AmsterdamAssassin
Master Don Juan
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Every man beardmogs you.That guy BeardTrimMogs me.
Every man beardmogs you.That guy BeardTrimMogs me.
Oh no, I have a very good beard - I have been congratulated at the Beard Board for mine, when I let it grow (I keep it closely shaved to 8 mm when I am in PUA mode).Every man beardmogs you.
I must say your assessment of me is all over the place.This is a good way to describe it. @GoodMan32 has done well finding 9 sex partners through "conventional dating" given all of that.
You can want as much as you please nobody cares about your wants aside from maybe your parents and maybe other very close family membersFor 15 years now, I've been accused of feeling owed (not just when it comes to a woman; in other contexts too). Pisses me off.
There's a huge difference between feeling owed something vs simply wanting something.
Ironically, the year I had the best luck with getting laid (2012), I was a student with no income whatsoever. Yet in the current stage of life, where I have a full time job (albeit with a low income), I have worse luck with the ladies? What a thinker.
That is not the point. He should not be shamed into feeling that he is entitlted or owed something because he wants something. That becomes toxic shame that feminists use against incels which comes across almost like an attack. Whether some cares about his wants or not is irrelevant as long as they don't start gaslighting him too, on top of that, because that is just adding insult to injury at that point.You can want as much as you please nobody cares about your wants aside from maybe your parents and maybe other very close family members
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I want a penthouse in central city with a private steam room , sauna and jacuzziThat is not the point. He should not be shamed into feeling that he is entitlted or owed something because he wants something. That becomes toxic shame that feminists use against incels which comes across almost like an attack. Whether some cares about his wants or not is irrelevant as long as they don't start gaslighting him too, on top of that, because that is just adding insult to injury at that point.
Yes. So what are you doing to improve your situation? Are you here to learn or complain?I was having a DM discussion with another member where I mentioned how my struggles with the ladies go beyond mere social awkwardness/ASD. Come to think of it, I suppose the topic warrants its own thread.
In addition to my ASD/social awkwardness, there are many other factors working against me (which I generally like to hide from a woman):
With everything I hide from a woman, it reaches the point where I'm basically preventing a woman from getting to know the true me.
- The fact I don't drive.
- The fact I partially rely on parents financially.
- The fact I have hardly any social life.
- The fact I hold extreme political beliefs (Since we aren't supposed to talk politics on this forum, I won't get into my exact beliefs. The point is: Extreme political beliefs in either direction can hurt your chances with the ladies. Extreme beliefs are called extreme for a reason. Most of the population doesn't hold extreme beliefs).
- The fact I have mental illnesses galore.
Hardly any woman would go for a man with everything I mentioned that's working against me, right?
Now you are being facetious.I want a penthouse in central city with a private steam room , sauna and jacuzzi
I disagree. A better comparison, a homeless person wanting a one bedroom house to have some shelter. But of course, society doesn't owe him anything, maybe he had some bad breaks along the way and like a dominoe effect one wrong outcome lead to another until he found himself there. Nobody is complaining about having a mediocre girlfriend or getting laid too few times in a year compared to being a major playbody like you are trying to potray (ie which would be more suitable to your analogy). The OP and I have issues where are set-up is just anti-seductive with women and there is nothing much to do about it.Bingo-Player said:I live In a one bedroom house with a bathtub and wonky tiling...... that's my reality and my current budget
Can I go get what I want yea sure it won't be easy but anything is possible .... moaning about how tough the economy is or how I don't come from money to help me along, isn't going to do anything though
So you're one of THEMBut let's just say "my side" tends to be a sausage fest.
Yeah, that thread of yours I linked went on for 23 f-cking pages, and is still going. This one is only at two so farThat thread you linked isn't quite the same.
On my latest thread, I elaborate on just how much I have going against me
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Newsflash, GM: Almost ALL humans are both susceptible to psych disturbance of some sort , AND get suckered into fringe beliefs from time to time... Hell, there's likely a connection between these two phenomena. Paraphrase John Steinbeck in East Of Eden: The beauty of being human is that, unlike animals, we have the power to CHOOSE how we respond to our external environments, rather than being driven solely by instinctive urgesHis political beliefs are mainstream.
And while he does have some degree of mental illness (it runs in the family), his mental illness isn't debilitating like mine is
Are you here to learn or complain?
the 'beard board'I have been congratulated at the Beard Board for mine
You both operate under a BELIEF system which dictates "There's nothing I can do to make my set-up more pro-seductive", same way The Basic White Girl in modern day America operates under a belief system which dictates "I MUST blindly embrace Intersectionality, the way an Evangelical Christian or a Salafi embraces their respective dogmas, in order to show the rest of humanity how righteous I art!!!"The OP and I have issues where are set-up is just anti-seductive with women and there is nothing much to do about it.
That's why most Involuntary Celibates are actually Voluntarily Chaste.Refusing to interrogate those beliefs for truthfulness is a choice
It is not a belief system. You can only put your best foot forward and hope for the best. However, if you are at a wall, then you are at a wall.You both operate under a BELIEF system which dictates "There's nothing I can do to make my set-up more pro-seductive", same way The Basic White Girl in modern day America operates under a belief system which dictates "I MUST blindly embrace Intersectionality, the way an Evangelical Christian or a Salafi embraces their respective dogmas, in order to show the rest of humanity how righteous I art!!!"
Refusing to interrogate those beliefs for truthfulness is a choice
And if your current "best foot" could benefit from polishing and fine tuning, you have the option of doing so. Corporations and political candidates have spin doctors on call 24/7, for this very purpose. "Dating gurus" fulfill this exact same function for menYou can only put your best foot forward and hope for the best
Here's what doesn't make sense though: A coworker's son has a lot of my negative traits and then some. Yet he has no trouble getting a woman during the stretches when he's a free man (he's a career felon).You can want as much as you please nobody cares about your wants aside from maybe your parents and maybe other very close family members
The worlds a battlefield especially for a man its dog EAT dog
Women sleep with guys who make sh1t happen , guys who go and get what they want , guys who make moves
Not guys who sit around In their parents spare bedroom complaining about how unfair everything is
Stop wallowing , go and do the work.
Well-said.That is not the point. He should not be shamed into feeling that he is entitlted or owed something because he wants something. That becomes toxic shame that feminists use against incels which comes across almost like an attack. Whether some cares about his wants or not is irrelevant as long as they don't start gaslighting him too, on top of that, because that is just adding insult to injury at that point.
I'm mainly wondering if maybe there's some loophole I don't know about where I could get a woman in spite of all my baggage.Yes. So what are you doing to improve your situation? Are you here to learn or complain?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.