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  1. Barrister

    Marriage question

    I am certainly not saying that doesn't happen. It does. For both sides. But if we are talking about the children specifically, they will be better off in a long-term (healthy) LTR/marriage than with only one parent.
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    Marriage question

    He is right. But that is only part of the story. And the fact a "contract" exists is immaterial. Children raised in healthy marriage (or long-term LTR) are generally more happy than ones that aren't. However, I would say children raised in a nasty marriage (or LTR) where the couple is...
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    Sorry Guys, Science Says Women Care Quite a Bit About How Tall You Are

    Women liking tall men isn't exactly breaking news. Like we always say, it is a combination of things. The most important is social proof, the second is money, and the last is looks. Yes, looks are still important, but they are probably the least of the those big 3. Only exception is if a woman...
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    Marriage question

    At a minimum, I would say you should date 1 year prior to getting married. Typically, your "honeymoon phase" will last at least six months where you feel like everything is golden. Letting that wear off a bit and seeing how it plays out is smart. Keep in mind that there are certain events in an...
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    Dane Cook married a 24 year old at age 51!

    Social proof is a powerful motivator for women to be attracted to men. In fact, it is probably more important than the $ itself, although the two become interlinked many times. It is why big time actors (DiCaprio) are going to be seen as higher SMV that a guy who is just rich. Remember the the...
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    What Women Think About Monogamy

    99% of women want to lock down a single high value male. Before they get to that point (if they ever do in their minds), they are more than happy to have a lot of male orbiters that provide validation to them (you see this the most with Narcissistic Cluster-B types). Sometimes, they will even...
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    mall game is dead

    When I say "older" I am saying 35+. Not super old but not "young and fertile" like most of the posters at SS are gunning for. And honestly, approaching workers isn't difficult. They are generally very friendly and I have had success with it in the past. Many times you will get the "I have a...
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    mall game is dead

    "Better Call Saul!"
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    Should I have kicked this disrespectful 304 out of my house?

    First, this woman is a love bomber and clearly cluster B. So you dodged a bullet there. Second, she was testing you to see if she had you completely hooked. Giving her a nonchalant response was the way to go. Had you done anything more ("What? Why would you do that?!") she would know she had her...
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    mall game is dead

    You can get women at malls, but I would say in the past I have actually had more success gaming a store clerk than I have a random woman in the mall. Typically, younger women will be at the mall with a boyfriend/husband. Older women will many times be shopping alone and can be approached if...
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    Talking to this high caliber lady

    You were talking to an alleged "HB 9 Asian woman" who you never met in person and believed that she was "high caliber" based on some long distance communication having never met her in person. Without knowing anything more, your warning bells and bullsh1t detector should have both been...
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    Talking to this high caliber lady

    Call me naive, but I honestly don't think he is trolling. Which is scary.
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    Talking to this high caliber lady

    Corrector, Haven't you been here long enough to understand how some of this stuff works by now? I am floored by the fact you even thought this was semi-legitimate from the first drop. For a guy who has religiously been a part of SS for over a decade it is mind boggling. If not for your...
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    Jealous boyfriends

    Why do you care enough to even let this bother you? Take it as a compliment you are getting signs of interest from these women. Even if they are below your own subjective standards. Agree with the others as well that if a man has to "mate guard" his woman his days with her are numbered.
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    Why are guys under the age of 35 or never been married calling themselves Red or Black Pilled

    No - just guys with actual real world (and women) experience. Hence why your word salads continue to be dismantled with little effort.
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    Why are guys under the age of 35 or never been married calling themselves Red or Black Pilled

    OP, You seem confused on what the Red Pill is and also misinformed in that no one who believes in Red Pill sees Rollo as a "head honcho" or a leader of the cause. Rollo is best know for Rationale Male which put a lot of how a woman's nature works to paper. It was a little verbose in parts but...
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    Is Pook's book still good? Don't we need PUA things?

    The short answer: Yes, all of Pook's teachings are still good and can get you women. The long answer: men continue to, on a whole, become more and more blue or black pilled, and women continue to become more disconnected from reality and live in the world of social media where the number of...
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    The Anti-Flake Methodology

    I am not saying that maybe your method didn't lessen the flake rate (although I am not convinced of that), but frankly I would never use this. Generally speaking, many women I have set dates up with love to build rapport prior to the date and one of the easiest rapport building text exchanges is...
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    match with HB7 on Match, got number. Worth the drive?

    A number of years ago following my divorce I lived in a very small town (population 9000). While it wasn't Chicago, or even the smaller urban area I am in now, there were plenty of good looking, available women both in that town and in the surrounding area. Many of them were even HB 7-7.5 but...
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    match with HB7 on Match, got number. Worth the drive?

    That isn't a red flag to stop you from going out with her. The distance is a little much for a first date though - hence why @EyeBRollin hit the nail on the head about meeting halfway. Not only does that lessen your drive time to something more reasonable for a first date, but it also lets you...
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