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OK, next time I'll do that. Live & learn. Thanks 4 the help. Edit: to answer your question, The Doc is Tom Hodges, AKA Doc Love. His rationale is that asking out is YOUR job, not HER job, i.e. her taking over your job is already an act of great supplication & more challenge is too much...

That's what I thought too but I just wanted to get a sanity check

Because she asked me out & the Doc sez "When it's incoming, take it." That indicated high interest level, but apparently I did something on the date to sink myself.

Went out on a mini-date sat. morning w/a new girl. I made sure to kino & not be platonic. we had a great convo & it felt like it went really well, but of course none of that means sh1t... 3 days later I send this e-mail (edited a bit): What's shakin? Hope you had a good weekend. Anyway, what...

I'm no behavioral scientist, I'm just some dope, but in my experience women are hard-wired to want someone stronger than they are, someone they can lean on. If you become some sort of spineless chameleon/metamorph, you have just made yourself into something she will not want. And if you ask...

+1 for what sapphire said. When I was about your age I had flings w/a couple older women. It's a good life experience, they will teach you a lot of stuff :D Just don't get too attached cuz it ain't gonna last forever. But if she wants to come over & fook, who cares why?

And a noob forum. BTW, I totally agree w/the OP.

BF's get dumped every day in America. Every girl will claim to have a BF. Don't let it faze you. Women choose to make themselves available or not to--it has nothing to do with any supposed BF. If she says "I have a BF," just plow ahead (for example, say "That's OK, I'm not interested in him"...

Thank you Jestor! You just pre-emptively answered a bunch of questions I was going to ask & more!

Here are some more ironies for you: (1) Women's lib actually liberated men (from marriage) more than it liberated women. (2) Feminists spent 30 years trying to convince women that they don't need men, but the truth is, women need men more than men need women. Men handle solitude much...

Be sensitive like a seismometer. Not sensitive like watching soaps & crying & eating bonbons :D

BrotherAP, that was brilliant. I would just like to add one thing: very few people are a total success (100% improvement) or a total failure (0% improvement). Most people lie somewhere in the middle of this continuum. When someone else posts a lay report w/HB9.5, it's easy to get the...

Mr Cardio, you might seriously want to consider being treated for manic depression (or bipolar disorder or whatever they're calling it now). Seriously, I'm not flaming you. The thing that comes through your posts most strongly is your highs are WAY too high, & your lows are WAY too low. One post...

This sounds like every club I've ever been to. That's why I don't like clubs.

My buddy's GF once complained that she (& women generally) are most often approached by guys who "don't seem to care all that much." Now that I've started cold-approaching, I see why. Women are not kind when they say no. They see no necessity for the decorums of ladylike behavior. They have...

Just hope yr. luck holds out & you look 30 when yr. 40.

Yeah, +1 for what flexion_ said. Your new attitude isn't something you put on like a coat; it's the new you, 24/7. If some girls see this & come around, great, but I wouldn't count on it.

She is doing this because it makes you go "Aaaaaarrrrggghh." She has the power to drive you insane & she knows it.

I don't have any magic answers for this dilemma but my experience w/internet dating is that the flakeout rate is too high to make it worthwhile to go out of your way. A gentleman should always meet his commitments, but should be selective about what he agrees to do. Believe me I learned this the...

Again, a disclaimer, I'm not the most experienced guy out there, but I would call once/week on a random weeknight for 3 or 4 weeks before flushing a #. Forget about what you like & what you hate: it won't cost you anything so you have nothing to lose. There are some advice books for women that...