Better than everyone else.

[zekko]

When I was your age I thought I was the Sh!t and was emotionally cut off from people, for decades in fact. It was self-preservation, the exoskeleton that held me together. But life showed me that I am nobody special, and that was one of the best (though painful) realizations of my life, because it allowed me to tear down the walls that kept me from connecting with people.

This is one of the things that has always confused me about PUA doctrine. On the one hand, we're supposed to realize that we are nothing special, no better than anyone else, and divest ourselves of ego. But on the other hand, we're supposed to think of ourselves as 10s, and think that girls should be lucky to be with us.

If we're nothing special, how the heck can we be 10s? And honestly, I don't even believe in 10s, but I'm supposed to consider myself one?

The only thing I've thought about how the "we're nothing special" mindset, is that means that to get where we want to be, we have to put in the work, just like anyone else.

 

[BeDJ]

This is one of the things that has always confused me about PUA doctrine. On the one hand, we're supposed to realize that we are nothing special, no better than anyone else, and divest ourselves of ego. But on the other hand, we're supposed to think of ourselves as 10s, and think that girls should be lucky to be with us.

If we're nothing special, how the heck can we be 10s? And honestly, I don't even believe in 10s, but I'm supposed to consider myself one?

The only thing I've thought about how the "we're nothing special" mindset, is that means that to get where we want to be, we have to put in the work, just like anyone else.

Absolutely. The moment I realized I wasn't a special snowflake, although society claims you should be, I've been living a better, more meaningful life. Thinking you are the prize is an attitude that leads to a powerful mindset - Living life under the accordance of your terms.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Shows how little you really know about attraction.

Go suit up and stand by the bar, dont dance, dont smile, just sip on your white wine spritzer like a good little girl and go home alone.

Getting a forum full of men to dislike you is quite impressive for a non-troll as you claim to be.

Obviously you are simply not a people person, and thats your problem.

Being a people person is noticable to others, its inviting to them and it makes them want to talk to you. being an arrogant sociopath will not encourage girlies to drop panties.

Try being fun, and at least pretend to give half a shvt about others.





even talking to you through a computer makes me feel dirty imagine how girls must think of you face to face! eugh!

you've had far too much of my time now

My question was on how to approach women aka create an attraction. I never claimed i knew anything about it. I simply made a remark about his personal aspect.

That's what i do. I don't drink wine either, only water. I'll gladly go home alone than take a fat girl like some of the guys at the club. I have very, very high standards and i don't settle for less.

I asked a question. I gave background to help you ANSWER it better and everyone here, with a few exceptions, has attacked my personality when it doesn't correlate with my question.

I'm a people's person when i want to be. When i need to be, i'll be. It's all part of getting what I want.

I pride myself on how i look and women see that, even men. I get so many people that tell me how great i look and even ASK me where i get my stuff and how can they dress like ME.

This is the interesting point, my friend. "At least pretend to give half a shvt about others". If i did that, i would be called a fake. I'm real and honest. Love me or hate me, i'm still me.

A lot of girls hate me, but they still i'm very attractive. That's enough for me. Whenever i meet anyone, especially a girl, i let her know how much better i am. Thoughts, words, and actions all show it. I leave her like "I was going to say something, but damn i got nothing".

@AtomSmasher: That's the thing. I'm not ONE of the common. I'm something else. Good or bad, i will change it all in whatever area i choose to put by unrivaled drive and determination. Maybe you got drilled in that you weren't special or whatever. For the longest time i actually tried to change to fit what everyone, much like you people, told me to change. However, i realized that i'm never going to change and there is a reason why. I'm not one of the bunch, i'm not average, and i don't settle with what i'm given. I am, and have, something that your average person doesn't. You can tell me how no one is different than me and blah blah, but people quit halfway when things get tough. That's human nature. If you can't do the last rep of an exercise, you will be done. However, i re-do the whole set until i can finish it all off. It is the same with everything i do. In whatever i do, i don't lose. I either win or win.

@Floyd: You were the one that attacked me. I kept evading it and you kept telling me i was a narcissist and this and that. Don't start something you can't finish. Ban me? I haven't broken any rules and i think i can contribute a lot to this forum.

@Zekko: You see how hypocritical that sounds? Either you believe in yourself and that mindset or you don't. There is no in between. Everyone here has an issue with me because i won't change my way of thinking into fitting EVERYONE else's? Does that make sense to you? "I'd rather you call me ****y for living like i believe, that i'm a king."

 

[ScottMustaine]

@Scott: If you attract anyone with ripped jeans and an old shirt, i'm perfectly content in saying that they probably have low standards, much like you. Hobos attract hobos, no offence.

Why would you tell me things like that, which simply make you look bad and with no taste?

Not to sound mean, but i only buy people i have a use for. Money is great tool to get what you want.

Well, let's put it this way. Jesus Christ was a hobo. He didn't shave as well ! ( I actually do ! )

But let's see.. People are dying for him, believing after 2000+ years, fighting wars, making money out of him. And by stories he was a Son of a God who had power to heal etc.

Not bad a for a low standard hobo. I still can't see CEO's actually ressurecting and healing others. Must be the weather.

Anyway, Slash was fkin girls all over the place and he was sleeping in a warehouse. Abandoned one.

I don't still see the point of how come clothing defines your character and your personality traits. Like... Dude...


"Why would you tell me things like that, which simply make you look bad and with no taste?
"

I'll play it your way. I don't care.

No taste ? De gustibus est non disputandum ! ( Google it if you don't it's meaning)



Can you show us how you look, like a picture of yourself ?

I wanna masturbate on it !

Jokes aside, I wonder what's so "special" about you and your looks.

 

[Darth]

"That's the thing. I'm not ONE of the common."

You are, friend. You just don't know it. Nothing wrong with wearing nice clothes and being successful at business, etc. But that doesn't make you who you are.

You have a monstrous ego and I am telling you because I know- the bigger your ego is, the bigger are the problems/weaknesses that that ego was constructed to cover up.

 

[JoeMarron]

It sounds like you should just focus on world domination and not concern yourself with the lowly peasants of the world. Since youre so incredibly spectacular I dont understand why women dont just throw themselves on your divine manhood as soon as you walk in the room but that doesnt matter.

Youre fabulously wealthy so if the task of making the world bow down and submit to your magnificent glory becomes too stressful; you could always hire a few expensive escorts to blow off some steam with.

 

[Ronaldo7]

"That's the thing. I'm not ONE of the common."

You are, friend. You just don't know it. Nothing wrong with wearing nice clothes and being successful at business, etc. But that doesn't make you who you are.

You have a monstrous ego and I am telling you because I know- the bigger your ego is, the bigger are the problems/weaknesses that that ego was constructed to cover up.

I know i'm not one of the common. Maybe you think you are common, just like everyone else. What makes me who i am? You are clearly designed to think of yourself as equal to everyone else. That's the type of people who are the "Average Joe".

I have a big ego, but i wouldn't say i have a monstrous one. Everyone has problems, who doesn't? However, i don't use my ego to cover them up. What i'm typing is what i truly believe.

@Joe: Hahaha. Your response is actually funny. Thanks for the compliment though.

 

[Darth]

I know i'm not one of the common. Maybe you think you are common, just like everyone else. What makes me who i am? You are clearly designed to think of yourself as equal to everyone else. That's the type of people who are the "Average Joe".

Listen buddy, I think you are full of sh!t. I used to have a big ego too, I used to think I was better than everybody else, that the worst thing in the world was to be average. You know what? I was wrong.

I still have high standards. I am still in pursuit of excellence. I have many of the same professional goals that I used to have. But the motivation is altogether different. I think that every one of my days is a gift from God. I could literally drop dead at any moment. All of my possessions are God's on loan. All of my talents and abilities- from God, on loan. I'm on borrowed time, buddy. Everybody dies and that includes you. Then what good is that big ego you've been feeding? I pursue success so I can try to thank/repay God for the gifts I've been given- not to puff myself up, which is what I used to believe.

Whether you share my own philosophy or not, the point remains that you are a legend in your OWN MIND. Nobody else thinks of you that way. It is a comforting fantasy to think you are better than everybody else, but I'm telling you- underneath that is anger, pain, and a sh!tload of childhood problems.

This is the last I'll say on this topic. Good luck to you.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Listen buddy, I think you are full of sh!t. I used to have a big ego too, I used to think I was better than everybody else, that the worst thing in the world was to be average. You know what? I was wrong.

I still have high standards. I am still in pursuit of excellence. I have many of the same professional goals that I used to have. But the motivation is altogether different. I think that every one of my days is a gift from God. I could literally drop dead at any moment. All of my possessions are God's on loan. All of my talents and abilities- from God, on loan. I'm on borrowed time, buddy. Everybody dies and that includes you. Then what good is that big ego you've been feeding? I pursue success so I can try to thank/repay God for the gifts I've been given- not to puff myself up, which is what I used to believe.

Whether you share my own philosophy or not, the point remains that you are a legend in your OWN MIND. Nobody else thinks of you that way. It is a comforting fantasy to think you are better than everybody else, but I'm telling you- underneath that is anger, pain, and a sh!tload of childhood problems.

This is the last I'll say on this topic. Good luck to you.

Thanks for your comment. I really could care less what others think. I only care/give a sh!t about what i think. I'll reach my goals and successes my way. We are all different and think very differently. I'm not you and you are not me. I'm a legend, you are right. Do i care what everyone else thinks? Nope. It's what i say vs what others say and who do i care about only? Myself. You have your opinion and that's that. I have the truth by my side, which trumps any opinion.

@RoyalFlush: This thread has gone to waste since no one answered my question. What an unfortunate incident. I am simply responding to people that seem to have an inquiry about me.

 

[TheStig]

This thread has gone to waste since no one answered my question.

Here's a simple answer aside from all the bullsh1t going on with your NPD: when you see a girl look your way, go up to her and talk to her. Assuming it's a positive look, that's the green light for you to go say something. Easy.

I won't elaborate further because remember, you are a "people person" when you need to be, or have use for someone to get what you want, so I'm sure you can take it from there.


Oh and this next little thing has been bugging the sh1t out of me ever since I read it. You say your classic phrase is "I could care less." By saying that you could care less, you are implying that you do care. This is because you have to care on some level to be able to care less than you already do. You should be saying that you "couldn't care less." This means that you could not possibly care less than you already do (meaning that you don't care at all). So to summarize: could care less = you do care, and couldn't care less = you don't care.

It wouldn't bug me if you weren't a pretentious, spoiled, @ss, from being coddled like an infant your whole life. You are exactly that, though. You also say you are better than everyone in everything you do. Well, you sure as hell don't have as good of a grasp of the English language as some people.

If you worked hard to get rich and build your own wealth, you'd have somewhat of a right to be an arrogant prick about being filthy rich, because it would be a product of your hard work. However, since you are only 18, that means all your money came from mommy and daddy. What's the family business that will make you a billionaire one day? What if that business were to go under, due to unfortunate circumstances? What if the money ran out?




Ah man I realize there's no point in saying anything to this snot nosed kid, but after reading 5 pages of this sh1t, it got pretty annoying.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Here's a simple answer aside from all the bullsh1t going on with your NPD: when you see a girl look your way, go up to her and talk to her. Assuming it's a positive look, that's the green light for you to go say something. Easy.

I won't elaborate further because remember, you are a "people person" when you need to be, or have use for someone to get what you want, so I'm sure you can take it from there.


Oh and this next little thing has been bugging the sh1t out of me ever since I read it. You say your classic phrase is "I could care less." By saying that you could care less, you are implying that you do care. This is because you have to care on some level to be able to care less than you already do. You should be saying that you "couldn't care less." This means that you could not possibly care less than you already do (meaning that you don't care at all). So to summarize: could care less = you do care, and couldn't care less = you don't care.

It wouldn't bug me if you weren't a pretentious, spoiled, @ss, from being coddled like an infant your whole life. You are exactly that, though. You also say you are better than everyone in everything you do. Well, you sure as hell don't have as good of a grasp of the English language as some people.

If you worked hard to get rich and build your own wealth, you'd have somewhat of a right to be an arrogant prick about being filthy rich, because it would be a product of your hard work. However, since you are only 18, that means all your money came from mommy and daddy. What's the family business that will make you a billionaire one day? What if that business were to go under, due to unfortunate circumstances? What if the money ran out?




Ah man I realize there's no point in saying anything to this snot nosed kid, but after reading 5 pages of this sh1t, it got pretty annoying.

Thanks for your answer to my question. I'll be sure to do so or more likely wait for her to come, since i am the higher value. I understand from the DJ Bible that you are supposed to show her you are the higher value, which i clearly obviously am.

How many languages do you speak? I speak 4 languages. Do you have to translate EVERYTHING through 3 other languages first? I don't think so. In other languages, English words in a sentence are flipped in sequence and it sounds a lot different in English than in French, Portuguese, or Spanish. I like how you point that out when you know that i have the strength in that and you don't.

Money does come from my parents. However, i also have my own savings from my own work.

I plan to build my own empire and dynasty. I'll take all the credit for myself. I would never allow for anyone to share my success. It's mine and not anyone elses. I am the "I" in team. I am the team.

 

[VladPatton]

You guys are just wasting time talking to this tool. No matter what you say, he attacks and praises himself - while viewing everyone as beneath him. Don't you see in all of his responses? This is what it's like dealing with an NPD. You CAN'T get through to them. He's not going to come to his senses.

Should just ban his worthless ass.

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Hellz to the yeah

 

[TheStig]

Thanks for your answer to my question. I'll be sure to do so or more likely wait for her to come, since i am the higher value. I understand from the DJ Bible that you are supposed to show her you are the higher value, which i clearly obviously am.

How many languages do you speak? I speak 4 languages. Do you have to translate EVERYTHING through 3 other languages first? I don't think so. In other languages, English words in a sentence are flipped in sequence and it sounds a lot different in English than in French, Portuguese, or Spanish. I like how you point that out when you know that i have the strength in that and you don't.

Money does come from my parents. However, i also have my own savings from my own work.

I plan to build my own empire and dynasty. I'll take all the credit for myself. I would never allow for anyone to share my success. It's mine and not anyone elses. I am the "I" in team. I am the team.

Any average Joe can wear a suit to a club and just sit there looking all smug and arrogant. But you, you must just have some glistening aura of high value about you that beckons girls to come and give themselves up to you. Only HB10's right?

For real though dude how's a girl gonna know you're high value if you're sitting there doing nothing? Your suit that's out of place in the situation? Your smug looks?

And translating everything through 3 languages first? LOL what a pile of sh1t. Why would you not just translate from your native language (whatever that is) to the one you are using in the moment? Assuming you're Portugese (just for an example), do you write a thought in Portugese, then translate it to French, then Spanish, then English? You translate a sentence through every language you know before ending up in the language you happen to be communicating? HAHA what a fvcking joke. And yes I took 3 years of Spanish in high school.



Serious question though, what business are you in?




Anyway, you either a colossal troll, or in serious need of help. Psychiatric help. Nobody here can help you, as it's been proven already.


But for real mods ban this douche, this thread is a waste of space and not productive or helpful in any way.

 

[Down Low]

Oh and this next little thing has been bugging the sh1t out of me ever since I read it. You say your classic phrase is "I could care less." By saying that you could care less, you are implying that you do care. This is because you have to care on some level to be able to care less than you already do. You should be saying that you "couldn't care less." This means that you could not possibly care less than you already do (meaning that you don't care at all). So to summarize: could care less = you do care, and couldn't care less = you don't care.

It wouldn't bug me if you weren't a pretentious, spoiled, @ss, from being coddled like an infant your whole life. You are exactly that, though. You also say you are better than everyone in everything you do. Well, you sure as hell don't have as good of a grasp of the English language as some people.

That's what I said 50 posts ago. His English is inferior. I've known tons of immigrants whose native language wasn't English, but wrote and spoke far better than this low-class braggart. Now, if he were saying he's an ordinary guy with a lot of potential, and wants our help to reach that potential, that would be different. I'd be inclined to overlook imperfection. As it is, I'm inclined to ask the moderators to ban the OP and close this thread.

 

[MikeOck]

If your posts are not trolling, internet jocking, or any variation of the two, you need to seek help...you as well have NPD.

Seriously Ronaldo7, go read up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Just from what you have written here it is clear that you fit the profile perfectly.

 

[Trailboss]

WoW! 6 pages and 100+ posts dedicated to this neo-maxie-zoom-dweebie? LOLZ! Kid's a complete retard and a troll...if he actually *believes* his own drivel, I would love to be there when he crashes and burns and finds out he is just human and nothing more....

 

[penkitten]

recipe for sheldon cooper's spaghetti:

cook some spaghetti with sauce but instead of using hamburger meat or meatballs - you cut up frankfuter's and add them instead.

sounds gross but watch this :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUZi-RJdpwk

 

[ScottMustaine]

Ronaldo. Post your pic. We wonder how you dress and look generally.


You didn't answer to that 'request'.

 

[Gunner26]

Ronaldo, I don't know anything about this NPD everybody is talking about, but it sounds pretty accurate. If you really are the best then you shouldn't neglect your wellbeing.

On your belief that only one opinion matters - yours. What if you (hypothetically) broke your leg and were advised not to go to the gym for 6 months, yet you thought you would be ok in 3 months. Don't try and claim that you would not be foolish enough to believe you would be back in 3 months, this is all hypothetical. Would you then disregard the doctors advice and go back to the gym after 3 months? Your SPECIAL status would not speed up the process.

You state that you gave background information to us to help give you an answer, and that the majority of posters have used this information to attack you and not answer the question you posed. This is true.

However my advice is that your personality needs to be altered. You cannot approach women because the essence of your personality prevents you from doing it, you believe you are above approaching the majority of the time. This is what makes you fail in this particular situation.

You say you can be a people person when it suits you. It suits you to get a woman, so go and say hello. It shouldn't matter that she should be coming to you. If YOU want to get the girl, YOU have to approach. It does not matter if you believe you are above her and she should approach you. You asked for advice on how to approach woman. The advice is to try to forget your superiority complex - which is exactly what you have, and go and say hello.

It is excellent that you are driven and determined. It is excellent that you have a high opinion of yourself. However these traits are blinding you to the fact that to approach a woman you need to say hello to her and ask her questions about herself. Do not now say that she should approach you. That is not the question you asked, you asked how to approach girls. The answer is to go up to them and say hello. Your personality claiming she should come to you is your biggest hinderance in doing this, hence the assault on your personality by some posters.

Can you understand this now Ronaldo?

 

[zekko]

being an arrogant sociopath will not encourage girlies to drop panties.

Well, will it or won't it? Because it seems to me most of the forum thinks that being a sociopath is the way to go. PlayHerMan had a thread saying you had to be a sociopath to get respect from women. I think I was about the only guy on the thread saying no, it wasn't necessary. Everyone else was saying women were highly attracted to sociopathic traits. So which is it?

Seems to me this Renaldo guy is exactly what this forum espouses a man to be in order to get women, aside from the reluctance to approach. So from that perspective, I don't know why everyone is jumping on him.