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Being Caucasian, hardly any escorts will refuse to see me on racial grounds. I've managed to get around a different wall an escort put up, however. This one escort only sees 35+ men. Yet I, being 32, got her to bend the rule.
I'm was over 38 when I visited an escort in December 4, 2014, and the madam of the establishment thought I was a minor.
 

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One thing I'm going to say is: An escort refusing to see black men isn't necessarily racist. There are escorts with black boyfriends who refuse to see black men.
If you refuse a service on the basis of race then that's Jim Crow definition by definitions. Like how they say "Whites and Coloured" washrooms in the deep south in the 50s and earlier. If you see a prime looking hot girl-next-door escort girl that's like 19 years old, for example, 8/10 you can bet that ad will say "no blacks", but some older used up fat woman would say that she doesn't discriminate. Who do you think is getting all of the best hookers? If that is not systemic racism then I don't know what is.
 

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One thing I'm going to say is: An escort refusing to see black men isn't necessarily racist. There are escorts with black boyfriends who refuse to see black men.
Tbh it mostly has to do with the type of clientele a certain race brings.

Lets just say that the less economically strong a man is,the more BANG he wants for his buck. While her game is to gibe you as less bang as possible.
 

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Tbh it mostly has to do with the type of clientele a certain race brings.

Lets just say that the less economically strong a man is,the more BANG he wants for his buck. While her game is to gibe you as less bang as possible.
It sounds like the escorts with better service dont have no blacks on their ads since they dont mind that type of clientele.
 

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"I'm not racist, I have black friends." <- I'm sorry, but that still means you're racist.
Non-racist people don't select friends on skin colour.
That's a common hackneyed line that actual racists use. However, perhaps @GoodMan32 does have a point, in the sense, it might be prejudice/discrimination rather than racism (which usually implies White against a Visible Minority, which is NOT the case here) and business decisions because Black escorts do the same thing to Black clients (ie they too say "no blacks"), but you can't call a Black escort "racist". Like it somehow implies "White escorts". It may be better to do away with the term altogether. These are women as people and they have prejudices based on what they've likely heard in the grapevine within their industry or have experienced first-hand themselves. If a White person discloses something to them that makes them stand out as too wierd or risky to deal with, they'll get rejected too on an individual level.
 

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It sounds like the escorts with better service dont have no blacks on their ads since they dont mind that type of clientele.
Its easy: an escort also has let's say 8 hours she can work .

If she's popular enough to have a full agenda, she'll become picky again. I know from very first hand experience behind the scenes that she'll prefers a man with money , worked up and one who suffers from post nut clearity. I worked as a bodyguard for some escorts after they got robbed (although I was always out of sight from the clients).

So if her 8 hours are filled, she'll take the easiest and less risky clients.

A sex club is a better way to go for a foreign man. Direct contact and thus you can get a sense if she has a positive attitude towards your presence. And still (as useal) 90% of rules for game apply; you must be fresh, groomed and shaven, clean, smell good, a good physique ect to het the BEST experience.
 

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Amsterdam is not a country, but I don't expect an American to know the distinction between Amsterdam / Holland / The Netherlands, since Americans in general are not that well-educated in topography.

Do Dutch prostitutes discriminate between clients? Yes, they do. For instance, young British men are refused by some prostitutes because they get drunk and high and take ages to climax, so most prostitutes think they're a waste of their time and money.


Yes, there is no such thing as the Wh0re with the Heart of Gold, who may see the real you and is healed from her degeneracy to be faithful to you. Prostitutes don't make acceptable lovers / girlfriends.

The moment a woman becomes a sex worker, i.e. sells her body in any capacity, her value as a lover / girlfriend drops beyond repair. Whether she's 'just a stripper' or 'I only expose myself on OnlyFans' or 'I only fvck men who can afford with a Rolex' (yes, I consider 'gold diggers' to be prostitutes, just like 'sugar babies'), she's turned sex into a commodity.
And women who are focused on your wallet will never make good companions.

Now, if you just want to get rid of your spunk and you don't want to masturbate and you don't want to spend time and effort finding a woman who will have sex with you, I can imagine people who are desperate enough to go to a sex worker, but no matter what she looks like or whether she can suck a golfball through a garden hose, she won't make a good companion for anything other than sex.

So, you cannot compare women with prostitutes, just because they share the same physiology. Even if a prostitute has 'standards', she will still be below the standards of normal men. If you don't believe so, when was the last time someone boasted at a party about this incredible sex worker he fvcked (apart from the *****mongers on this board)?

The whole comparison of paying for a date to paying a sex worker is ludicrous to pretty much anyone except some degenerates here who think that paying a prostitute requires game. Prostitutes have sex for money. If she 'rejects' you, she's just fishing for more money.
Cutdammit i agreed with the entire post except that last part. Minus the last part was GOLD.

A woman = a woman. I'll repeat: a man who spends his hard earned money MIGHT want( WANT = HOPES FOR) a great experience.( which is more than "just a body to mastrubate with, we forget to factor in the MAN'S pov!!)

There are definitely multiple reasons why you won't get that experience. Lack of game can definitely be a factor. As can race be. I've been "tricked " by many escorts to spend my cash only to get a subpar experience ( e.g my INTENTION to get a "great " experience was quickly reduced to "just a body I can mastrubate my d1ck in"). One of the reasons why I am cautious about visiting prostitutes, i know there's a big chance I'll lose my money on a BAD experience)

Again, you will never be able to know this unless you reincarnate as a man with a dark skin complex.

Higher end sexclubs definitely allow the women to pick out her "best options " just as being highly sought after due to e.g a young age and simply being very pretty.


Iife isn't fair.
 

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Cutdammit i agreed with the entire post except that last part. Minus the last part was GOLD.

A woman = a woman. I'll repeat: a man who spends his hard earned money MIGHT want( WANT = HOPES FOR) a great experience.( which is more than "just a body to mastrubate with, we forget to factor in the MAN'S pov!!)

There are definitely multiple reasons why you won't get that experience. Lack of game can definitely be a factor. As can race be. I've been "tricked " by many escorts to spend my cash only to get a subpar experience ( e.g my INTENTION to get a "great " experience was quickly reduced to "just a body I can mastrubate my d1ck in"). One of the reasons why I am cautious about visiting prostitutes, i know there's a big chance I'll lose my money on a BAD experience)

Again, you will never be able to know this unless you reincarnate as a man with a dark skin complex.

Higher end sexclubs definitely allow the women to pick out her "best options " just as being highly sought after due to e.g a young age and simply being very pretty.


Iife isn't fair.
I've always head a great experience with the past two escorts I used back in December 4 & December 5, 2014. That's why I can remember their names, and the dates of that conquest, and what country they were from. In fact, if it wasn't for the demonic spiritual realm and evil spirits or the fact the whole thing was demonic/occultic in how it was processed afterwards, I'd think it would be too great. At least I know it's not money holding me back from this, but I really value my spiritual peace of mind in not being defiled in my body, soul and spirit by a woman like that. For example, another attack like that can make me lose my job, I may not want to go to work anymore and wreck all sort of havoc.
 

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Paying a prostitute for sex is not a 'conquest' in any interpretation of that word.
You don't understand, I ended up being the conquest of those evil spirits. I lost December, 2014 on that.

I ended up having to rent a hotel room to get the family away from this home and my mother had to nurse me back to health. I learned all about Ativan and other Anti-depressants online and how to avoid them like the plague and even understand other people who do take them. Was unable to sleep, eat properly (I would stare at food), and had all sorts of spatial distrotion experiences, especially false feelings like falling or catapaulting, and could not watch movies, TV-shows or music videos as they would aggrevate the "symptoms".

Its so bad, that if I were to see an escort again, I'd need to have $ 500 set aside in case I need to get that exorcist Bob Larson to perform a skype exorcism. However, interactions with escorts using OnlyFans have only had benefits and no bad effects. The screen is the remedy for having a great experience without dealing with potential spiritual attacks.
 
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By definition, a hoe is a woman who has disconnected the act of sex from love, outside of a monogamous relationship. If she has sex for direct monetarily gain, we call her an escort. If she has sex for a myriad other reasons, she might call herself modern, empowered, exploring sexuality and all that but she's still a hoe.
Now you tell me, how can you have sex within 1-3 dates with a woman from OLD and her NOT be a hoe. The only exception is a woman so messed up that she actually believes she's in love after such short period of time.
Women get horny. They want sex. It feels good to them.
 

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Maybe you should be more consistent in your fantasies posts.
What are you talking about? I don't see anything inconsistent with the post references you've placed. The actual spiritual attacks occurred in the morning of Saturday, December 6, 2014. The first week was the worst, then the rest of the month was not as bad (ie it ebbed and flowed like waves, when it came back it would hit hard, etc..). Had my first hamburger from McDonalds a week later (ie Sunday, December 14, 2014). It was a hard time. Lost allot of weight during that time.

There was no spiritual attack on December 4th, or the 5th. I would not have visited a second escort within a 24 hour period if there was a spiritual attack from the first escort.
 

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Being Caucasian, hardly any escorts will refuse to see me on racial grounds. I've managed to get around a different wall an escort put up, however. This one escort only sees 35+ men. Yet I, being 32, got her to bend the rule.
My ‘strip-clubcel’ friend is White blond tall & blue eyed. Yet he was rejected. he’s a 3.5/10.
 

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If you're familiar with me, chances are you're aware that, while I have banged civvies, I mainly utilize escorts (Other than a one-and-done from 2021, the last time I banged a civvie was 2015).

I compiled an explanation of why (from my perspective at least) escorts are better than civvies:


There are so many complicated rules to follow when trying to get sex from a woman, even if the woman appears to be into you.

If you come on too strong, she’ll change her mind about giving you sex (because you come across as desperate).

Then on the flipside, if you don’t come on strong enough, she’ll also change her mind about giving you sex (because she’ll think you’re not interested, she’ll think you haven’t done enough to prove yourself “worthy,” etc).

If you say or do the “wrong” thing, even once, she’ll change her mind about giving you sex.

It’s extremely difficult to find the precise balance a woman wants. I (along with a lot of guys) have come to the realization it’s more logical to go the escort route. With escorts, you don’t have to worry about the tentative intercourse getting revoked over a slight misstep. Nor do you have to wonder if you’ll get sex; you know for a fact you’ll get sex with the escort.

What are your thoughts?
Most women are a pain in the ass to deal with. It's worth paying sometimes just to avoid having to get to know them.
 

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Why are prostitutes even discussed here? Isn’t the goal of this site the getting a woman who wants you?
There is a sub-discussion, within this thread (which was mainly between me and the OP) as to whether using an escort can make someone more familiar with women if they are not intereacting with any woman at all. For example, I have not physically touched a woman since 2017 in any capacity or way, or being alone with any woman. The OP was getting played at too many times by civvies before he started using escorts.

The OP has indicated that he was able to see a couple of "civvies" after he visited an escort, but has not confirmed that this has made him more familiar dealing with women in general. He also indicated there was a 6 year gap which does not look very promising that an escort can make you feel more comfortable around civvie women, especially in my case, when there could be a risk for a nuclear spiritual attack.
 

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Oh, please tell us more about your great experience of the conquest of two escorts within 24 hours.
I already have in other posts in the past. I didn't actually have vag-sex with them though and refused them when asked. I danced around with the first one with some music (her Spanish music), while she was naked. She bend over her bed after taking over her panties but I refused to put down my underware and didn't get hard during the session at all. The second one was just a bit more hardcore but I refused actual penetrative sex, but was more sexual with her than the first one (ie which is probably why I got attacked afterwards). The second escort, from Brazil, was the last one I dealt with before the spiritual attacks.
 

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If you refuse a service on the basis of race then that's Jim Crow definition by definitions. Like how they say "Whites and Coloured" washrooms in the deep south in the 50s and earlier. If you see a prime looking hot girl-next-door escort girl that's like 19 years old, for example, 8/10 you can bet that ad will say "no blacks", but some older used up fat woman would say that she doesn't discriminate. Who do you think is getting all of the best hookers? If that is not systemic racism then I don't know what is.
I don't deny white men (or even Hispanic men too I suppose; I rarely see escort ads banning Hispanic men) have access to better-looking escorts.

Then I suppose it is discriminatory for an escort to ban black clients for any reason.

I guess my point was it doesn't necessarily mean she hates black men. This one escort (half white, half Latina) I was with when I was 25 said she had a black boyfriend, yet refused to see black clients. Her rationale: She said a BBC feels good to her when she's with him for pleasure. But since escorting is strictly business, a BBC is too painful (that's why she doesn't see black clients).

As an analogy, an escort in her 50s refused to see me because of my age (she makes you be at least 40). Does this mean she hates young guys? Not necessarily.
 

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