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agreed, but for my own peace of mind, I will give it a month, after that exit.

agreed...she does have a lot of good qualities that better my life...at the end of the day it just becomes a simple matter of when enough becomes enough. I'm going to give her a chance to see if she can deal with her own problems, and respect the boundary I've laid out. If she's not able to deal...

What gets me mad is my ex-wife was emotionally unstable. I stuck it out til the bitter end, and weathered all the crap that comes with being with a crazy person. I get that depression is real, and that you need to be supoortive, but I have real baggage when it comes to this topic, plus I have...

My background: former beta-husband, wife cheated, divorced, blah, blah blah..took a lot of advice from this forum. Focused on my needs, got in shape, learned to be assertive. After having some fun with girls half my age, party girls, etc., I found a woman that made dating seem less appealing...

amen brother...it might be worth it for this guy to take some time and figure out why he was willing to hand over his respect to someone who was incapable of keeping it. If one is dumb enough to sign up for the suicide mission, I would recommend pre-maritial marriage counselling, and be up-front...

Look, just the act of going to a counsellor will kill attraction, even if the counsellor says "you should have sex..." The point is the wife DOESN'T want to have sex. A counsellor saying "you need to have sex" is not going to turn this marriage around. Husband needs to up his game to re-trigger...

marriage counselling is the worst thing this guy could do....it says "I am weak, and need another person to fix my situation." The counsellor will only reinforce blue pill solutions which will just continue to perpetuate whatever issues were killing wife's attraction in the first place. The guy...

Having been in this guy's exact shoes, I would say that it's over. Get a lawyer, and get a separation agreement. Move out when it's legally safe to do so, and start dating other girls. After 4, or 5 months of quality dating, ignore wife (or soon to be ex) for another 6 months. Once the balance...

He told the psychologist today that Mom was physical with him. The psychologist is professionally obligated to report this to child services. We'll see what happens...

Agreed, but it's not that simple. My ex is an expert manipulator. She has managed to manipulate the parenting coordinator to the point where my lawyer has informed me that he's concerned about how I'm being perceived. I just have to keep documenting what my kids are telling me and submitting...

I was told that judges rarely, if ever, take kids away from the Mom. A kid saying Momma hits me is hearsay. You have to prove abuse, and even then, I was told that hooker Mom's selling crack still stand a better chance of gaining full custody than Dad's...not as easy to get, at least where I live...

lol, I never said his Mom was a *****...I basically told him that "daddy did not want to leave, that I stayed at home as long as I could but Momma was not happy with daddy living at home.." now he says "I hate Momma for kicking you out..." The kid has to spend 70% of his life with this...

thanks....he has a little sister, and I don't want to break the two up, so I would have to wait until they are both old enough to choose.

My ex was/is a text-book ex from hell: full alimony, smear campaign, used my kids to try to get me busted, etc, etc. My son is 8 and is smart. He knows I tried to stay at home as long as I could, he recalls all the **** my ex did to me when we were together. She is physical with him, yells at...

You don't have a choice when you have little kids who are suffering and are confused. When it's your own kids, you step it up and just bear it. It is so sad, but the family unit is dead, and women killed it. Unless they change the family court system, our society is done. I worked two jobs to...

women with clinical personality disorders are extremely good at hiding the fact that they are bat **** crazy...you can do your research and still get burned. That being said, you have to be that much more diligent. I get your point and agree with you.

I get that...I've been seeing someone for 6 months now...I kept her away from my kids until just a few days ago. We did an activity together. The kids were super happy. They seemed to feed off seeing me genuinely happy, and it was a huge help having an extra set of hands. I am going to back off...

You are 100% right. I proposed 6 months in and only had 2 LTR's. I dated briefly and am already in a new LTR. I have learned a thing or 2 from all this, and I am in no rush to relive my old hell all over again. I love fishing, and I have learned that there is a lot in common between playing a...

Thanks man. You got really lucky in that you didin't marry a personality disordered psychopath. Normal people can drift apart and come back together. If your wife was truly psychotic, your situation would have played out like mine and many of the guys here. I remember you, and your well...

thanks...I am way past caring about what she is up to...if she does things that are harmful to the kids, I just document it and move on. I may need the evidence one day. The hardest part is seeing my poor kids suffer. They are only 4 and 7. Last night my little girl woke up at 11 just screaming...