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Game theory applies to LTRs. It is essential to keeping an LTR healthy. Sounds like your first marriage was painful. Been there, with an ex wife who was also clinical mental health, not just ‘she’s nuts...’ I had to go to a therapist to figure out the damage that being married to someone who was...

You’re the one who made the decision to seek advice on a public forum, which for the record was not about your schizophrenic ex, but about your current girlfriend that you want to ‘fix’. People have taken time out of their day to give you what they feel is honest advice. You don’t like the...

Listen Canuck, the only one doing any belittling here is you, with your passive aggressive “yikes” that completely belittles my experiences. OP asked a question, and he was given a direct answer. You have some maple syrup stuck between your tongue and your cheek. Your fake niceness doesn’t...

Ok...you’re co-dependent, rescue complex, white Knight, etc. Many guys are. You’re going to keep making the same mistake over and over again until you can step out of your mind and take a critical look at your long term pattern with women. Good luck. The right therapist can help, no sarcasm.

Butt hurt over what? Lady, I was married for ten years, have two kids, and have been in an LTR for over 4 years now. I get laid on demand and my woman happily takes care of my kids when I’m at work. She has a rock solid body, is a decent cook, and most importantly—takes care of herself, respects...

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she’s not agreeing with me, she’s being sarcastic...I guess being married 11 years has put you out of the game. If you actually believed she was being legit, then that shows how out of shape you are. All good though, enjoy your married life, no sarcasm.

you haven’t even read my post...I never said every wife who joins a book club is a witch. But I definitely hear that’s what you want to believe I said.,. It can take years before you’re recruited, if at all. But then again, doublespeak, twisting word meanings, misquoting, and outright lying to...

You were warned. Many of them aren’t even that coy anymore. i.e. they actively advertise as being affiliated with Wiccah. Google ‘coven book club’ Feminism has never had the interests of your family unit at heart. Feminism has always been about the destruction of the family unit. I’ll still be...

Wow, where to begin...first off, red pill you have not become. Yes, you’re clearly interested, but you still have not swallowed. Unfortunately, this may require you to achieve some knowledge through suffering as the Buddhists call it... 1. You’d be surprised at how many marriages fall apart...

You may want to take a long, hard look in the mirror, and I don’t mean that disrespectfully. We are here to help each other, and the language of the red pill is what works. If you’re trying to solve you’re wife’s problems for her, then you may be the one who is co-dependent. Whether you call it...

Just posting a comment I made in another thread. If you’re blue pill, and your wife is liberal and has recently decided to join a “book club”, watch out: It is if you’re a witch. In ancient days, initiation into the coven required a sacrifice. Today, the sacrifice is the family unit. The coven...

It is if you’re a witch. In ancient days, initiation into the coven required a sacrifice. Today, the sacrifice is the family unit. The coven masquerades in many forms. Mommy groups, followed by the book club is the usual route. The book club is the coven...once your wife joins a book club...

I am re-thinking this.. your advice is the way to go, and save the conversation for after.

If you don’t give shyt about jail, then sure, smashing people’s teeth in who disrespect you is the way to go. That’s not my world, but fair enough if that is yours. I would say the majority of the guys on this forum do not want to go to jail, so any actions that could potentially lead to...

Has OP reported back?

This is not Star Wars, and these are not Jedis. There is no ‘force’ that they feel. They are just two people flirting with each other because they both require constant validation. If husband does not like it, he needs to let her know, and if she does it again, he needs to get up and leave...

How does she know this? Is she telepathic? Ok, fair enough I’ll give you that she knows she’s flirting, but how is she supposed to know that it’s unacceptable to OP unless he lets her know? There are many marriages where flirting with others is ok. I just don’t understand the grand, dramatic...

not explaining the situation to the wife first...i.e. what Espi is recommending is good advice (alpha), provided the wife has been spoken to beforehand. Wife just may be stupid and not realizing that what she is doing is unacceptable. OP needs to give her one chance first. If, after being told...

Getting up and walking away without having a conversation first does little to solve the OP’s problem. The wife may very well be aware of what she’s doing, but at the same time she may just be an idiot who needs to be taught that such behaviours are unacceptable. He needs to have a conversation...