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Hi. Im in a 6 month relationship. My first girlfriend. She's had several boyfriends. we're both 18. both in same course in same college. I have a deep love for her, i dont think im 'in love' though, cos i dont have 'bells ringing'. But i care for her more than anyone else outside my family...

v v important point that was said earlier too.... suicide is IRREVERSIBLE. u feel low now. granted. ok, maybe u cant remember the last time u wer happy. granted. but these two facts have NO bearing on the future. There is no evidence at all that u will forever be unhappy. In fact, the odds...

a lot of ppl must have this problem. Unlike the stereotype of a perfect childhood, great times at secondary school, this isnt true for everyone. Many ppl have had it REAL ROUGH growing up socially, and tragically u cant change the past. JUst accept it, forget it, know ur not alone, accept ur...

So much good advice You ppl have so much good advice, encouragement, support for me. Im so grateful, I cant tell y'all. Yeah, I am that sort of person, the glass is half empty. When I should see how MUCH life has gifted me compared to some. I guess nobody gets everything (i.e. even tho I got...

hey man. Guys I am so glad to read your posts. You have recognised you have a problem, and you are trying to find a solution. What more can you ask for? Just dont be like me, who gets so bogged down in their probs and thinks the same rubbish over and over again. Just think a little, then do. i...

What can i say Guys, You are all right. I am so so f*cking confused in my head, it really really does surprise me. I am so indecisive. Its a problem. I guess an optimistic thing is that I've recognised it as a problem and im gonna try to sort it. First, Thank you all, you've really helped...

help. I dont know what to do. Im real low right now. I had a g/f of 5 months, my first ever. were the happiest 5 months of my life. But I was so jealous (Secretly) that she has had a few b/f's befor me, and before she met me, she spent her first term of Uni pulling loads of guys while I didnt...

Paul, Relieved to hear there's someone else in my position. The most bizarre thing bout this is i have competing wishes. One part of me wants desperatiely to stay with her, cos she's the first relationship, she cares so much etc, and I hate to be soppy but if anyone's ever been with a gal who's...

Krd dude, your post is troubling me. I didnt kno gals do that to guys all the time...?! Really? hmmm that sheds a new light on my eyes. Lemme explain the way I am. I grew up in a house where my dad always cheated on my mum. the emotional turmoil and angst and upset tears etc was huge. I...

I agree, Im probably just angry right now. But do you know how insecure a position i am in? I just dumped my g/f, which was a surety of being with a girl, in exchange for the possibility of pulling, knowing that it may be months, conceivably years before I find someone again, and certainly I may...

I know its a huge risk to break up with her but I had to. She's had her fun of playing the field (and being successful at it) and now she wants monogamy. But I only just awakened sexually when I met her. So I dont kno even if wat i feel for her is love or if there's better out there. I just dont...

:mad: :mad: :mad: Guys, I'm not very happy right now, and I need some feedback about what you all think. I recently found this forum (thank Gawd). I'm 18, just finished first year uni, in UK. I had my first ever girlfriend in my life in January. We were together for 5 months. It was good...