how do you get to a place where your not affected by women even when your relationship is over,,,,,,,,,,,,im not really sure how to completly forget about them , because if you could do that then i dont personally think you didnt give a sh-t to begin with . but what i think is you have to be strong enough to take what is thrown at you if you can , i mean my ex has had another dude in her bed where we slept together [ not the best of feelings from my point of view ] she even said he was a pest , she even said her feelings for me hadnt changed , ,,,,,,,,,, ?
i also think that as a man you need to watch a womans actions , and forget what sh-t she comes out with because the morning after she may feel different .
you see when a woman says she loves you , thats how she feels when she says it , two weeks down the line she is dumping your ass for some other dude.........and your thinking wtf happend.......last week she loved me .....sh-t i need to do something to win her back [ that stuff never works ] .
this is why you have to tell her at the time shes dumping your ass , she will almost always want to stay friends.........big yawn another big yawn . then just tell her that doesnt work for me , i love you and want to work things out , if she still says no..............then im afraid its time to walk the walk cause she has made her mind up...........just say - well give me a call if you change your mind - you can even say and if im still free we can talk like adults . otherwise take care and thank you for everything.....see ya , then you have to never contact her again , and i mean never.
guys look at it this way , if your at the point where your the guy who has to pick his stuff up , then what you do is dress sharp , smell nice , and go and collect your stuff , be polite if at all possible , and then say goodbye.
if she cared enough about you while you were together this will be on her mind , she may even already have another dude waiting in the wings , but if you leave her with pleasent - ish thoughts about you before you vanished into the night - she may just question herself .
i blasted my ex the last time we talked - and i realise she most likely will never want us to be together again , but i made that choice when i was backed into a corner , i was sick of her bullsh-t so she got it . all my timings have been out of wack if im being honest , but realise this , plus i also realise that any further conversations have to come from her making it happen , if it never happens , so be it.......thats life.
being 100% honest with you all , i feel i could have handled my situation better , but there are certain things i have learned in the yrs i have been with chicks , and some of the stuff i have talked about doing , be honest with your selves ,
do you want a girl who WANTS to be with you [ FOR YOU ].......i think your answer would be yes of course........so if thats the case why do you want to try and force someone to be with you when they are not showing signs that they want the same thing.......think about it.
i also think that as a man you need to watch a womans actions , and forget what sh-t she comes out with because the morning after she may feel different .
you see when a woman says she loves you , thats how she feels when she says it , two weeks down the line she is dumping your ass for some other dude.........and your thinking wtf happend.......last week she loved me .....sh-t i need to do something to win her back [ that stuff never works ] .
this is why you have to tell her at the time shes dumping your ass , she will almost always want to stay friends.........big yawn another big yawn . then just tell her that doesnt work for me , i love you and want to work things out , if she still says no..............then im afraid its time to walk the walk cause she has made her mind up...........just say - well give me a call if you change your mind - you can even say and if im still free we can talk like adults . otherwise take care and thank you for everything.....see ya , then you have to never contact her again , and i mean never.
guys look at it this way , if your at the point where your the guy who has to pick his stuff up , then what you do is dress sharp , smell nice , and go and collect your stuff , be polite if at all possible , and then say goodbye.
if she cared enough about you while you were together this will be on her mind , she may even already have another dude waiting in the wings , but if you leave her with pleasent - ish thoughts about you before you vanished into the night - she may just question herself .
i blasted my ex the last time we talked - and i realise she most likely will never want us to be together again , but i made that choice when i was backed into a corner , i was sick of her bullsh-t so she got it . all my timings have been out of wack if im being honest , but realise this , plus i also realise that any further conversations have to come from her making it happen , if it never happens , so be it.......thats life.
being 100% honest with you all , i feel i could have handled my situation better , but there are certain things i have learned in the yrs i have been with chicks , and some of the stuff i have talked about doing , be honest with your selves ,
do you want a girl who WANTS to be with you [ FOR YOU ].......i think your answer would be yes of course........so if thats the case why do you want to try and force someone to be with you when they are not showing signs that they want the same thing.......think about it.
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