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    Balance Attraction with Value: Eliminate Flaking

    It is true that if you use too much attraction material at the beginning you will get a flake, I'm talking here from experience. One question about something that seems confusing to me though: If you are direct from the start why do you need to remove her validation in endgame? Isn't it better...
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    The two fundamental elements of a pickup

    Good point. By assuming attraction you become attractive. Think about it, how do attractive people behave? They do nothing to show that they are attractive, because they already know it. If you don't assume attraction, and you try to create attraction by endless indirect techniques, you will...
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    Mutual Value Escalation

    Mutual Value Escalation is not only the most important factor for picking up women, it is also very important for any social interaction. MVE is the essence of charisma, and charisma creates success and leadership.
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    Do not be afraid to show interest

    Excellent post! Direct game is more effective than indirect game, because you ASSUME already that you are of higher value, and your style, bodylanguage,tonality and facial expressions must be congruent with that. You have to demonstrate your direct interest in the girl. Make sure to show...
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    Leave Sosuave!

    Re: Re: Leave Sosuave! Yes, I did. And therefore I'm much more successful now. This site is good for the lower half of the learning curve, but when you are at the top half, then this site does no good for you. Sosuave deals very well with supplication and neediness issues, but as I said...
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    Leave Sosuave!

    A lot of the stuff you will read on mASF is also ****. My favourite posts are the following ones. I recommend you to read them with patience, they helped me a lot. After reading all of them you will have a more rounded game, and you should go out to the field and forget about seduction boards...
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    Leave Sosuave!

    Most people on this board only get their perspective on seduction out of Sosuave. While I think this site is ok and I myself have been surfing this site some time ago, coming back I have to say that the stuff on this site is too basic. If you only visit this site you will stagnate sooner or...
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    Is it really so bad to be NICE to your girl?

    This whole "should I be nice or not" debate is ridiculous. It isn't really about that. Many people on this site will tell you to treat your GF like **** and to be a jerk to keep her. That's bull****! Don't listen to them. The problem comes up when you try to be someone else. The most important...
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    The Mother of all Theory Posts

    This whole "mindf*cking" theory works only for insecure girls. If all you want is sex, then OK. But if you want more then that, then you won't get the quality girls with that.
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    Do what you want, just remain confident!

    This is the only thing that I've learnt, after years of doing approaches, dating multiple girls and having LTRs: As long as you remain confident, it doesn't matter what you do I see guys overthinking things, wondering what to say in every exact moment, and I think this is the main problem...
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    Natural Game

    Great post!
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    To Compliment Or Not To Compliment

    We aren't talking about the same kind of "disrespect". Of course you should touch her, kiss her and have fun with her. That's not disrespect, that's common sense. The disrespect I meant is treating her like **** from the beginning just because she is a girl. My rule is always be...
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    To Compliment Or Not To Compliment

    Re: Dude comon If you don't have respect for women you can't be a DJ.
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    This is why true players are popular with the ladies

    That's probably the best description of a DJ I have read on this site. In a bunch of sentences you have managed to explain something that the DJ-Bible isn't capable to explain with loads of posts.
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    BIG LIST of C&F Responses to Common Questions

    You won't go very far with this kind of answers, unless, of course, a psycho-slut is all you want. Teasing is a must, but the answers above go overboard with ****iness. And too much ****iness = overcompensating = insecure = AFC. I'm warning you not to use this bull****. This are said to work...
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    Charm

    That's something I'm using, too, with great success. Nice post!
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    Repeating her name

    I read this somewhere: "Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language" So the technique consists basically of repeating the other person's name during the conversation to increase rapport. I understand that it is good to say the...
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    C&F vs Charm

    I try to be a thinker during the day and a do'er during the night. No. The C&F of the DYD brand isn't charming. He tells you to nearly insult the woman while keeping a straight face. Don't do that, unless you are looking for easy low quality sluts. How can you use C&F while being charming...
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