Pierce Manhammer
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I wonder. We all know that truth is stranger than fiction, and we often talk about the depravity we've witnessed from members of the opposite sex (women) when we come across it.
I would think that as a stripper, you might be in some situations with women that will prove that even your imagination wasn't enough to prepare you. If you want to pair bond later in life, remember this experience could change you for life.
The only analogy I can draw is how I felt after discovering that the world, relationships, and women were not what I'd been led to believe they were. It was jarring and led me into a deep depression for about a year before I decided to update my outlook and fiddle while Rome burned.
I ran roughshod through many women in the following years, then thought found my partner for life. That, too, ended abruptly, with no transgression I know of, but it ground to a halt, leaving me wondering WTF happened. It's been a few years since we had no contact, and she's texting again. But I'm not there anymore, I've moved on.
That said, it also changed my ability to pair bond, which is why, in my 50's, I spin plates endlessly, 5-6 at a time. I have not lost all hope, but I've lost most of it.
Best of luck, brother.
I would think that as a stripper, you might be in some situations with women that will prove that even your imagination wasn't enough to prepare you. If you want to pair bond later in life, remember this experience could change you for life.
The only analogy I can draw is how I felt after discovering that the world, relationships, and women were not what I'd been led to believe they were. It was jarring and led me into a deep depression for about a year before I decided to update my outlook and fiddle while Rome burned.
I ran roughshod through many women in the following years, then thought found my partner for life. That, too, ended abruptly, with no transgression I know of, but it ground to a halt, leaving me wondering WTF happened. It's been a few years since we had no contact, and she's texting again. But I'm not there anymore, I've moved on.
That said, it also changed my ability to pair bond, which is why, in my 50's, I spin plates endlessly, 5-6 at a time. I have not lost all hope, but I've lost most of it.
Best of luck, brother.
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