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The other guys already nailed this. You simply ask him what his relationship is with her and tell him she has been giving clear signals she is interested in you. He likely will warn you about her (hence why he is just fvcking her and not something more) and then tell you to go for it. That has...

I would venture a guess that there is more than what meets the eye with these guys you are labeling as ugly, broke losers. No guy accidentally snags a hot chick. Nor are there any hot chicks out there who love men with nothing going on for themselves.

This is easy to answer. Looks matter for a certainty, but they are far less important than social proof and influence (which can be further split into money and power). If you have those two things in abundance, your looks become far less important. Now, there are still certain venues or...

Take it easy. We're all friends here. I didn't notice he had replied with regular font within one of your posts. No use getting so fired up.

I read it - and I think you are assuming something that isn't the case. He said they are spending almost every day together -- not that they are exclusive. He also said he likes being in a committed relationship and wants to "develop that with her." Until there is a clear discussion that two...

OP, You are over-analyzing this. I think your reply was fine. Time to just sit back and do nothing if she doesn't respond. Circle back to her AFTER next week (don't suddenly reach out after you said you were busy) if you don't hear anything. A lot of times there is no rhyme or reason to why...

Not sure what point you're making here. If they aren't exclusive neither one of them owe the other anything. However, OP says he likes her and this trip is making him nervous because he's worried she is getting railed by a bunch of guys on the trip -- hence my original advice. I am not sure what...

I guess that didn't resonate with me as "cheating" since I am not 100% clear they are exclusive per se. It is more the pre-LTR phase where they really like each other and are feeling it out and moving towards an LTR.

If you two have only been together for a couple of months then it probably is legitimate that she already had this planned out. I understand your concern about it fully because I would also be concerned. I think in a way you can look at this trip as a true litmus test for whether this woman is...

This is only a band aid. If you aren't fulfilled by this woman it will become an issue for you -- kids or not. Don't be one of the many people who stay in a bad/unfulfilling relationship "for the kids." You will be unhappy and as a result your kids will suffer. I agree with giving it more...

It is tough to swallow the red pill and then go back into the "happily ever after" mindset. It is possible with the right woman. But I question whether you have the right woman (and no, I don't mean "the one" which is a flawed concept altogether, just a woman who works with you for long term)...

Frankly, I wouldn't waste your time with this woman any further. I think I would basically give her a sort of "ultimatum" type offer of meeting me out for a drink very close to your pad on X date (you choose the place, time, date). If she fudges at all on that I would just next her and move on...

How did you meet this woman? Also, why do you feel like this is worth the investment in your time for someone you have never met and likely will never have anything more with than being some long-distance buddy? Use your time to improve yourself or at a minimum find women close by who can offer...

OP, You should have known the night wasn't going to end well once the friend and her date effectively joined you for the long haul that evening. This isn't something a woman does/allows who really wants to be out on a date with a man she is interested in. You said you had beat around the bush...

Reach out fairly quickly. Two days max but I would recommend less to avoid making it obvious you are being intentional. Once you have her talking you can take longer for your responses. Otherwise, yes, women these days have the attention span of a toddler and some other guy will occupy her...

Why would you give a person this kind of power over you? Asking her not to tell anyone was akin to handing her your balls on a plate. She knows now that she has something on you. Not to mention it probably dried her up a bit to hear that. Regardless, I am unclear on your relationship with the...

There is no magic bullet out there. However, having good to great social skills with people in general (not just women), dressing well, and having some semblance of a career are great starting points. Obviously, that is all easier said than done. But most men can get themselves there if they are...

This isn't a big deal. But women don't see it that way. However, it isn't in the way you may think. They actually think you aren't attracted to them and there is something wrong with them and immediately start second guessing themselves. Is it salvageable? Yes, ask her out again and I would...

Having female friends is good social proof for your dating life with other women. They see other women who are friendly for you and gives you an instant boost in attractiveness to the ones you DO want to date. That said, the complaints in the OP make sense if you are looking at them as if they...

I think "love" as a concept is a difficult one when it comes to romantic relationships. I have found myself in the past thinking I am doing something because I "love" someone. In reality, there usually is a deeper reason to me doing it. We are just programmed ("blue pilled" in some cases) to...