Caress,
If you find a woman who has principles and maintains her femininity and virginity above all else and is looking to build a life and a family with a responsible and caring man then I suggest you pursue her in a respectful and dignified manner.
A woman knows that the reason a man pursues her is because he desires her – men desire hors for sex but men pursue and desire a woman because of her femininity, as a complementary nature that will make him stronger and will live a more fulfilling life than one if he was alone.
A woman who is committed to be a virgin until marriage is a woman who will be committed to her husband in marriage!
These types of women know their place and are submissive to men and yet do not submit themselves to men for sexual pleasure – they are looking for something deeper and meaningful! These women are a “Keeper” and I suggest you do not “spin plates” which is a metaphor for having many hors which is encouraged by many here! A chaste, humble, feminine woman is extremely difficult to find and is a rarity – hold on to a faithful good woman when you find her because you may never encounter another in your lifetime!
Caution – do NOT think that this is the girl for you when you don’t even know her!! You are putting the cart before the horse – it takes a few years to determine if a girl is good enough to marry because you must experience all possible emotions and scenarios so that you can see how she responds to difficult and trying moments – this is the time that you truly see the real person and NOT in times of bliss and comfort! If she sacrifices for you and has a generous heart and puts you first then you know she is for you! If she says, "This is a 50/50 relationship then flee!!
Women know that the nature of men is created to pursue them – so she will not be surprised that you are not a virgin – don’t give her a number. just say, “I’m 21 years old and only had a few meaningful relationships.” Virgin women ask the “how many sex partners” question to determine if you are a womanizer (Do you just want sex – player?) or are you pursuing her because you are someone who is serious about marriage.
And “No” – I’m not a virgin – that is an SS rumor – In a thread I made a “I’m a virgin” comment in jest.