Amsterdam is not a country, but I don't expect an American to know the distinction between Amsterdam / Holland / The Netherlands, since Americans in general are not that well-educated in topography.
Do Dutch prostitutes discriminate between clients? Yes, they do. For instance, young British men are refused by some prostitutes because they get drunk and high and take ages to climax, so most prostitutes think they're a waste of their time and money.
Yes, there is no such thing as the Wh0re with the Heart of Gold, who may see the real you and is healed from her degeneracy to be faithful to you. Prostitutes don't make acceptable lovers / girlfriends.
The moment a woman becomes a sex worker, i.e. sells her body in any capacity, her value as a lover / girlfriend drops beyond repair. Whether she's 'just a stripper' or 'I only expose myself on OnlyFans' or 'I only fvck men who can afford with a Rolex' (yes, I consider 'gold diggers' to be prostitutes, just like 'sugar babies'), she's turned sex into a commodity.
And women who are focused on your wallet will never make good companions.
Now, if you just want to get rid of your spunk and you don't want to masturbate and you don't want to spend time and effort finding a woman who will have sex with you, I can imagine people who are desperate enough to go to a sex worker, but no matter what she looks like or whether she can suck a golfball through a garden hose, she won't make a good companion for anything other than sex.
So, you cannot compare women with prostitutes, just because they share the same physiology. Even if a prostitute has 'standards', she will still be below the standards of normal men. If you don't believe so, when was the last time someone boasted at a party about this incredible sex worker he fvcked (apart from the *****mongers on this board)?
The whole comparison of paying for a date to paying a sex worker is ludicrous to pretty much anyone except some degenerates here who think that paying a prostitute requires game. Prostitutes have sex for money. If she 'rejects' you, she's just fishing for more money.