The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Insecure about my looks

    Will try the zenmed. Sorry to bring it up again, but this is a resolving issue for me that is really hurting my game a lot. I am charming, intelligent and have a confident exterior, but I whenever I look at myself in the mirror and see my blotchy complexion, face that is too round, weak facial...
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    Don't Use ****y & Funny Until You're Ready!!

    I would disagree completely. The essence of ****y and funny is a complete indifference to what the girl thinks. The best way to develop this is to have it fall flat and see that life goes on. Some will respond, others will get offended. The attitude you need is you are just having fun and...
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    need some suggestions for romantic music

    Al Green Marvin Gaye: 2 CDs "I Want You" and "Let's Get It On" Anything by Barry White
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    Reactions to physical improvement

    lol, thanks Jariel. I still have a long way to go with my body-legs, abs and shoulders are fantastic but struggling to put muscle on my chest and arms. I am sure you will look super by the spring once you have finished cutting! Then it is time for you to jog outside topless and enjoy the...
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    The essence of ****y and Funny: arrogant assumptiveness!!

    Couple more spring to mind. I am running out of ideas, so would like some other DJs to contribute. Also appreciate any feedback, as to which examples you like and which you don't. Most of these are fieldtested but different girls react in different ways. Her: "I like your new hair style it...
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    The only thing harder to talk to than a beautiful woman...

    God. I know exactly what you guys are talking about. I am sure everyone knows my story about the Finnish girl who reply to "why don't you answer my calls" (I know-I was pissed) was "oh, it is Finnish culture-all my friends get cross with me for not returning calls" -although when she decided to...
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    Bumping up the calories for bulking-ideas

    Nuts are a good idea. Any more? I am really struggling on the eating side of things.
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    Reactions to physical improvement

    Jariel, nice story. What I notice is that in a club previously if I bumped into someone they would get mad and glare at me. Nowadays they say sorry even if it is my fault. I also have noticed that people generally look up to me more and seem eager not to offend me. I have also had some...
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    Bumping up the calories for bulking-ideas

    I am trying to put on some weight fast and am lifting maximal poundages for me at the moment and training very hard, but struggling on the diet. I cannot have milk as it aggravates my acne which is irritating so need a good source of calories at maximum convenience. At the moment my diet is...
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    How to handle somebody who is out of your league?

    hi clifford, just want to echo disciple's point. The moment you think a girl is out of your league then you will screw it up. There is some weird psychology called cognitive dissonance such that if you are going out with a girl who you THINK is out of your league you will screw it up so that...
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    alpha male vs. beta male

    I have always seen alpha males (the popular, sporty types who everyone thinks is cool and looks up to) surrounded by women, while the beta males get less women. If most men look up to you and you have always been popular, aren't you likely to be very confident? And women definitely find that and...
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    alpha male vs. beta male

    Alpha males are usually confident men who are used to being leaders and having other men look up to them. A lot can be very arrogant and ****y, but the majority are cool and nice to everyone as they have nothing to prove and do not feel threatened by anyone. Beta males are men who are forced...
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    Nice Guys Exposed

    I am slowly emerging from my nice guy phase. I could not have asked for nicer parents. I have just always been sensitive with my head in the clouds and at school I used to get picked on and bullied so I learnt to stay in the background, be shy and not cause any trouble or assert myself. I...
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    Just wanted to share some more ****y+funny (field tested)

    that is cool. I think it is important to develop your own style and blend of c and f-so yeah linking to your thread should work out better. Keep the examples coming smooth666
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    Why do/did you feel a lack of confidence?

    hi tom121. I used to have the skinny body but I have outgrown that literally! PM me if you want advice on building yourself up. scrumtulescence, i have the same sort of problems. I have developed social skills but i still don't really feel i connect to people and don't really have many people...
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    Why do/did you feel a lack of confidence?

    Great post, Fatality (hope we are cool even though we disagreed regarding my tip). I think insecurity is the main thing that holds people back. Other people tend to take the same opinion of you that you have of yourself, so healthy self-esteem is essential. If you think you are an attractive...
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    Follow your goddamn heart!

    I would say so. He created the philosophy of success-a way of life and thought that leads to great riches and success. I have upmost respect for his writing.
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    how do you deal with ONEITIS and REJECTION?

    I feel your pain. My take on the situation is that it won't last long with her new boyfriend and he is probably just a rebound. She obviously still has feelings for her old boyfriend. wait till she breaks up with the replacement boyfriend and then make a move. Meanwhile flirt with her, be...
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    Follow your goddamn heart!

    Great post Lifeforce. We have thousands of posts on this forum telling people how not to be a wussy and an AFC, but no matter how many times you read these posts, you will only learn when you go out into the real world, fall in love with a girl and screw it up by acting too needy and weak. You...
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    Just wanted to share some more ****y+funny (field tested)

    Nice ones smooth666. Allow me to ruthlessly steal those lines and use them myself. If you wanna add them to my ****y and funny thread on the tips section that would be really cool and really raise the bar for me and others to think of new ones to add to that thread. Respect! Matt
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