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Thanks for the rep merit I really don't have any plates or much going on right now and that's okay because I took the first step in doing what's right for myself. Her attractiveness and sex, plus the few great months in the beginning was clouding my judgement. I finally realized and asked...

^^^ wish I told myself at 15 lol

Advice on thread was golden. Phone call was hard to do as I know moving out was big deal for her. But her response was all about her and she was pissssed, granted I did end it without her consent but I had to do what I had to do. She even said well you don't have a gf anymore lmaooo...

Keyword "co workers" they are not going stop going out and always going to be in her ear abt how fun it was when they went out etc.

Sat in car for 20 mins and thank god for my friend to give me little extra push but I walked into lease office and ended it. Thankyou everyone for words of wisdom.

You guys have no idea how much sense you put in my head, and one of my closest friends. I thought abt it all night and wrestled it a lot. This morning I was in position to tell her I wasn't moving in and that's that. Well I showed up and told her id look at the place once more, at this point...

Then she's busy lol stop stressing about it. Wait few days again and set a date, no counter offer then next her.

Kiss on the cheek?? Only cheek I'm kissing is butt cheeks! Lmao jk. Been there man sometimes you have to CREATE an opportunity yourself. There's no right time just man up and do it! Otherwise from sound of it you're heading down friend zone quick. And why should she mention plans?! That's...

She def felt rejected and most likely YOU pushed her away by not giving her commitment, the constant dodging the issue hurt her feelings deep down and basically was rejection in her eyes(she thinks she's not worthy enough for you) so in order to protect herself and ego, she withdrawls. Why...

I've received huge amount of advice, really appreciate it guys and I wish every man should know about sosuave only if they contribute lol Just wanted to update you guys, for those who have been on thread since day 1. sunday night: argument went down no resolve and got off phone heated and...

I agree, I have tendency to not think logically and instead of how I feel. And look where that has got me. I don't like what I hear from outside sources or sometimes choose to overlook it, but you guys and my friends think with pure logic because obv you guys have no emotional/feelings towards...

So she just texted me the landlords number he needs to ask me questions etc, it's funny how no over convo topic has been made since that phn argument, she text me abt some showing yesterday then got mad I couldn't make it and called me this morning sayin we got selected for this spot. I can't...

Guys thanks for all the words and I do realize you only have a sample of my relationship, given the fact there was good and also bad. Hearing outside sources helps. I'm trippin right now! She just called me and told me one of the apartments we put a app in awhile ago called her this morning...

She's def crazy, so after awhile she replied with "there's an apartment I want to look at, they are showing it at 6."(we have been looking prior to this argument.) WTF?!! After last night she drops this, like we didn't even have a heated convo. Wow Seems weird she would switch back to normal...

UPDATE: guys so she just texted me what time am I off. Preemptive strike? I know she's going to wanna talk and possibly dump I'm almost sure. Should I hear her out or just go and bomb before she says anything?? Need advice

I would want to remain calm but I don't want to be victim of branch swinging and or her lying now about going out etc. I really think that convo put me half way out the relationship and I need to take action before she dumps me. The common trend on here most posters say is "willing to walk...

Epi-yeah I agree with you, worst part is her girl friend posted it on ig and majority of her gfs were there, my biggest concern now is how does that make me look (like a chump/sucker) I don't care if it's a high school buddy/BFF dude. (That's what they all say) i keep trying to envision a...

I agree with above, problem today is girls use "double standards" and try to be all righteous because their egos are blown up due to social media basically abundance mentality on steroids is a women's Instagram account. We had arguments about clubbing and she even did disrespectful **** while...

Appreciate feedback guys. I don't want a girl to be a nerdy square but going out and clearly getting pretty drunk without your bf there and this is not first occasion is not a real relationship in my opinion. What sucks is I do love her and she clearly doesn't see that. I'm just a...

It's just my approach was telling her as her boyfriend I don't like my gf gettin hella drunk in the club. People can use trust as a blanket to hide behind or free pass to do as you wish. I just felt as a man if somethin bothers you, to tell her girl. She didn't see it as that and made it out...