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    Tell me what Im doing wrong before this implodes

    Yep, all good advice there as well.
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    Tell me what Im doing wrong before this implodes

    Well she is new, and you are correct, I generally do not have a rotation of girls, but have been on and off with several over the last year. And she isn't necessarily the only option, but she is the runaway favorite. :up: I know how these things can go though, hoping past experiences and...
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    Tell me what Im doing wrong before this implodes

    Well said, thanks for the vote of confidence. I have no problem inviting her over to fvck! She seems to be onboard with that as well.
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    Tell me what Im doing wrong before this implodes

    I'm not needy or clingy, but I find myself wanting to be with her whenever I can without letting her know that. I'm getting the same reactions from her. Just trying to keep it real. As Harry said, were not in a relationship at this point. I can see it getting there, but dont want to sabotage its...
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    Tell me what Im doing wrong before this implodes

    Thanks for the perspective. I will check out your podcast as well.
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    Tell me what Im doing wrong before this implodes

    So I started seeing this woman, who happens to be the ex-principal at my daughters school. We went out on a date last Thursday. Hit it off well. I asked her out the following Sunday night and we had fun, ended up making out in my car in the bar parking lot until 3:00a. Could have fvcked her then...
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    Thoughts about seeing an ex last night ...

    That's how I feel, but her reaction seemed a bit immature. Who knows what she told her friends about how it ended. I have no hard feelings but if anyone should I think it would be me. That's why I was thrown off a little bit.
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    Thoughts about seeing an ex last night ...

    So last night I was on a date with a girl Ive been seeing for about a month. While at the show we ran into another girl I had been dating for a few months before that. We had stopped seeing each other for about a month or so prior to last night. We had great sex, the feeling was mutual. I...
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    Always Kiss-Close on the First Date

    Thanks Harry, great commentary as usual. I'm interested in hearing more about this 20 questions game. My first impressions are how do you initiate it? Isn't 20 questions too many? ( texting kills relationships) Won't this reveal too much about the person, things you would normally talk/find out...
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    Always Kiss-Close on the First Date

    Just to clarify, do you consider a first date and the first meet-up one in the same? Ive had girls give me a line that the meet up isn't a date, but that hasn't stopped me from kissing them.
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    Always Kiss-Close on the First Date

    I'll take it one step further and say go for the kiss mid- first date. From my experience it not only shows you have the balls to do it, it breaks any tension and you end up spending the 2nd half of the first date in a better frame.
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    3rd date coming up, whats the best protocol

    The multiple date scenario works well. It teaches you to not care, or to not lose your frame, or not get stuck with oneitis. It occupies your time so these things come naturally. Just practicing this for several weeks now Ive noticed Ive become even more attractive to women, and its much easier...
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    Girl slightly losing interest, what to do?

    Hi- You should search and read up on the countless threads started here similar to yours. You will be shocked to find out how common this scenario is, and you will soon learn where things went wrong.
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    3rd date coming up, whats the best protocol

    As an aside I have a 1st meet up with a beautiful blonde 34 yo Friday night. Too be honest I haven't spun plates before but seems like a reasonable thing to do.
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    3rd date coming up, whats the best protocol

    SO I have this 3rd date approaching. I want opinions on if I am doing things correctly in winning this girl over. Unless something drastic or flaky happens, which is surely a possibility when dealing with women, I am looking to I want to maximize my efforts. I will say sex is imminent. If not on...
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    A little panicked; going on first date with high value woman, advice please!

    I agree, although we haven't been naked together in bed. If that were the case I can promise you there would be sex lol. So far its been two dates and we've made out/slept on her couch. Fully clothed.
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    A little panicked; going on first date with high value woman, advice please!

    This helps a lot. This is just the reinforcement i was looking for. On that note I completely expect her to respect my decision to not see her on V-Day. Thanks!
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    A little panicked; going on first date with high value woman, advice please!

    I agree with this, but in this case I think she is withholding only because she doesn't want to come off as being too easy, and maybe things haven't turned out the way she anticipated in the past. Wants to try something different. I have no reason to believe it wont happen. The tension is all there.
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    A little panicked; going on first date with high value woman, advice please!

    I'm not sure about this. She's has made it clear that her two daughters are her #1 priority. So far shes told me that shes had plenty of men, successful men, date her, and an actual marriage proposal to her since her divorce. But none have been what she is searching for, from what I can tell is...
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    A little panicked; going on first date with high value woman, advice please!

    Yeah, I probably could have, without going into details though I'm a bit hesitant. I'm not exactly sure what would have happened after that. I can see it happening soon though. this girls is horny as hell. Will ramp it up on the next date, test her a bit.
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