Sorry to bump it again, but I know the things that are being said to him today will get through to him in about 25 years time, so it will not have been to waste.
I am 31. I know I think I'm special too, that I'm above other people. Ronaldo, you gave me the advice to exude that "I'm so much better than everyone." I gave it a short whirl, but noticed that it solely influenced my ego.
Self-esteem does not come from ego. Superiority is something operates in silence, and ...in peace. Reread what Atom said, it is valuable to you:
The man of power and influence verbalizes that he is just like everyone else but silently demonstrates consistent actions that are in fact above most other men.
In this way men willingly cede power to such a man.
Superiority is something you demonstrate. You don't talk about it. Your talking about it precludes demonstration. What is demonstration? It is acting out your superior knowledge of how life works and how you can achieve results in life, being harmony, respect, friendship, stability, awareness, and well-being both in material and spiritual terms.
Remember: as long as you are speaking of your superiority, you are not actually being it.
On dating sites people often put down cliche ideas of what they want people to think they are. They will say "I have a great sense of humor." Well, guess what, if they really had a great sense of humor, they wouldn't be bragging about it, they would be saying something funny.
You, Ronaldo, are currently speaking of your superiority but you are not demonstrating it. It is either the one, or the other. If you were truly demonstrating it, people here would be awed and convinced of it. Demonstration needs no words, no proof. Demonstration is something that is self-evident to everyone around you.
Think of it this way. If you took a child from a primitive tribe and wanted to teach her the reality and workings of electricity, would you
a) construct a formal proof explaining to her that it works, how it works, and why it works
b) take her to a light switch and ask her to use it?
If this child believed in magic and natural spirits, then course (a) would have no effect and would only annoy this child. Course (b) would instantly and reliably make her realize for herself what is the nature of this thing you could then explain to her as being something you call electricity.
Seek to demonstrate. Seek not to prove. Anyone who requires proof will not get it. The act of requiring proof states that that which is supposed to be proven, is now not evident. That the nature of reality is now not revealed.
I told a friend of mine yesterday about using baking soda as a teeth whitener. I told him I was gonna use it. He said "alright, then I'll wait for your experience." I told him that anyone who waits for the experience of another, will never get the experience himself.
You Ronaldo, are merely talking about your superiority, you are not actually showing it to us. Because there is nothing to show. In your deeper mind, there is only a void. And a deep pain. There would be something to show if you knew it, but you don't - you only think you do. Very much like myself, actually.
True superiority is ALWAYS effectively communicated through behaviour and body language, which may include speech. Just the fact that people here are not convinced of it, should make you scratch your head.
I'm telling you, you are not demonstrating (showing, acting, being, behaving) superiorly. Quite the converse.
It would upset your mind too much for you to realize it at this point. But in about 25 years time, it will get through to you.