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    Avoided emotional tampon situation or being an jerk?

    Abe, yeah maybe I didn't realize the importance of it to her. Would you suggest a text or call later today? Or let her cool off first? She can be pretty stubborn sometimes and I'm sure she'll be not to welcome to me trying to back peddle.
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    Avoided emotional tampon situation or being an jerk?

    I know how she is, so saying sorry is kinda pointless now and I didn't do anything wrong. She didn't want to talk abt it last night texted me earlier she's so annoyed and then expects me to call her?
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    Avoided emotional tampon situation or being an jerk?

    So my gf had court today for with her daughters father over legal matters and visitation. She called me last night seemed very not in mood to talk and I asked her about tmw she said she didn't want to talk about it. I know she was bothered by this court matter but I wasn't going to press. So...
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    Gf getting ****y or just playing around

    In2game yeah i replied something similar to that lol and she liked it. I guess you have to be just as ****y back when these comments come up.
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    Gf getting ****y or just playing around

    Okay guys quick question on how to deal with gf who knows she has "it" not gonna lie she is attractive and sexy. Recently we had a night out in the city overnight and gave me a suprise, dressed up in lingerie and heels. It was hot. But now she's kinda using it as a leverage type of thing...
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    Post-abortion: Relationship doomed?

    After reading this entire post, I couldn't help but make note of support for mother to keep the child and avoid abortion. Granted there are many situations similar to OP, and accidents or unplanned events happen, yet this forum seems to chastise single mothers. When they accepted the child and...
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    Observation

    Yeah is agree with both of you guys. My response is oh that's cool, and start talkin about somethin else. Basically unfazed by her remark. It's funny the lengths girls will go to or say to make them seem valuable in your eyes but I guess if the girl is doing this it's a good thing.
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    Observation

    Something that I have been noticing. Before sosuave I would bite the bait. Girls sometimes while talking to you will try to increase their value indirectly. Example: "I was at a bar last night and this guy tried to ask me to marry him." Or "Today at work, this guy was staring at me and...
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    How'd I do? She was making me chase, I shut it down

    OP, I'm in somewhat similar situation as you. Spun the plate close to 10 months and no exclusiveness as in going outright and asking her to be my girlfriend. I didn't have much of plates spinning at the time and I was suprised I held back for so long, but anyways long story short same thing...
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    Truth or lie

    Yeah I feel you guys. I notice myself getting emotionally invested in her outcome. I need to step back. She even text last night around midnight that she can't sleep and feels like crap. Seems like overselling to me but maybe that's just my insecurities talking. If she does cancel, I'll...
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    Truth or lie

    So couple days ago I set up a date for tmw night with old fwb/gf it's complicated anyways, I've already gone out for drinks with her so this isn't first date session. Her son got sick couple days back, and tonight she texts me that she thinks she caught her sons flu or whatever. Interest has...
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    Scared to breakup?

    Bomb first man. What if sticking with her and regret instead years spent working on yourself and or meeting another girl with huge amount of interest. And if you bomb first she will come back down the road, whether you want her or not is up to you. But if she breaks up with you slim chance for...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I've been NC since last Friday when, my ex texted me she thought of us on New Years, such a joke, yeah wasn't enough to text me at midnight or ask to see me. I'm not going to be her validation anymore, I have good days and so-so days but overall when I don't see her callin or texting it helps to...
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    No Fap Challenge Progress

    A common trend I see on this thread is, day 1, day 1, fapped back at day 1. Reality is most of us probably been choking the bishop since we were 14, and majority of users I feel like are in their mid 20s some older some younger. That's easily a decade of fapping, going cold turkey would...
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    Need help guys

    So thankfully I didn't text, I was pretty drunk when I found out and luckily my phone died. Good advice from both of you. No point in acting vengeful, really have nothing to gain. She did do me a favor, and I'm moving on. She's def texting me probably cause she's unsure of new dude. Either...
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    Single Mothers Equals Bad News

    Very true, there's nothing that says beta more than a man in a LTR with a single mother. Esp if you have no kids yourself, in her eyes she'll will wonder why a single dude with options no kid is dating her. Subconsciously you already fed her ego immensely. Most of these women are broken and...
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    Need help guys

    So today I found out my ex is talkin to her coworker which is one of reasons I broke up with her. I want to text her, basically affirming my suspicions. Tellin her off, etc. my emotions are all over the place. I've been ghost since Sunday.
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    Date

    Yeah sorta was, not doing that **** again. Girl seems into me tho, gonna wait til she hits me up again set up some late drinks meet up and escalate from there.
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