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Hello pressure, My advice is def dont! I was in same situation as u. I was for a long time torn between leaving and seeing wats out there or staying and inevitably gettign married. My gf was totally into me and supposedly i was her soulmate and she wanted a future, marriage etc. THis made me...

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3 times now. 3 times been in position to start goin out with gals over past few months. Each time, I didn't think the gal was gf material so I basically said bla bla due to my previous LTR im not ready for another relationship etc. I'd have loved to do stuff with them but no committment of...

curious i have to say that while the HB 10s are still attractive to me, it is more sexual. While I find there are some girls, who are maybe 6,7,8s, who absolutely bowl me over in terms of how they carry themselves, how they talk, how they behave, etc...i find myself more emotionally engaged and...

i reckon the posters have been a bit harsh here. NomoreAFC, i know u must be feeling like **** and the comments on here havnt all been helpful. U live and learn is the motto. take things one day at a time. 11mths is a considerable time and it will hurt but take it on the chin and in time u...

Matey, you really did not act very gracefully at all. From what you said, she actually did nothing wrong at all. And she even made several efforts to contact you to ask about your erratic behaviour. She actually overlooked your childish behaviour (not picking up phone) and tried to contact you...

Do relationships that have failed still haunt and hurt unbearably in ten, 15 years? How about 20, 30 years? On this board we hear all the time about LTR 'break-ups' and how we should get over them etc etc. move on, etc. That this feeling wont last long etc. But how long does it last? What...

Perfectly understandable situation and perfectly valid feelings. DOn't feel guily for them, don't feel confused. Accept them. I dont have the answer to them though>...! The way I see it, young gals get experience relatively more easily than young guys. THen, when they want to settle down for...

unfortunately, me and her are in same uni, on same course...been going out for 2 yrs (i know, its a long time) and i love her. I at 5 months in used to feel like i really wanted to pull other gals, play the field. Over time, these feelings have lessened as my love for my gal has grown. But 2 yrs...

Mate, you have just posted the most articulate explanation of a situation that I feel I am in myself. It is a genuine problem but I fear one that has no easy answer. TO gain something u must lose something in this situation. THe longer u stay together, the more difficult emotionally it will...

Most important thing is that when you feel down, especially at the height of your depression, just remember: DO NOT DO ANYTHING SILLY. SIT TIGHT AND WAIT. the feeling will pass. No feeling lasts FOREVER in exactly the same way and intensity - neither happiness nor sadness. If u feel...

Where does your girlfriend feature in all this? You are being unfaithful to her, surely? ANd you don't seem to be worried about her at all. why? Don't you love ur gf? i am confused - on one hand u say u wont leave gf for this gal, on other hand u say u want her...maybe u are just like this...

maybe maybe u dont find ur gal as attractive as u think? Maybe shes lacking in personality? Maybe u have other problems on ur mind? Maybe it's aphase, you're under stress of some sort? Maybe ur gal isnt that good in bed? Maybe u haven't learnt what u like? I do think that there is a serious...

I see your point backbreaker, I've come back and read your replies and I'd like to say you have a point. WHen I first read your post my first instincts were to think you were playing someone who you didnt even bother to inform that you couldnt see that night. I agree now that yes, it is...

I dont think it's funny I'm sorry mate, but I dont think its funny at all. First of all, it dont matter that u r not in a relationship with someone, it's not right to play them like that. But even thats understandable. However, i fail to see what is so funny. You were caught, literally, with...

A1 u A**hole A1 u r very bitter aren't u? Thats fine, we all are from time to time. But doing the dirty on a friend, shagging his wife? U deserve to go to hell for that. If u loved her or summat it mite be a little more understandable, but otherwise, you'd just be messing with their lives. THat...

all good points all good points guys. FYI, my g/f is lovely, her personality is magnetic, but she aint the HOTTEST babe. shes ok looking, know theres better but im not stupid enough to cite that as the only reason to break up. thats y im stil with her, cos i can look past, most of the time...

d4m, its not so simple! yo die4me dude, it aint that simple, she wont make any such mistakes! and any lil slip ups she does, well, i could dump her for them but she and i wil both know it wasnt even a reason to break up..... right now i guess i'll just take it by the day. I feel like uni...

lol oscars on the button oscar ur right, i did post something similar earlier. this is a flaw of mine, i cant lay an issue to rest, i keep revisiting it! but ur the 1st person whos reassured me that its ok to stay and its not too late or anything. thank u for that. i'll try that for now...

thing is, I'll feel really shi*e about myself if i cheat on her, so so far i havent. Plus im thinking if htis is meant to be one really special relationship, i dont want to poison it by cheating on her. I've told her that in my life plan, i intend to b with more than 1 gal in my life b4 i...