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If you have any question to starting a relationship, then you shouldn't start a relationship. And secondly, you ALWAYS let the woman come to you with the proposition (typically they do this in as round-about a way as possible without directly asking) for a relationship so you know the investment...

A woman of a bygone era. Like most good things in our society it is becoming a thing of the past.

Not so much that I forgot but I didn't know you were a father or divorced. I am the same. And I can tell you that many times this degradation of the relationship is out of the man's control. No matter how tight his frame is. It comes down to the woman and her (unrealistic) expectations. I am...

You seem to be describing how women generally get handled in either plate status or STRs. The sad reality is that after a certain amount of time in an LTR (usually 5 years), this line in the sand approach only goes so far. They typically just become sullen, start shutting down, and giving you a...

My problem in an LTR has always been the hypocrisy. A woman shouldn't expect us to drop everything to do some inane activity she feels is important in that moment unless she is willing to also have sex whenever and wherever we want it. We all know how that works and how society views it as well...

Our society in general is mostly weak-minded, helpless people. Men and women. But as to women, they are brainwashed by our society and media (men are as well to a lesser extent). But when it comes to hot women specifically - they are warped mentally by social media where they can go take a sh1t...

If I had to guess she probably has a recent ex-boyfriend that she isn't over. She was at the club to find someone to fvck around with but you lost the momentum from going to the club to your place because she started to overthink things and may have a bit of an anti-slut defense on top of it. It...

Guys get into way too much trouble worrying about this kind of thing. The old rule used to be 3 days to text after the 1st date unless she reached out first. At the end of the day, that rule existed to admonish men who are overly thirsty and wanting to spam text a chick they just took out for...

OP, Reading between the lines, this is not a good situation for you. Her suddenly telling you what you want to hear is classic Narcissistic behavior. These women are generally masters at "push/pull" dynamics and she is playing you like a fiddle. I really hope I am wrong because you seem like a...

I have lost most interest in watching p0rn, although I will still look maybe once every 5-6 months if the fancy gets me. I did have a problem many years ago with watching it A LOT in high school. What I have found is the less I watch the less I care about watching it. The more I have watched...

OP, I just read a good chuck of this thread (not all). Clearly, your mind has been clouded by the woman here who is acting as a drug. You know better than this. She sounds like a Cluster B Narcissist who will never have enough validation - hence her seeking it from as many sources as she can...

Everyone involved is an adult. There is nothing you can do except get yourself into some sh1t you wished you hadn't. Without knowing anything else, ask yourself if someone told you they tracked down a confidential therapist and actively tried to interfere with said therapy of the individual they...

Couple of things: 1. You are overthinking the exchange specifically. She looks like she is responding in a normal, interested way. I am not sure what you are concerned about exactly. If you haven't met her yet I would say her responses are perfectly fine. 2. I agree with some others. Nothing...

Good post, OP. This site needs more LTR-geared postings like this. Because while the overall rules remain the same for the most part in how you deal with women, somethings do change a bit. I have found that most women in an LTR rarely apologize. Normally, they will do something nice for you as...

Nothing wrong with pvssy-cats is there? Not dating "at all" in her 30s would be a red flag. Not that I buy that for a second. But really, any woman who is hot and single past 30 has some at least some latent red flags. Just based on what you're describing, there is no reason to not at least...

OP - this post by soulforge at the beginning of this entire thread is 100% spot on. Not only is your "friend" a POS that should immediately be cut out of your life and discarded into the rubbish pile, you also need to set down some very clear boundaries with your girlfriend now and if she gives...

Most people are insecure about one thing or another. And an even higher percentage of women than men are insecure. I have found that the insecurity is generally more noticeable the hotter the woman is. If you are dealing with a HB 9, her insecurity over her looks is generally much more...

In any cold approach, you need gauge the woman pretty quickly. It is about creating some good vibes right away but not overstaying your welcome so to speak unless she is really reciprocating interest. If you are at the end of the exchange so to speak, either ask her to join you somewhere else if...

This kind of mindset is pointless to have. Obviously, if you left "something good" it wasn't that good or you wouldn't have left it. There is certainly something to be said that the grass is NOT always greener on the other side. But let's not act like there usually isn't something to us looking...

What you just said was a complete non sequitur to what I did. I know you enjoy being a contrarian on here but what I said has real life application. You can choose to disagree and that's fine. But it doesn't invalidate anything of what I wrote.