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OP, You aren't giving a lot of information here for us to respond with whether her initial comment was out of line and whether your response was too much or not enough. From what you have described thus far, it sounds like you both made a mountain out of a mole hill. When she reached out the...

The song was obnoxious and still is. Not getting why you are labeling it "black pill" though. The "pill" ideology only applies to men and their disposition to women's true nature. How is a song about a girl giving out her number to a guy "black pill" in any way?

Guys even in horrible marriages have hope. Stop whining, open the checkbook, and write whatever amount of $$$ it costs to make her go away and leave your life (relatively speaking - if you have kids, well, you get to deal with her on a limited basis - but still huge improvement). Even if you...

Gambino, With all due respect, you have been a part of this community far too long to make a post like this. It just goes to show you (and all of us) the power a woman's vagina has over us in certain situations. They really are a drug. You are clearly a guy who is addicted to the rollercoaster...

This was kind of a brutal (and by that I mean "blunt") exchange with her after the fact. I think you could have been much more playful. Regarding the OP - did she tell you she planned to stay and then didn't? If she didn't say one way or another, then I think you shouldn't have been shocked by...

Once you know how to be charismatic and seductive naturally you don't need to worry about all of the "tactics." Most of the rules exist for the guys who haven't been in the dating game very long and don't know how to apply themselves throughout interactions with women -- generally either 1st...

I have to agree with @Bokanovsky . Putting a ring on the woman's finger is the quickest way to go from hero to doormat in a woman's eyes. Multiply that ten-fold once you begin having children with her. You keep a woman on her toes by withholding that ultimate commitment. Some women will exit if...

I wouldn't have any personal knowledge of non-Anglo cultures and how they perceive beauty and react to it. But I suspect you are right. I think the combination of Disney-princess and men being programmed that they must prove themselves to women (especially beautiful women) over decades plus has...

OP - I don't disagree with you. But it is how we as men are wired. That is what we want. And it is what advertisers play to because it makes them $$$. Trying to push back on that is futile. Doesn't mean you can't control your own urges, but subconsciously you still want what you want.

Respectfully, I disagree with this outlook. This sounds logical and makes sense on surface level. But I can tell you this isn't how this plays out IRL. First, many women significantly lower than your SMV eventually begin to buy in to their own BS so to speak. She will think she is as good as...

Nicholson or Spike get shown probably once per broadcast for those games. Sometimes not at all. Swift gets shown on probably 90%+ of plays that Kelce makes a catch even if its for minimal yardage. It isn't the same.

I agree with a lot of what you say. However, I don't think it has all that much to do with the "conservative right" so much as it is just flat out annoying. Swift is an annoyance generally speaking. Watching an NFL game is an escape for most of us from the general grind of day to day sh1t. We...

Swift is a product of our dumb, silly society who wants to make-believe Swift is this innocent and flawless woman who has beaten the misogynists that have always taken advantage of her (brilliant PR move by Swift honestly - her dumb fans buy her old albums in HER version that are identical and...

If you have to ask you already know the answer. That is a lot of "flags" you have come up with out of the gate. You are 24 years old. I would resist the temptation to fling yourself into an LTR. The older I have gotten the more and more I realize how we men get more and more SMV as we progress...

Looks are most important to women who are on the prowl simply for sex. But otherwise, it goes in this order of magnitude IMO for women's attraction: Social Status/Proof >>>>>>Money>>>>>>>>>>>>Looks They all matter, and social status and money are generally closely tied together (but not...

"Short and to the point" might work depending on your delivery. However, I prefer a more friendly, charismatic approach when I do cold-approach. But that is not to say it isn't possible to overstay your welcome. During that exchange, if you get the point where you aren't able to organically keep...

OP, This is more about deciding what is important to you in your life. Do you want to grind with 70 hour work weeks and have wealth? Or do you want to cultivate relationships where you get meaning from said relationships but maybe don't have quite the financial wherewithal that you would if you...

In my experience, whenever I have had a woman say this it is just a challenge. She is looking to see if you are going to press the envelope on things and still try to get something (which as a DJ you should always be escalating). I think it is even higher than 50% that she will eventually put...

Ah the classic coming here for advice and then throw a low-grade insult when you hear something you don't like. I suppose you may be right -- it is a matter of perspective. On the other hand, young grasshopper, you clearly have little experience. And it shows. You would do well to listen to...

Is this a woman you are in an LTR with? If so, I could see HOW it MIGHT be a red flag depending on the company she has at this weekly brunch. But that depends. If you are talking about a chick you are dating casually? No - it is not a red flag anymore then you liking to go get beers with your...