From the post below from another thread you come across as the sh*t but it just might be that women are seeing you as the guy whose sosuave aura is like the guy who walks out of the restroom with toilet paper stuck on his shoes trailing behind him looking like a dork.
Being a mature masculine male is someone who understands the human condition and defends those when someone has been treated unfairly without worrying if he will appear AFC to his boys. He is his own man and judges accordingly to each situation uneffected in what people might think when he feels what is right and wrong in his own eyes.
The girl who was interested in you and stuttered and you ignored her because of it you come across as a prick... the girl was interested in you the door was wide open and you act this way not cool.
Did you stay long enough to see if her stuttering was the result of her being a born stutterer? If so and you continued to ignore her putting her self esteem in jeopardy shows you lack empathy and you need to slap yourself in the face until you get it. In this incident if she was a born stutterer to ignore her and to make the comments you said about her there is no doubt in my mind your a big prick and it doesn't surprise me your starting a thread about back up plans when your main pu*sy plan falls through in any incident.
In the other paragraph below that you wrote all I can say about it is if you lived in my neck of the woods most girls I know would introduce you to their gay bottom friends as a reward for toying with their emotions like that.
To be the sh*t it comes down to confidence thats not fake but real. To be genuine is to project that you sexually desire women and their company and they will sense this in your body lanugage and the way you speak and if they are attracted will reward you accordingly but only when you stop toying with their emotions like their puppets on a string.
To need a backup for pu*sy you need to find some hobbies to keep your mind on other things for the time being keep your hands lubed until you learn a little respect and class and like you said it's your own dam fault for not getting laid and that my friend I will agree with.
LoneSilver
Main Entry: em·pa·thy
Function: noun
Pronunciation: 'em-p&-the
Etymology: Greek empatheia, literally, passion, from empathes emotional, from em- + pathos feelings, emotion -- more at PATHOS
2 : the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner ; also : the capacity for this
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07-06-2008, 04:02 PM #7
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Master Don Juan
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 815
I've had a Young gal (one of many) come on to me recently, so today I showed interest in her in the midst of friends. Well, she stutters a little because she's nervous trying to impress. I start ignoring her because of her stuttering. This whole time I've recently talked to her (seen her for years just now talking to her) She must think that I think that she's an abject retard or moron. This must bother her to death that she can't turn my favor around to her.
I'll show women interest (not a lot, just a little) and when she thinks she has me, even for a little bit, I'll take it away, avoid her, not talk to her, not being mean just no longer showing interest. Then later when she's close-by to me I'll show interest again, but then I'll take it away, take it away. Then a month later, I'll give it back to her. Then I'll take it away, take it away.
Never let them grab onto you.
