Purefilth said:
Shows how little you really know about attraction.
Go suit up and stand by the bar, dont dance, dont smile, just sip on your white wine spritzer like a good little girl and go home alone.
Getting a forum full of men to dislike you is quite impressive for a non-troll as you claim to be.
Obviously you are simply not a people person, and thats your problem.
Being a people person is noticable to others, its inviting to them and it makes them want to talk to you. being an arrogant sociopath will not encourage girlies to drop panties.
Try being fun, and at least pretend to give half a shvt about others.
even talking to you through a computer makes me feel dirty imagine how girls must think of you face to face! eugh!
you've had far too much of my time now
My question was on how to approach women aka create an attraction. I never claimed i knew anything about it. I simply made a remark about his personal aspect.
That's what i do. I don't drink wine either, only water. I'll gladly go home alone than take a fat girl like some of the guys at the club. I have very, very high standards and i don't settle for less.
I asked a question. I gave background to help you ANSWER it better and everyone here, with a few exceptions, has attacked my personality when it doesn't correlate with my question.
I'm a people's person when i want to be. When i need to be, i'll be. It's all part of getting what I want.
I pride myself on how i look and women see that, even men. I get so many people that tell me how great i look and even ASK me where i get my stuff and how can they dress like ME.
This is the interesting point, my friend. "At least pretend to give half a shvt about others". If i did that, i would be called a fake. I'm real and honest. Love me or hate me, i'm still me.
A lot of girls hate me, but they still i'm very attractive. That's enough for me. Whenever i meet anyone, especially a girl, i let her know how much better i am. Thoughts, words, and actions all show it. I leave her like "I was going to say something, but damn i got nothing".
@AtomSmasher: That's the thing. I'm not ONE of the common. I'm something else. Good or bad, i will change it all in whatever area i choose to put by unrivaled drive and determination. Maybe you got drilled in that you weren't special or whatever. For the longest time i actually tried to change to fit what everyone, much like you people, told me to change. However, i realized that i'm never going to change and there is a reason why. I'm not one of the bunch, i'm not average, and i don't settle with what i'm given. I am, and have, something that your average person doesn't. You can tell me how no one is different than me and blah blah, but people quit halfway when things get tough. That's human nature. If you can't do the last rep of an exercise, you will be done. However, i re-do the whole set until i can finish it all off. It is the same with everything i do. In whatever i do, i don't lose. I either win or win.
@Floyd: You were the one that attacked me. I kept evading it and you kept telling me i was a narcissist and this and that. Don't start something you can't finish. Ban me? I haven't broken any rules and i think i can contribute a lot to this forum.
@Zekko: You see how hypocritical that sounds? Either you believe in yourself and that mindset or you don't. There is no in between. Everyone here has an issue with me because i won't change my way of thinking into fitting EVERYONE else's? Does that make sense to you? "I'd rather you call me ****y for living like i believe, that i'm a king."