Agree 100%. However, he finds himself in a bad boat. He might as well try some competition anxiety and dread game for a few months before he pulls the pin.
Getting married today is like signing a cell phone contract with a $25,000 cancellation fee.
- You "love" the new phone they are giving you
- You "love" the service, network, and platform they are giving you
- You "love" the company, the brand, and the customer service
But they want you to sign a contract with a $25,000 cancellation fee if you cancel the service within 10 years.
Would you sign up for such a plan? If your answer is NO, why? I mean come on, you love the phone, the service, the network, the platform, the company, the brand and the customer service. This is your "dream" plan. This is the "plan you've always been looking for". So what's the problem??
Well.........the problem is that you realize that "things change". You love everything about the company right now, but that doesn't mean you will in 3 or 5 years. The company's service, network, platform and customer service could all go to HELL and you might have to be STUCK in a contract with them because you can't get out without taking a financial setback.
Now.....if they could take that cancellation fee down to let's say, $100 - $300, THEN you have a deal!
And that's my stance on marriage. If they reformed the laws to where the cancellation fee to get out of it was very low and I wouldn't have a financial setback if a divorce took place...I would have NO ISSUE with marriage!
And I don't think I'm being unreasonable in this request, we are living in the day of Feminism where women have more college degrees than men and are very ingrained in the workforce. The laws are fvcking outdated and need to be UPDATED.