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Just turned 29 a couple weeks ago.

I'm just wondering if anyone on here shaves (I'm not talking about the face), and if so, why? I've started recently, and I like it better--maybe it's just a matter of personal opinion. What do you/y'all think?

Good luck.

Dude, calm down. You have made an immense amount of progress. Don't tell anyone off, that burns bridges. Besides that, just look at it as they are losing you, not the other way around--because that's the truth anyway. And don't presume girls to be flakes--as much as they are all the...

JAYER!! You called too much! After the first time; leave it be until later--much later. You probably had a chance with this girl--IL seemed to be high at the approach, but you more than likely (but not definitely) ruined any chance you might have had by appearing needy and clingy by calling...

Play it cool--an don't hesitate

I'm in the middle -- but I would never cheat on a girl. If I'm "dating", then there is no relationship there, and anything goes. If I'm in a "relationship", then there is no cheating involved. No matter what though, I still have fun.

Jayer, your #3 should be: Be confident and mature, not ACT confident and mature. Women are the most perceptive people they are--and they KNOW whether you ARE confident or whether you're ACTING confident. Obviously, there are exceptions. And again, Igetit is right, don't get the...

exactly. Jayer, you're doing good for the most part. But these last few, it just seems like you go straight for the kill (best analagy I got right now), and that seems to turn girls off--not all of them, mind you, but it's just bad taste. Build more rapport. Don't lie to them, just don't...

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Jayer; you said your two biggest fears in the first post you posted in this thread. My question to you is this: Are they still your two biggest fears? Why or why not? Just to give the readers some insight as to how you have developed.

The out of state hb--you seem to be doing that one very well, with what you have. I am very impressed with your progress thus far, though it did take a while. At least you have the will and the guts to go all the way through with what you intend(ed) to do when you first started this thread...

My backup plan is continue to have fun, and meet more people. Simple as that.

This was a really good one, man. And good work on following through with this--and keep it up. The "you're not allowed to talk to other people" line is a good one--I've used before myself. It doesn't always work, but most of the time it does.

Every time you think this, you are right. Sometimes too much persistence is a bad thing. After she didn't answer the text message--that should have been all you did for that day. You attempted to contact this girl three times within half a day--sounds stalkerish to most women. Whenver...

Jayer!! Quit obsessing over the fact that girls don't call you when they say they will. Granted, it is MESSED up, but you don't know what could/may have caused her not to call you when she said she was going to. Don't bring it up, just let it be. If it was something important, then she'll...

It's her decision to lose out on you--NEXT. Attraction does not equal good times.

Girls always know when you are going for a kiss. You should not have mentioned anything about it, and you should not have gone in after the first "cheek" was given. 2nd date, paying for the tickets is kind of an iffy thing, but having her wait while you got the car just depends on the kind of...

It seems like you've come a long way--don't be so persistent though. Too much too soon can be a bad thing--although it doesn't look like it's hurt you too bad thus far. Also, choose calling over texting every time. You can tell more by the sound of their voice than you can what they're doing...

Actually, there is only p.s. I learned that one a long ass time ago.