Fellow DJs I need some advice....
Long story short, LTR ended of 2 years, after we moved in together.
Timeline
---started talking/hooking up which lead to more dates and beginning to be main plate.
We started to get close and then she had to move back home.
---long distance for a year almost, we saw each other once a month, sometimes more. Talked about moving in together.
--we find a place, I move pretty much away from friends and family to live with her.
Things are great until 2 months in...
Breakup---she hits me with I don't want to live together anymore, but still wants to date, I said fvck that, due to the planning and talking for months about living together for her to just change her mind? I end it.
She goes to visit her friends over the weekend, and says her girl friend got kicked out and needs to move in. So here I was not only living with my ex, but now also with her friend. It was horrible. She acted like it wasn't even a big deal. She started to act really cold towards me and even said very hurtful things in arguments.
So she fronted the deposit and first month rent when we moved in which I didn't ask her to do, and I was suppose to pay her back when I can but I wasn't making that much money at the time. Few months since then.
Anyways, I moved out and got my own spot and money is very tight, she wants me to pay her the first month rent share asap ....and I'm considering not paying her back. Thoughts? She didn't act civil whatsoever during the break up and the friend moving in was the kicker for me. Maybe I don't want another justification of why she broke up me, for her arsenal, now I don't repay debts too. But after the pain she caused me I'm not sure if I care.
Long story short, LTR ended of 2 years, after we moved in together.
Timeline
---started talking/hooking up which lead to more dates and beginning to be main plate.
We started to get close and then she had to move back home.
---long distance for a year almost, we saw each other once a month, sometimes more. Talked about moving in together.
--we find a place, I move pretty much away from friends and family to live with her.
Things are great until 2 months in...
Breakup---she hits me with I don't want to live together anymore, but still wants to date, I said fvck that, due to the planning and talking for months about living together for her to just change her mind? I end it.
She goes to visit her friends over the weekend, and says her girl friend got kicked out and needs to move in. So here I was not only living with my ex, but now also with her friend. It was horrible. She acted like it wasn't even a big deal. She started to act really cold towards me and even said very hurtful things in arguments.
So she fronted the deposit and first month rent when we moved in which I didn't ask her to do, and I was suppose to pay her back when I can but I wasn't making that much money at the time. Few months since then.
Anyways, I moved out and got my own spot and money is very tight, she wants me to pay her the first month rent share asap ....and I'm considering not paying her back. Thoughts? She didn't act civil whatsoever during the break up and the friend moving in was the kicker for me. Maybe I don't want another justification of why she broke up me, for her arsenal, now I don't repay debts too. But after the pain she caused me I'm not sure if I care.
