups. There is a lot going on in life outside of the dating world. For that reason, I have generally tried to limit the # of...

What I have found is that women don't often appreciate the passive "providing" that we men (who typically are the breadwinners) do for them. You are approaching this very logically - you provided her shelter, provided her horse shelter, paid the bills for the home, paid the mortgage, etc. which...

Sorry to hear about this. You made the right decision - but that doesn't necessarily make it easy. Look on the bright side though - you get to go back out there and begin slaying again that much better than you were before this relationship. You seem to be in a good head space and ready to have...

A very good looking 45 year old woman still has a lot of options. And on average, she is going to have a lot more options than an average looking guy of the same age - especially with older men than her. And some guys are so blue-pilled and clueless that they still don't know what they're doing...

Agree that your best bet for banging a married chick is going to be one that is out on business. So if OP is living in a major city, perhaps hanging out at a local (upscale) hotel bar could be a tactic to take. Women, at least initially, are going to want to be discreet because they naturally...

Precisely. Most affairs begin at work. At a bare minimum, I think you would have to share a common location/interest and the affair buds from there. @SW15 's suggestion of meeting at a local fitness club or yoga studio has some merit for that purpose. I can't very realistically see many married...

Actually there are many posts regarding older women over the years here at SS. Especially from some of the classic guys like biggoal. Now, everyone wants an 18-29 year old, but this is a forum to discuss women of all ages. Women in their 30s and 40s are still going to be relevant on here.

From strictly protecting yourself from getting financially divorce-raped sure. But otherwise this is a complete non-starter for an LTR. If a woman earns more than you she sees you as beneath her. She will constantly try to control the frame of the relationship, making it toxic and untenable. So...

My experience has been that older women are usually freakier in the sack and more open to doing just about anything you want to them or doing to you. So from that perspective it is a positive. Otherwise, they tend to carry a lot more emotional baggage that you will deal with even if it is just a...

Again, you are choosing to view this through the lens of what is deemed "appropriate" and "acceptable" by mainstream society. Maybe OP simply enjoys being around the younger crowd because of the energy and atmosphere. I can tell you being almost 37 years old myself, I still enjoy the nightlife...

OP, The others are correct you need to sit down with her and set down some boundaries here. That much traveling is expensive for most anyone not to mention time consuming. If you are trying to start up a business your clients are going to be demanding a lot of your time to make that work. She...

You are letting society dictate to you what is "acceptable" for us as men and what isn't. There is nothing wrong with this guy going to this bar at all. Just like there is nothing wrong with the OP going to the bar he likes. So what if the bar is in a college town where college kids typically...

That guy probably doesn't care at all what you think. What is more, he probably takes poon home from the bar fairly frequently so it is working out for him. You are 28 -- just remember how you felt now in about 10 years and see if you still feel the same way.

Over-analyzing. If some young girls are put off by it who cares? You are still pulling women from there here and there, and if you genuinely enjoy the venue that is the important bit. The staff also enjoys you by the sound of it. And 29 years old is not "old" even for our lame society's...

If we are talking strictly casual sex with a plate or ONS, I have no idea why you would automatically axe out older women up to at least 50. Many women can still be very physically attractive in their 40s if they take care of themselves. They likely are fairly emotionally damaged if they are...

I believe that was in a thread where a poster stated in his OP that we needed to "rate" what was most important for getting a hot woman: looks, money, social proof. I said when it came to a ONS specifically, looks would be most important of the three. Specifically because the other two almost...