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i just came out of a 2 year relationship, I'm a little rusty so was looking for some tips. @marmel75 take your rants somewhere else bro, if you don't like the title or what am asking why waste your time to respond? I'll PM you next time what's an appropriate title and if my question on a forum...

Escalating to that kind of frame is what I meant

Okay so I potentially might have a new plate...started flirty text here and there. Pulled the number from the bar, she's a mutual friend of a friend, we all went out. I was preoccupied with work and what not thoughout the week...she actually mentioned we should grab drinks this weekend. A...

I agree with the posters, once a girl makes up her mind to dump you it's a wrap at that point and anything, I mean ANYTHING, you say to her in regards to the relationship will be used against you. You have to simply walk the fvck away, I did some major beta sh*t and even cried in front of...

Agreed.

The caveat to this tho is I unfortunately work with her as well. But if she tries to cause a scene at work she can risk losing her job. So I don't think she will do anything.

So she's threatening small claims court, there's nothing in writing saying I was gonna pay her back the money. Does she have grounds? She's texted my friends now I owe her money since she's blocked...smh. Maybe if you didn't kick me out, you'd have money from me. I bet she doesn't have...

Valid points, I agree with being able to master others if you can master yourself. Maybe cluster b girls have done this by accident, almost in a way that they control their ego by default of their condition therefore can pull the heart strings of lovers and not be affected by it. It's...

In order to heal, you gotta feel. Emotions are tools or byproducts of our interactions? The more I go through my journey the more I realize the human mind can and will do what it pleases if you don't consciously stop it. There is you and then there is the mind, ego runs majority of your...

Im convinced she wanted to move her friend in all along and I was more of a crutch to get the move in going, at least from how she's treated the situation post break up feels that way. She's 22 , age wins, even if you think they're mature.

It was when I still lived there, most of my friends said screw her, but to save face I think I'm gonna still pay her back. She even reached out to my grandmother that I owe her money, which is low. Why get my family involved? Smh. I've been nc for weeks now.

Fellow DJs I need some advice.... Long story short, LTR ended of 2 years, after we moved in together. Timeline ---started talking/hooking up which lead to more dates and beginning to be main plate. We started to get close and then she had to move back home. ---long distance for a year...

Interesting point that the red flag women are fake....it's almost as if you go date one of these women they almost set the bar for furture relationships. Even though they are obv not sustainable, the emotional highs are addicting. Can this be found in a normal girl? I don't think so.

Been about 3 weeks NC, even though I still work with her, fvcking sucks. I was weak today, came close to texting her but luckily I texted some friends instead and talked me outta of it. It's like when I feel pain and hurt I think she has to too? Right? I mean she's a girl she should be, but...

@SuckItUp I agree, but how do you change something inside your head that prob has been there since early childhood, I'm 31 now and I've fell victim to two cluster b women. I'm at the point now where i don't even trust my own judgement for entering a LTR, and am going to stay away from one for...

I think being grounded is huge, once your grounding isn't solidified you become dependent and come off as a man without a mission which I feel girls find unattractive. I'm a decent looking guy, prob a solid 6 maybe could pull off a 7-8 if I got into the gym and dressed better. But I keep...

I've dated a single mother and even though I'm def considered beta, I still had reservations about the kid. I think no options and having a very attractive girl be so into you is what does it for most, to the point you overlook the kid in a way. I'll never get into another one with a single...

Thanks for the replies guys.... @Infern0 i appreciate the support bro. I needed the ass kicking, to be honest I thought I had a grasp on the relationship when it began, she was literally butter in my hands. But slowly, bit by bit my insecurities started to creep in my head. It's weird cause...

Back to sosuave, I thought I had a grasp of the game and things I learned from the forums. I was wrong. The last 2 years have been an emotional rollercoaster for me, some extreme highs and very low lows. Decided to share my story.... I dated a BPD single mother for 3 years on and off, the...

@KrisD Your situation hit home for me. Very similar on many levels. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 1.5 years, a year of which was long distance. We decided to move and get a place together. Well 1 month into it she all of a sudden doesn't want to live together anymore. I was...