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I think going to a club for a "date" is a bad idea. You can't hear what she's saying and vice versa. Play a sport or dine together. Just my two cents. But don't be "flaking". Just change the plan and ask her to go along with the change of plan (don't invite any of her friends).

She is pretty. But the music on her myspace page shows cheap tastes. Just my humble opinion.

Thanks for all the responses, and for reading. I really needed to get it out of the system. All of your advice is well taken. I knew it on an intellectual level actually, but I never seem to be able to implement the DJ strategies, because I'm extremely shy. Well, the feelings in that...

you can't force yourself to love someone, but if--as you said--she is still hot, and you have feelings for her, and she surely has feelings for you, the question becomes "why not?". Understandably, you'd be a little hesitant, but if the chemistry is there...Sometimes it is good to be loved by...

I'm no DJ, let me admit at the outset. But things can't get worst than what it is right now. Here is my last e-mail to a girl that I've dated. Flame me as you wish, but I'm putting it out to see if ANYONE might be moved by real emotions rather than concocted confidence. If you don't hear...

knglerxt, i feel the same. I hang out with my male friends. Over the years, almost all of them have acquired GF's (many are also in LTR). I definitely feel that I'm the odd man out (I'm almost in my late 20s) when we hang out with my friends and their GF's and wives. There's a lot of...

i don't want to be too critical here, but why would you even want to have some kind of a relationship (physical or otherwise) with this vulnerable girl when you already have a HB10 waiting somewhere? And then you wonder if you would be a "lil cold hearted" to this blind girl if you used her and...

Hope this "missed opportunity" will make you bolder. Best of luck! Keep us informed.

Hang in there and hold your head high. I'm trying to do the same because I'm sinking low as no woman seems to show interest in me.

You look pretty cool, I would actually say. I thought it was a real ugly guy asking this question. But no, you're not ugly at all. However, you may have low self-esteem issues (in asking this question in this particular way, when you could have asked--"how do I look to you?")

It seems to me an inordinate amount of attention is paid to how to get a girl (or rather, girls), get her into bed, get some dates, and so on. I don't see a lot of threads about keeping a single girl for a LTR. When people ask for advice on how to keep a girl during difficult times the most...

Do you kiss the girl on the first *lunch* date? Not all girls work the same, alright? Sometimes being too forward backfires (maybe some really "suave" people don't care if it backfires--they just shrug it off and move to the next girl that they see, but it just shows that they don't care much...

Long story short, we went out on a date for the first time about 10 days ago. We "met" on myspace.com After our date I never heard from her again. I actually had a good feeling about the date because she talked a lot and the conversation flowed smoothly and for quite a while. There were eye...

PIMP, thanks so much for taking the time and for being straightforward. I think I agree with you--I did quite a few things wrong and acted silly on several issues. I definitely shouldn't have asked if I should email or call--and just call! (I'm a good writer but not a good verbal communicator...

Danny, thanks for taking the time to respond. You have given me some great ideas! (shops, waterfront). There's a river running through my city and now I have a lot of nice ideas for a second date. We did have good eye contacts, but there's no touching (besides the little handshake). I used...

thanks for the reply, swaptrex. I would appreciate more advice, please keep them coming! I'd be very grateful!

Hi DJs and other members, allow me to get to the gist of the situation, as I would really appreciate your comments/suggestions! PRELUDE I'm in my mid 20s. I "met" this girl (early 20s) on myspace online. It's not really "meeting" her because I just looked at some of the local women's...