A Monkey's Journal

[DesperateMonkey]

Ok Guy's. The other Day I was on the train and I saw this Hb 9.5 she was between 23-27 and I'm 18. She was alone, she seemed approachable. I was waiting for the oppurtunity when the seat next to her was empty so I can go over there and talk to her. Three times during the train ride her seat was empty and I told myself I was gonna go over there to talk to her but I wussed out. I hate myself for that. I felt like that was an oppurtunity sent from the heavens that I passed by. I didnt matter If she gave me a number or not , its just the fact of actually being a man and working on my game.

Sooo This experience forced me to make a drastic and immediate change in my life. Starting Tom. im gonna talk to any girl that I can find. I'm gonna work on my CF, my charm, wit, smile, and overall demeanor.

I realized a closed mouth don't get fed.....and im hungry.

I'm a keep track of 50 approaches for the month of August.

So plz. comment and give me advice and any constructive criticism and support Would be Greatly appreciated.

 

[Ace of Flames]

O-kay.

 

[julym]

Hope this "missed opportunity" will make you bolder. Best of luck! Keep us informed.

 

[DesperateMonkey]

Approach 1: So I was sitting on the train and the next stop this girl that went to my high school came on. She was a year behind me but we never spoke or anything I'm not gonna lie I went from the 3 second rule to the 3 minute rule, but i finally did speak to her.

Monkey "hey you went to School XYZ"
Hb 8 : Yea
Monkey : Do you remember me ?,
Hb 8: no
Monkey: *Acting as if i was hurt* I remember you !
Hb 8: sorry
Monkey: So how was ya last year in school any drama happen?
HB 8: No, everything was fine

Then she had to get off two stops after she got on...

I know its nothing spectacular but its a start I guess..some insight plz.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

nice to see a journal popping up. good luck

 

[DesperateMonkey]

Approach 2

So I was on the train again and this girl walks on the train and sits down in a two seater by herself.

I got up and sat right next to her. She smiled knowing what was about to happen. I was so nervous, I didnt talk very clear, and I simply said to her

"Hey im about to get off at the next stop but i saw you was cute and I didnt want to miss out on the oppurtunity to get to know you." I wasnt that smooth, and i stuttered a little bit.

She said You can have my name and my number, and how she dosent really give it out to guys but she thought I was cute and also brave for what I did.

I cant believe i got her number, I told her I seen her the other day and she gave me one of those weird stalker looks, I stumbled and wasnt that confident. I'm suprised she responded well to me.

Commentzz.