Becoming a male stripper

Pierce Manhammer

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I wonder. We all know that truth is stranger than fiction, and we often talk about the depravity we've witnessed from members of the opposite sex (women) when we come across it.

I would think that as a stripper, you might be in some situations with women that will prove that even your imagination wasn't enough to prepare you. If you want to pair bond later in life, remember this experience could change you for life.

The only analogy I can draw is how I felt after discovering that the world, relationships, and women were not what I'd been led to believe they were. It was jarring and led me into a deep depression for about a year before I decided to update my outlook and fiddle while Rome burned.

I ran roughshod through many women in the following years, then thought found my partner for life. That, too, ended abruptly, with no transgression I know of, but it ground to a halt, leaving me wondering WTF happened. It's been a few years since we had no contact, and she's texting again. But I'm not there anymore, I've moved on.

That said, it also changed my ability to pair bond, which is why, in my 50's, I spin plates endlessly, 5-6 at a time. I have not lost all hope, but I've lost most of it.

Best of luck, brother.
 
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I did this for a brief period in the early 1990s when I was in a Chippendale style show, in between being a student and getting my career going. The first couple of times it was a buzz but that wore off quite quickly and I soon packed it in (did it about 5-6 times in total).

It was, as a few posters have pointed out, basically an alienating experience. Frankly, you don't want women relating to you in that way - it is, after the initial excitement, essentially de-humanising.

I suppose it depends on your personality, but I regret doing it to be honest. Somehow it's not right.
 

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I wonder if those dancing bear scenarios really happens, the ones with the guy dancing naked and the women sucking his D and encouraging the others to do the same.
 

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Dont know. I geuss that if my hypothetical son would've told me this I wouldn't necessarily be proud of it. Something like that.

Then again , I've done many other things I cant be proud off..
You know what? Try it. You can always quit when you don't want to anymore.
 

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99% of your customers will be gays and unattractive middle aged women.
This was actually my first thought as well. You will get the occassional woman who likely is deserpate (sub HB 5) and some bachelorette parties. Many (if not most) will probably be homosexual that want a male stripper.
 

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I wonder. We all know that truth is stranger than fiction, and we often talk about the depravity we've witnessed from members of the opposite sex (women) when we come across it.

I would think that as a stripper, you might be in some situations with women that will prove that even your imagination wasn't enough to prepare you. If you want to pair bond later in life, remember this experience could change you for life.
I don't know. If you've ever seen porn, you can see that women will do all sorts of freaky things for money. And in my experience, a lot of that isn't too far from reality when it comes to what they're willing to try. I wouldn't judge people too much by their bedroom habits. Once you get the hormones flowing, people might do all sorts of things. It's almost like getting drunk in a way.
 
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