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    Being nice

    I just had a revelation. I am currently studying under a yoga master (one of the benefits of living in India I guess), and it just made sense to me why being "nice" is truly a negative thing. When someone is being nice, it usually means they expect something in return (and thus they are not...
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    couldn't break LMR even though acted cool .. what to do next time?

    She is not hot, and by the sounds of it you are not really attracted to her anyway. Why do you care to bother?
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    Who Knows?

    I would consider this "rigid" framework as training wheels (or boilerplate) to build up your confidence. Women will respond to this. Obviously you will need to improvise (as your comfort/understanding grows) as it is true human beings are complex and you have to take into account their personal...
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    online dating: post your red flag profiles here!

    The black T in the middle of the picture makes her look hot? :rockon:
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    Dating and The Rat Race

    Working rich and working poor are certainly at the extremes. Yes the working poor are in a worse off state. But the question is about happiness, and the rat race, not about material comforts. I would think that those who don't work as hard, but consequently earn less than those who would be...
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    online dating: post your red flag profiles here!

    Is that a water buffalo or a hippo with bad skin? :eek:
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    Dating and The Rat Race

    Hmm Define rich. What many of you are describing is what is considered "working wealthy". That is not a pleasant state. You are working 10 hours a day to maintain a style of life. For me being rich would be someone who has at least a net worth of $50 mil in liquidable assets.
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    Need to recapture the frame at all cost?

    I'm very keen to know the answer to this too! After all a woman could be going hot and cold to gauge your interest level too?
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    She needs space...where did it go wrong??

    Screening: you ****ed her too easily Screening: she was ready to move in with you ASAP Screening: accepting personal gifts from boss
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    She needs space...where did it go wrong??

    I think replacing the word woman here with "gorilla" or "chimpanzee" seems appropriate. While it is true that we are related to the aforementioned animals, we cannot use that as an excuse to behave like them. Yes at the most basic level it does have a role in dating mechanics and it is important...
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    She needs space...where did it go wrong??

    While I find Falcon25 posts very insightful, I find that he is excusing this chicks behavior. As much as the OP made mistakes, he was wasting his time in trying to have any sort of LTR with this piece of work. She proved herself beyond doubt that she is a user when she accepted personal...
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    She needs space...where did it go wrong??

    While I agree with Falcon25's analysis of the situation, I however think that there is everything wrong with this girl (and she represents a growing percentage unfortunately). Who wants to waste their time to try and control someone who is innately a gold digger or is constantly looking for an...
  13. J

    24 and Never Had a Girlfriend

    Listen to Squirrels..he seems to be Mr. Motivation :up:
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    24 and Never Had a Girlfriend

    Well throughout my schooling years I was probably as bad as you with women. My luck changed in college. Since then I have been through 16 women, which of those 2 were LTRs (4 years total). Today I sit here and ask myself the same question as you do. Those LTRs really disillusioned me, and today...
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    Girl plays games, I play cool, she texts breakup

    I am a firm believer that there should be a difference between the way men and women act. When that line is blurred, all sorts of sh1t starts to happen. If you mean spinning plates as having interest in other options then of course that is fine, but if that also means putting out for those dates...
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    Girl plays games, I play cool, she texts breakup

    My opinion is very similar to both Jeffst1980, and Jophil28's. She was trying to get a reaction from you that showed u gave a sh1t, no matter how slightly. If you wanted this girl, you overplayed your game (should not follow guides to the letter, those are just founding principles....gotta use...
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    Girl plays games, I play cool, she texts breakup

    This is just my reading, but I think she actually wanted something more from you. She was assuming that you were having your own fun which you neither confirmed or denied, and her telling you that she is seeing other people was a poor attempt (egoistcal on her part) to get a reaction out of you...
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    Major burnout

    Hey Kailex, Actually I had posted something on another "topic", but I was just venting so I deleted it. The post you are replying to is a long dead subject, but thanks anyway! Still working on myself, but without women/sex, or socializing in general for over a year and a half has caused so much...
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    i cheated, but that's not who i am, but i'm in love, so i don't feel bad rotfl

    Sorry your information is wrong. Premarital sex is very very common, and cheating on spouses is common enough. Hell my granddad is a sugar daddy!! (Im half Indian, and my Indian Granddad has been "dating" his junior lawyer for the past 20 years...he is 95 and she is 45 - all the while my grandma...
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    Major burnout

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