SO I have this 3rd date approaching. I want opinions on if I am doing things correctly in winning this girl over. Unless something drastic or flaky happens, which is surely a possibility when dealing with women, I am looking to I want to maximize my efforts. I will say sex is imminent. If not on this Saturday (3rd date) sometime soon after.
Date 1; We had dinner, made out a little. I slept on her couch. She was in to me. Full on interest. Confessed she hasn't ever had someone at her house early on in relationship, let alone the 1st meet up.
Before and after the 1st date, contact was limited. A couple of responses to her texts, left no no open ended responses. I waited at least 1 - 3 hours before responding. Contacted her a couple of days after the first date. A little small talk, asked for the date. She obliged. Called her later the next day to confirm and time I would pick her up.
Date 2; Picked her up at her house. Proceeded to local pub for drinks and food. A lot of sexual tension. A lot of kissing at the bar. A lot of interest shown on her part. I rarely commented about her. She kept going on about how she was into me. I'm not bragging here, its just how it went down. Went to her place. She made clear we wouldn't have sex until yet. Which was/is actually ok by me. No need to press the issue as I can tell she is trying hard t hold back. I like the way the sexual tension is building. Actually didn't really make out there. Just talked and kissed a little and we
After date 2 I have been no contact. She texted me to make sure I got home as it was 4a when i left and I had a 30 min drive. She also texted me yesterday to say thanks, that she had fun and that I'm a great kisser.
On date 2 we tentatively planned a date for this Saturday. She wanted to do something Thursday (V-Day) but I told her that was probably out because I had my daughter that night, but said I wold see what I could do. M plan is to tell her no go on Thursday. Planning to take her to dinner Saturday night, and table tennis at SPiN afterwards.
I'm going to go no contact until tomorrow (Wed) when i tell her Thursday is a no go.
Any thoughts? Suggestions? Ultimately I'm looking to keep her interest up and also raise it. And also to get her in bed!
Thoughts, comments, suggestions?
Date 1; We had dinner, made out a little. I slept on her couch. She was in to me. Full on interest. Confessed she hasn't ever had someone at her house early on in relationship, let alone the 1st meet up.
Before and after the 1st date, contact was limited. A couple of responses to her texts, left no no open ended responses. I waited at least 1 - 3 hours before responding. Contacted her a couple of days after the first date. A little small talk, asked for the date. She obliged. Called her later the next day to confirm and time I would pick her up.
Date 2; Picked her up at her house. Proceeded to local pub for drinks and food. A lot of sexual tension. A lot of kissing at the bar. A lot of interest shown on her part. I rarely commented about her. She kept going on about how she was into me. I'm not bragging here, its just how it went down. Went to her place. She made clear we wouldn't have sex until yet. Which was/is actually ok by me. No need to press the issue as I can tell she is trying hard t hold back. I like the way the sexual tension is building. Actually didn't really make out there. Just talked and kissed a little and we
After date 2 I have been no contact. She texted me to make sure I got home as it was 4a when i left and I had a 30 min drive. She also texted me yesterday to say thanks, that she had fun and that I'm a great kisser.
On date 2 we tentatively planned a date for this Saturday. She wanted to do something Thursday (V-Day) but I told her that was probably out because I had my daughter that night, but said I wold see what I could do. M plan is to tell her no go on Thursday. Planning to take her to dinner Saturday night, and table tennis at SPiN afterwards.
I'm going to go no contact until tomorrow (Wed) when i tell her Thursday is a no go.
Any thoughts? Suggestions? Ultimately I'm looking to keep her interest up and also raise it. And also to get her in bed!
Thoughts, comments, suggestions?
