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Satisfaction/happiness is the delta of what you are getting vs what you are capable of getting. Do not compromise too much - if u are capable of 8-9s don't settle for less than 7-8s. However personality is very important in a LTR so you cannot compromise too much on that either. I guess it...

Honestly that is nothing. After living in Moscow for 4 years, those chicks are just so so. Go to a good club there and every third girl is a 8-9, and if ur decent looking you can get group shots easily lol

You obviously have deep feelings for her so I'm sure you will not take the advice given here at hand and apply it immediately. I'm sure you will try just "one more time" for what it is worth. Go ahead, but reading all this from a third persons point of view, I would chuck her out of the window...

You are going through a form of depression. I was (and still am - but slowly coming out of it) in the state you are describing, after my breakup over a year ago. I guess it is a time of self recovery (some people on the other hand go through a major rebound and fvck everything), just go with it...

People who are successful don't do different things, they do the same thing differently. So yes, you adapt your strategy to get what you need.

a baby's bauble lined with mind altering substances? :crackup:

I want to add something to this: There is a difference between detachment and non-attachment. Most people get attached to people or things (negative), on so-suave we learn to care less about people or things (detachment - better), the perfect mindset is non-attachment which means that while...

I think you should read this about 10 times and internalize it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176859

The grass is greener next door? :yes:

Start with this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176859

Id say take her as winggirl and f*ck her hot friends. That is better than no use ;) It is NC if she does not want to be a FB or does not want to introduce you to her hot friends

What Jophil28 says is 100% correct. However I am sure you are going to try and continue. Assuming that you are going to meet her this Saturday, you must f*ck her the same night. If she puts up any resistance then you will have to go NC because thereafter you will truly be just friends without...

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Actually it is all about perseverance (positive thinking) - nothing more and nothing less. I had been severely depressed for almost 2 years, so I do speak from experience. The good always comes with the bad, as it a cycle like all things in nature. Once you understand and accept this you will...

This will definitely help http://www.dhamma.org/en/bycountry/na/ It is a 10 day course, and there are centers in many parts of the US. I have not done this course yet, but I currently am under the supervision of a yoga master (and it has made a huge positive difference in my mindset). If a...

Just to be clear, are you suggesting to deflect a woman's sexual advances, or simply not push for the final deed ASAP? If you are trying to avoid having sex with a woman who is clearly onto you (making advances) then she is going to assume that either you are gay, or simply not interested...

I normally agree with you RT but on this, personal experience, and the experience of others around me has taught me differently. I think that a woman should definitely try to hold out against a guy's advances a bit (I'm not talking about other displays of affection - just sex). I think that a...

Nice does not work in general. In fact I would venture to say that European women are more receptive to "nice" than Indian women!

Unfortunately most "nice" guys don't realize this. They genuinely believe that being nice will be reciprocated /appreciated by a woman. If it is being used consciously as a manipulative technique that is another matter.

That is not entirely correct. Certain elements of yoga were incorporated into ancient Indian martial arts but yoga itself was not meant for combat.