Better than everyone else.

[floydb25]

Hmmmm... Mr. Fabulous must've used up his 10 posts. Felt more like 500. I'm sure he'll respond to EVERYBODY in the usual glee-ful manner once his time is up. Probably counting down the hours, and ****. "OH NOES! THEY DON'T REALIZE HOW AWESOME I AM. GOTTA SET THE RECORD STRAIGHT! AGAIN! THEY JUST DON'T GET IT, DO THEY? WHY DO I HAVE A POST LIMIT, ANYWAY? DON'T THEY SEE HOW MUCH BETTER I AM THAN EVERYBODY ELSE?"

****ing homo. :cheer:

 

[Atom Smasher]

Well, will it or won't it? Because it seems to me most of the forum thinks that being a sociopath is the way to go. PlayHerMan had a thread saying you had to be a sociopath to get respect from women. I think I was about the only guy on the thread saying no, it wasn't necessary. Everyone else was saying women were highly attracted to sociopathic traits. So which is it?

Seems to me this Renaldo guy is exactly what this forum espouses a man to be in order to get women, aside from the reluctance to approach. So from that perspective, I don't know why everyone is jumping on him.

I hate to say it but it seems to me they respond way more favorably to meanness than niceness, after the initial shock is past. This applies (in my experience) only to uber-hot chicks who think their sh!t don't stink, or to 7-8's who have just emitted a sh!t test. Hot women DESIRE to be called on their sh!t. It's the only way they know a man's caliber.

This, however, does not apply to average girls (again, in my experience). The hotter the girl, the more she needs arrogance and C7F. Conversely, the more average the girl, the less. In fact, below-average to average girls don't even respond well to mild C&F.

I've found (and just recently, at that) that when a hot girl is "above you" in her attitude toward you the way to bring her down to reality is some AH behavior, arrogant from a place of conveying that you absolutely couldn't care less what she thinks of you. That includes avoiding being over-arrogant to the point of appearing to care. It's all about letting her know she's expendible and that you're not drooling over her like everyone else.

It is the sickness and deterioration of modern women that makes this so. It's abnormal and definitely NOT what most of us men want to do and be, but being a nice, decent man to a hot woman is disgusting to her, in general. If not immediately, then in the future because she will grow to despise the decent, kind man. Sick, I know, but real nonetheless.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Well, will it or won't it? Because it seems to me most of the forum thinks that being a sociopath is the way to go. PlayHerMan had a thread saying you had to be a sociopath to get respect from women. I think I was about the only guy on the thread saying no, it wasn't necessary. Everyone else was saying women were highly attracted to sociopathic traits. So which is it?

Seems to me this Renaldo guy is exactly what this forum espouses a man to be in order to get women, aside from the reluctance to approach. So from that perspective, I don't know why everyone is jumping on him.

People will always hate what they can't comprehend for themselves. The reason people are attacking me is because i won't change, since they obviously have big problem with the way i conduct myself. If you don't bend over for people and instead exert your authority, they will not like it, especially, as mentioned before, when you are asking for help. I know i have all the tools to break as many hearts as i desire. People are often jealous of me because i don't care what they say or do. I'd rather people call me ****y for living like i believe, that i'm a king.

@Gunner26: Thanks for your comment. I took into consideration your helpful advice on how to approach women, but i forgot how good-looking i am, as hard as that is to believe, and how girls give me those longing, drooling looks.
I went out to the club and met a girl who kept smiling at me. I'd say she was a 9 for my standards and i have very,very, very high standards. She had the body, the moves, and the face. She also had a very good sense of style. I took your advice, which i had been asking for in this thread, and approached her. I went up to her and said "Do you always look good or did you simply put the extra effort in because you knew you were going to meet me?" She told me i was full of myself and i told her that she was full of me too, so we did have something in common. I never knew it was going to be this easy to open up a woman. I don't see how it should be hard for any of you. Needless to say, i got her number and i'm taking her to a movie. You know you are ahead of the competition when she is 23 and you are 18. Thanks for the advice man.

 

[Gunner26]

@Gunner26: Thanks for your comment. I took into consideration your helpful advice on how to approach women, but i forgot how good-looking i am, as hard as that is to believe, and how girls give me those longing, drooling looks.

This is good Ronaldo. How did you feel when you forgot about yourself in this way? Nobody really wants a person who believes that they are the perfect human, it is not just the feeling people get that they aren't good enough for them, it is the fact they have opposition for thier affections by the 'perfect' being that they are talking too. This is why you were not as successful with women.

I went out to the club and met a girl who kept smiling at me. I'd say she was a 9 for my standards and i have very,very, very high standards. She had the body, the moves, and the face. She also had a very good sense of style. I took your advice, which i had been asking for in this thread, and approached her. I went up to her and said "Do you always look good or did you simply put the extra effort in because you knew you were going to meet me?" She told me i was full of myself and i told her that she was full of me too, so we did have something in common.

See this is a good example of an initial approach. You were confident, but not too arrogant, a result of you attempting to forget you believe yourself to be better than her, even though you aren't. Obviously you were still of the mindset that she should be qualifying herself to you as you are a great catch, hence the reply to her assumption that you were full of yourself.

I never knew it was going to be this easy to open up a woman. I don't see how it should be hard for any of you. Needless to say, i got her number and i'm taking her to a movie. You know you are ahead of the competition when she is 23 and you are 18. Thanks for the advice man.

Opening is not too difficult, it stems from a confidence in your ability, which is obvious you have, perhaps in too much abundance. The trick is to remember that nobody wants to feel that you are better than them, you may believe it, but do not show it to them, it WILL NOT work for you, not initially, nor in the long run. Better to keep this side of your personality hidden in your encounters with people.

I replied in bold.

But one more thing I'd like to say is that your interaction with this woman went well because you didn't put it into her head that you were better than her. At least not too much.
This is a mindset to have in interactions with people. You say that you discard people you no longer need, ok fair enough I suppose, people drop friends all the time and make new social groups.

However your aim to be CEO is dependant not only on your determination to obtain this position. As far as I am aware CEO is a position you are appointed by a board or committee of people in a high position in the company. If this is the case, no matter your determination, you need to be on good terms with these people, not just to get the position of CEO, but to maintain it. A company big enough to have an important CEO is dependant on it's board members as much as the CEO. If you get to this stage, and best of luck to you, you will have to revert your belief you are the best. You may have the highest position in the company, but your success will be based on the work of YOUR employees. For them to work at their best they need to be valued, you HAVE to have belief in them to do their job capably. If your employees feel undervalued your company will go to ****. No matter your 'determination' 'confidence' and 'superiority to them'. This is why your personality needs to be changed.

Think of it as helping yourself out, by valuing people more, you put yourself in a better position to enjoy being CEO, rather than worry about disenchanted and resentful board members and employees.

Gunner

 

[ScottMustaine]

Still waiting to see that picture of Ronaldo. Keeps me wondering how does he really look like.

 

[cordoncordon]

Op...u wut mate? Do you normally SPAM message boards this much?

OP.....is either a troll of epic proportions or one of the biggest Narcissistic sociopaths I have ever come across. If he is a real person? Remember the villains in James Bond Movies? Goldfinger or Blofeld or Dr Evil? That is this guy. A mini me Dr. Evil trying to act all tough and ****y. Someone who, on the outside at least, is so over the top that you JUST CANNOT TAKE HIM SERIOUSLY. And that is the issue here, he wants to be taken seriously. But he has the opposite affect on people. They don't. Instead they laugh and snicker behind his back, and more or less think of him as a clown. A narcissistic clown. I don't think that is the look that OP is going for, but alas it is reality.

Now, to you OP. You so remind me of every other 18 year old out there. You are just a kid. A kid who doesn't know any better. A kid with no knowledge on what to do or say, in almost every situation you encounter. So you go over the top, just like any 18 year old boy does. Some 18 year olds act tough, some act emo, some act like a know it all. Some dress like a thug. Some dress like a jock. Some wear a suit. Why? Because they are awkward and unsure and not confident, but they are too worried about their image so they act in a way that they think will get them what they want...RESPECT.

You should understand that people who need to constantly tell others how great they are, how superior they are, how confident they are, are in fact just the opposite. They need to say these things constantly, to others and to themselves, because they are so not confident in real life that without this constant self validation, they are nothing.

Some key things about you exemplify this for me even more. One, your lack of ability to talk to girls. Classic classic sign of someone who doesn't possess the real self inner confidence one needs to do that, especially at your age. Just like any kid at your age really. These girls are beneath you and yet you don't know how to talk to them? Does not compute.

Two, for someone with your supposed intellect and mental superiority, you really don't write all that well nor is your grasp of the English language top notch. In fact for someone who is a genius such as yourself, you couldn't even find the DJ bible on this website. Which is literally something an 8 year old could do. And speaking of, why, if you are so above anyone in almost every way, do you even need an online website to find out how to talk to girls? Shouldn't this just be second nature for you? Does not add up in my book.

Look, you honestly remind me of a spoiled little princess girl. A girl who has been spoiled all her life and who has guys waiting on her hand and foot and as result has a very entitled attitude. THAT is your attitude and this just happened.

It takes A LOT for a guy to alienate himself on this site as much as you have, usually that honor is saved just for the spoiled beootchess that are so prevalent today, but you have succeeded wonderfully in that regard. You will get no where in life with that kind of persona unless you have a skill set that is in such demand that it would allow you to get away with it. Something like a world class athlete, or singer, or actor. Or a genius in some specific area of expertise.

But you are none of those things. You are a ****y, smart aleck, 18 year old kid x 1000. And you will get no where in life being that way.

Or? You are a troll. A spamming troll. But maybe, just maybe, you are both. In which case, your entire life is SPAM.

And backbreaker, I find it truly sad that you said "this guy is you". Just wow. Though that might explain the issues you have had in life, and you do seem to have overcome a lot of them. So congrats.

 

[cordoncordon]

Ronny my boy surely if you are so self confident of your look and abilities, showing a pic or two of yourself on here would be A OK in your book right? Or, are you not as good looking IRL as you say you are?

 

[ScottMustaine]

Funny, some of us (including myself ) seem to throw insults (and maybe harnessed anger ) towards him while his ego is being fed by our attention.

Seems like a win win to me.

 

[zekko]

I hate to say it but it seems to me they respond way more favorably to meanness than niceness, after the initial shock is past. This applies (in my experience) only to uber-hot chicks who think their sh!t don't stink, or to 7-8's who have just emitted a sh!t test. Hot women DESIRE to be called on their sh!t. It's the only way they know a man's caliber.

Here's where we disagree: See, I don't think that calling a woman on her sh!t is sociopathic, or mean, or anything of the sort. It's simply treating her like you would treat any other normal person. This is one thing that really aggravates me about pickup forums like this. It seems like if you are not kissing a woman's @ss and bowing and scraping to her, then this qualifies as "jerk" behavior and sociopathy, when clearly it does not.

And I honestly do not care what some random girl thinks of me. Why would I? So I don't have to put on some sort of pathological "act" to convince her of it. Now if no girl ever gave me any interest, then I might care. Pretty girls are a dime a dozen. Now finding one that is actually worth spending time with, that is the challenge.

It is the sickness and deterioration of modern women that makes this so. It's abnormal and definitely NOT what most of us men want to do and be, but being a nice, decent man to a hot woman is disgusting to her, in general. If not immediately, then in the future because she will grow to despise the decent, kind man. Sick, I know, but real nonetheless.

There are women like this, but they should be avoided like the plague. Such women are not even worthy of a pump and dump IMO. But PUA types will follow after these girls like puppy dogs, giving them validation through sex.

But I must disagree that all women are like this, I'm not seeing it. You don't see hot girls impressed by family men who are out with their children and are good with them? Not all women despise decent men, as I've said before I know many attractive women who are with good, decent men. But you have to have a bold and confident attitude with these girls - you can't be weak or placing them above you in your head, because as soon as you do, you're done.

I hate to think what this next generation of "men" is going to be. All of this stuff about how you can't be a "Nice Guy" is going mainstream, and more and more guys are convinced you have to be an @sshole to get women. Women are already attending and graduating college more than men. As more guys are taught to be anti-social rebels that can't or won't fit into society, this is only going to get worse.

Back to Renaldo, this guy should be this forum's biggest hero. He's been accused of narcissism, but isn't this (along with psychopathy) one of the "Dark Triad" traits that are supposed to be so appealing to women? If this guy is a narcissist and a sociopath, he's simply the personification of what most guys on here aspire to be.

 

[Ronaldo7]

I replied in bold.

But one more thing I'd like to say is that your interaction with this woman went well because you didn't put it into her head that you were better than her. At least not too much.
This is a mindset to have in interactions with people. You say that you discard people you no longer need, ok fair enough I suppose, people drop friends all the time and make new social groups.

However your aim to be CEO is dependant not only on your determination to obtain this position. As far as I am aware CEO is a position you are appointed by a board or committee of people in a high position in the company. If this is the case, no matter your determination, you need to be on good terms with these people, not just to get the position of CEO, but to maintain it. A company big enough to have an important CEO is dependant on it's board members as much as the CEO. If you get to this stage, and best of luck to you, you will have to revert your belief you are the best. You may have the highest position in the company, but your success will be based on the work of YOUR employees. For them to work at their best they need to be valued, you HAVE to have belief in them to do their job capably. If your employees feel undervalued your company will go to ****. No matter your 'determination' 'confidence' and 'superiority to them'. This is why your personality needs to be changed.

Think of it as helping yourself out, by valuing people more, you put yourself in a better position to enjoy being CEO, rather than worry about disenchanted and resentful board members and employees.

Gunner

I meant i forgot how far my good looks take me. I can't help they look my way, can i?

But i am better than her. If you could only see the way she texts me. It's like she was dying for me to talk to her. She kept asking for me to add her on FB because she wanted to see how someone like me didn't have a girl by his side.

There is no such thing as overconfidence. I found you just need to make statements. I simply told her we were going out. I didn't ask for her opinion because i could care less what she has to say. Even if i keep my mouth tight, it will always show how much better i am. It's like a world-class athlete trying to fake he is an amateur. I'm good where i'm going and i don't need to worry.

If you really think about it, the statements i made to her were all to flatter myself. I think i have the advantage that i will only show myself and never let others have any value to them.

The CEO earns the billions. As long as i earn the billions, i could have the whole world hating me and i wouldn't care. Employees? Haha. They can do whatever they please and it won't change a thing. They are easily replaced with new ones. What can they really say or do? I'm on top, while they are at the bottom of the food chain.

@cordoncordon: I take myself seriously. Do i care if you take me seriously? No. I only care about what I think, if you didn't know that already.

I never said i didn't know how to talk to girls. I said i didn't know how to APPROACH. Please fully comprehend what i type. I can talk my way into and out of anything. Words come naturally to me.

"You really don't write all that well nor is your grasp of the English language top notch". I speak 4 languages. You can keep your solitary language to yourself. Thanks for the compliment, again. There were 2 links to the DJ Bible and i asked which one was which. Please fully comprehend what i type. I simply asked a question here about approaching women, which turned into a sh!t fest, because i wanted an opinion from people who do not know me.

I don't see how i've alienated myself here. We will see where i get in life and where you end up, seeing that you are 39. Don't feel jealous that my future is going to be one of a billionaire, while you could only manage to be average, just like everyone else.

@Zekko: "Back to Renaldo, this guy should be this forum's biggest hero. He's been accused of narcissism, but isn't this (along with psychopathy) one of the "Dark Triad" traits that are supposed to be so appealing to women? If this guy is a narcissist and a sociopath, he's simply the personification of what most guys on here aspire to be." It's all about jealousy and not being able to understand me, my friend.

I think you stand under me
If you don't understand me

 

[cordoncordon]

I meant i forgot how far my good looks take me. I can't help they look my way, can i?

But i am better than her. If you could only see the way she texts me. It's like she was dying for me to talk to her. She kept asking for me to add her on FB because she wanted to see how someone like me didn't have a girl by his side.

There is no such thing as overconfidence. I found you just need to make statements. I simply told her we were going out. I didn't ask for her opinion because i could care less what she has to say. Even if i keep my mouth tight, it will always show how much better i am. It's like a world-class athlete trying to fake he is an amateur. I'm good where i'm going and i don't need to worry.

If you really think about it, the statements i made to her were all to flatter myself. I think i have the advantage that i will only show myself and never let others have any value to them.

The CEO earns the billions. As long as i earn the billions, i could have the whole world hating me and i wouldn't care. Employees? Haha. They can do whatever they please and it won't change a thing. They are easily replaced with new ones. What can they really say or do? I'm on top, while they are at the bottom of the food chain.

@cordoncordon: I take myself seriously. Do i care if you take me seriously? No. I only care about what I think, if you didn't know that already.

I never said i didn't know how to talk to girls. I said i didn't know how to APPROACH. Please fully comprehend what i type. I can talk my way into and out of anything. Words come naturally to me.

"You really don't write all that well nor is your grasp of the English language top notch". I speak 4 languages. You can keep your solitary language to yourself. Thanks for the compliment, again. There were 2 links to the DJ Bible and i asked which one was which. Please fully comprehend what i type. I simply asked a question here about approaching women, which turned into a sh!t fest, because i wanted an opinion from people who do not know me.

I don't see how i've alienated myself here. We will see where i get in life and where you end up, seeing that you are 39. Don't feel jealous that my future is going to be one of a billionaire, while you could only manage to be average, just like everyone else.

@Zekko: "Back to Renaldo, this guy should be this forum's biggest hero. He's been accused of narcissism, but isn't this (along with psychopathy) one of the "Dark Triad" traits that are supposed to be so appealing to women? If this guy is a narcissist and a sociopath, he's simply the personification of what most guys on here aspire to be." It's all about jealousy and not being able to understand me, my friend.

I think you stand under me
If you don't understand me

You're either a troll, delusional, suffer from a mental illness, or insane. Possibly a combo of all of those. Whatever it is, you are not all there mentally. But, I think even you know that in some way.

Still waiting for those pics Mr. mini me.

 

[Ronaldo7]

You're either a troll, delusional, suffer from a mental illness, or insane. Possibly a combo of all of those. Whatever it is, you are not all there mentally. But, I think even you know that in some way.

Still waiting for those pics Mr. mini me.

It's alright man. I know i awake jealousy everywhere that i go.

Keep waiting. It seems like you are a bit too worried about me and what i do. If you had worried about yourself as much as i do about myself, you might not have reached 39 and been a simple Average Joe.

 

[Plutoman]

It's alright man. I know i awake jealousy everywhere that i go.

Haha. From an 18 y/o pipsqueak with a big mouth? Fat chance of that.

Come back when you're willing to back that mouth with real achievements.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Haha. From an 18 y/o pipsqueak with a big mouth? Fat chance of that.

Come back when you're willing to back that mouth with real achievements.

But how would you know? I know what my achievements are up to this point. Everyone here is older than me. I would have expected more maturity and not constant attacks on someone for not being, and thinking, the same as everyone else. I can back up everything i say and do. I really see no point in talking if i can't show it. I am all about showing and then exposing how much better i am. Don't be so dense.

 

[Plutoman]

Back it up, then. All I see is words.

If you cannot understand why you are getting criticized, then you are failing to understand basic social interactions. It goes beyond you being different. To put it in perspective - don't be so dense.

 

[Ronaldo7]

What is it that i can't back up? This thread was meant for me to get helped on how to approach women. I got the help from Gunner and i used his advice. I don't understand why i'm being criticized at all. It really does stem from jealousy and my ability to not care for anyone other than myself.

I really don't think you should be criticizing anyone. It's funny how in your thread you show that you need to drink to be able to approach women. You can call me arrogant, ****y, a jerk, a douche, and anything else you want. However, i am very,very confident in myself and i don't need anything else to be this way. You lack confidence all throughout and need to drink to get in the "zone".

Don't be jealous of me. It gets pretty boring when every other person is jealous of everything that involves me.

 

[JoeMarron]

I've been lurking here for quite awhile and this may very well be the most hysterical thread in recent history.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Only because people make it so. This was a legitimate question and it got turned into a sh!t fest.

 

[SgtSplacker]

If I pick up my friend to go clubbing and homeboy comes out in a suit and tie, i'm leaving him at home.

You're doing it wrong...

 

[floydb25]

Everyone should just post random **** which SEEMS legit / response worthy, to get Mr. Dumbass to keep using up his post limit (ie, not have to listen to his drivel). You agree with this idea. :nono: