I think a guy would be better with women if he tryed less to impress and just didn't give a ****.
i mean whenever i spend time and do my hair and appearence i don't get anywhere,but when i just don't make much of an effort i find myself doing better.
Thing is i don't know any of the girls in my home town...it's like it's easier to approach on hoiliday as your first line is easy "How's ya holiday going?....where ya staying then?....etc"
what i'm trying to say is does anyone else's ability with women change when they go abroad or on holiday?,like where i am able to approach without fear.
But when i get home i'm back to being like a lemon.
I figure that if somebody is having problems at home for whatever reason....ya think doing abroad on holiday or whereever ya go where there's loads of girls would help a guy become a DJ quicker.
I'll exsplain,you see whenever i'm abroad i seem to be able to APPROACH women WITHOUT any kind of...
ok long story i got this stalker (Who's a midget...no it's not funny)
Now i made a thread about this months ago,now i thought i got rid of her but she emailed me saying she's moving....so i emailed her back and said if it's not a game then good luck.
Now after a few emails i kinda said...
This post is sooo true and important to every wanaabe don jaun that you really shouldn't ignore this topic.
I find that if i go without after 2 day's i get to a point my confidence goes up about 40% and i start to really make an effort in getting a girl.
that;s what I AM currently and get no attention from girls atall....yeah they talk to me becuase they have no other choice (in the lift at work)....or waiting for something.....
Being this guy get's me NOWHERE!
hey catch,thx man some good advice.....so you think if say tommorow i went into work and said what I WANTED TO SAY when in a conversation with any girls would be a good thing.
I mean usaully i talk utter ****e as i'm afraid to say what i'm really thinking...
Ok i think from tommorow i WILL...
Thanls guys,makes alot of sense to me...but i can see how making other factors in your life better so you care less about girls....but it's not just girls...it seem's i care too much just about everything.
Like if i see something wrong i HAVE TO say something...and this crap about me always...
Ok this bothers me sooooo much it's getting on my nerves now.For the past 2 months i've been trying to careless about everything in my life acept certain things of course.
What i mean is....stop careing if a girl doesn't like you for who you are,or trying to act diffrently around women to get...
ok so i know i can get many women who like to dance with me and kiss me etc....but i never get 1-night stands from clubs.
just wondering is it cause i'm skinny and girls don't like skinny guys do they?....i mean most people i speak to or mess around with always comment on me being skinny and...
I think your an average looking guy (NOT UGLY)
So i think the best advice you can take onboard was from the guy who said "Take it easy,have patience and it will happen"
i think i'm in the same boat as you atm....i'm trying to hard to get something where i should really just take it easy.
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