escorts vs civvies

[Hamurabimbi]

Why are prostitutes even discussed here? Isn’t the goal of this site the getting a woman who wants you?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Being Caucasian, hardly any escorts will refuse to see me on racial grounds. I've managed to get around a different wall an escort put up, however. This one escort only sees 35+ men. Yet I, being 32, got her to bend the rule.

My ‘strip-clubcel’ friend is White blond tall & blue eyed. Yet he was rejected. he’s a 3.5/10.

 

[bat soup]

If you're familiar with me, chances are you're aware that, while I have banged civvies, I mainly utilize escorts (Other than a one-and-done from 2021, the last time I banged a civvie was 2015).

I compiled an explanation of why (from my perspective at least) escorts are better than civvies:


There are so many complicated rules to follow when trying to get sex from a woman, even if the woman appears to be into you.

If you come on too strong, she’ll change her mind about giving you sex (because you come across as desperate).

Then on the flipside, if you don’t come on strong enough, she’ll also change her mind about giving you sex (because she’ll think you’re not interested, she’ll think you haven’t done enough to prove yourself “worthy,” etc).

If you say or do the “wrong” thing, even once, she’ll change her mind about giving you sex.

It’s extremely difficult to find the precise balance a woman wants. I (along with a lot of guys) have come to the realization it’s more logical to go the escort route. With escorts, you don’t have to worry about the tentative intercourse getting revoked over a slight misstep. Nor do you have to wonder if you’ll get sex; you know for a fact you’ll get sex with the escort.

What are your thoughts?

Most women are a pain in the ass to deal with. It's worth paying sometimes just to avoid having to get to know them.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Why are prostitutes even discussed here? Isn’t the goal of this site the getting a woman who wants you?

And not just for the contents of your wallet.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Most women are a pain in the ass to deal with. It's worth paying sometimes just to avoid having to get to know them.

No. Most women are wonderful and add immeasurably to one’s life.

 

[corrector]

Why are prostitutes even discussed here? Isn’t the goal of this site the getting a woman who wants you?

There is a sub-discussion, within this thread (which was mainly between me and the OP) as to whether using an escort can make someone more familiar with women if they are not intereacting with any woman at all. For example, I have not physically touched a woman since 2017 in any capacity or way, or being alone with any woman. The OP was getting played at too many times by civvies before he started using escorts.

The OP has indicated that he was able to see a couple of "civvies" after he visited an escort, but has not confirmed that this has made him more familiar dealing with women in general. He also indicated there was a 6 year gap which does not look very promising that an escort can make you feel more comfortable around civvie women, especially in my case, when there could be a risk for a nuclear spiritual attack.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

There was no spiritual attack on December 4th, or the 5th. I would not have visited a second escort within a 24 hour period if there was a spiritual attack from the first escort.

Oh, please tell us more about your great experience of the conquest of two escorts within 24 hours.

 

[bat soup]

Why are prostitutes even discussed here? Isn’t the goal of this site the getting a woman who wants you?

Not necessarily.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I think this thread belongs in Anything Else, because it has nothing to do with seduction.

 

[corrector]

Oh, please tell us more about your great experience of the conquest of two escorts within 24 hours.

I already have in other posts in the past. I didn't actually have vag-sex with them though and refused them when asked. I danced around with the first one with some music (her Spanish music), while she was naked. She bend over her bed after taking over her panties but I refused to put down my underware and didn't get hard during the session at all. The second one was just a bit more hardcore but I refused actual penetrative sex, but was more sexual with her than the first one (ie which is probably why I got attacked afterwards). The second escort, from Brazil, was the last one I dealt with before the spiritual attacks.

 

[corrector]

I think this thread belongs in Anything Else, because it has nothing to do with seduction.

It has everything to do with women.

 

[GoodMan32]

If you refuse a service on the basis of race then that's Jim Crow definition by definitions. Like how they say "Whites and Coloured" washrooms in the deep south in the 50s and earlier. If you see a prime looking hot girl-next-door escort girl that's like 19 years old, for example, 8/10 you can bet that ad will say "no blacks", but some older used up fat woman would say that she doesn't discriminate. Who do you think is getting all of the best hookers? If that is not systemic racism then I don't know what is.

I don't deny white men (or even Hispanic men too I suppose; I rarely see escort ads banning Hispanic men) have access to better-looking escorts.

Then I suppose it is discriminatory for an escort to ban black clients for any reason.

I guess my point was it doesn't necessarily mean she hates black men. This one escort (half white, half Latina) I was with when I was 25 said she had a black boyfriend, yet refused to see black clients. Her rationale: She said a BBC feels good to her when she's with him for pleasure. But since escorting is strictly business, a BBC is too painful (that's why she doesn't see black clients).

As an analogy, an escort in her 50s refused to see me because of my age (she makes you be at least 40). Does this mean she hates young guys? Not necessarily.

 

[corrector]

I don't deny white men (or even Hispanic men too I suppose; I rarely see escort ads banning Hispanic men) have access to better-looking escorts.

Then I suppose it is discriminatory for an escort to ban black clients for any reason.

I guess my point was it doesn't necessarily mean she hates black men. This one escort (half white, half Latina) I was with when I was 25 said she had a black boyfriend, yet refused to see black clients. Her rationale: She said a BBC feels good to her when she's with him for pleasure. But since escorting is strictly business, a BBC is too painful (that's why she doesn't see black clients).

As an analogy, an escort in her 50s refused to see me because of my age (she makes you be at least 40). Does this mean she hates young guys? Not necessarily.

The effects of a discrimination is hateful whether or not the person discrimination actually hates or not.

You've also said a mouthful by saing "strictly business"... completely puts you out of the mood. It should be more like "I'm buying your a$$", and she like "your wish is my command master". What is this strictly business nonsense. She supposed to be your b1tch. She is my business, lol!

(The last paragraph was in my mindset when dealing with the last escort before the spiritual attack. I really believed that escort was my b1tch for that moment.)

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

(The last paragraph was in my mindset when dealing with the last escort before the spiritual attack. I really believed that escort was my b1tch for that moment.)

You sound like a prince among wh0remongers.

 

[corrector]

You sound like a prince among wh0remongers.

Her name is Bianca and she came from Brazil and I had her for that moment. On Dec 5th at 11p, 2014.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

THIS.

I’m flabbergasted that we have this discussion going on on this board. Like wow. The few wh0remongers that post about this shyte are like lesbians and other women that are obsessed with invading traditionally male spaces JUST BECAUSE.

Why are prostitutes even discussed here? Isn’t the goal of this site the getting a woman who wants you?

 

[GoodMan32]

There is a sub-discussion, within this thread (which was mainly between me and the OP) as to whether using an escort can make someone more familiar with women if they are not intereacting with any woman at all. For example, I have not physically touched a woman since 2017 in any capacity or way, or being alone with any woman. The OP was getting played at too many times by civvies before he started using escorts.

The OP has indicated that he was able to see a couple of "civvies" after he visited an escort, but has not confirmed that this has made him more familiar dealing with women in general. He also indicated there was a 6 year gap which does not look very promising that an escort can make you feel more comfortable around civvie women, especially in my case, when there could be a risk for a nuclear spiritual attack.

Another thing is: Knowing I can fall back on escorts removes some of the incentive to pursue civvies. Which could partially explain the 6 year gap.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

CAN WE STOP USING THE TERM "CIVVIES" TO DESCRIBE NON-PROSTITUTES?

JFC.

USE THAT ON BOARDS DEDICATED TO THE PURSUIT OF PROSTITUTES.

Another thing is: Knowing I can fall back on escorts removes some of the incentive to pursue civvies. Which could partially explain the 6 year gap.

 

[corrector]

Another thing is: Knowing I can fall back on escorts removes some of the incentive to pursue civvies. Which could partially explain the 6 year gap.

Good enough. Will look at thread again on Friday. On full time job thing.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

CAN WE STOP USING THE TERM "CIVVIES" TO DESCRIBE NON-PROSTITUTES?

JFC.

USE THAT ON BOARDS DEDICATED TO THE PURSUIT OF PROSTITUTES.

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