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  1. M

    The essence of ****y and Funny: arrogant assumptiveness!!

    Liker of women you have got it, that is the sort of humour I use all the time. My frame is that I am a gorgeous guy who girls can't resist-which obviously isn't true as I am average looking and far from a player. So I make a lot of arrogant comments to that effect, like calling myself "the man...
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    Post your first approaching experience

    lol. My first time was when I went up to a girl in a bar and said "So are you er enjoying the band" in a really scared voice, stuttering all the way and going red. She said "yes, my housemates playing the drums" I was about to throw up so I said "I have to get back to my friends. Give me your...
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    I challenge the core of sosuave

    I agree with what you are challenging but i do not believe it represents the core of sosuave. To me sosuave has been about developing an attitude from which DJ behaviour flows. If you try and do the behaviour (kino, c and f etc) without the attitude you are destined to fail. That is what is...
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    The Nice Guy Guide??@!

    I have flicked through this book. Its basic message is if you are nice to girls then you will get laid. Now any intelligent girl will see right through this phony niceness. I personally think there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy in that you respect women and treat them well, but I...
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    The essence of ****y and Funny: arrogant assumptiveness!!

    Props to jason for reminding me of another area you can use ****y and funny, when you are engaged in physical contact with a woman. For example it was a girl's birthday and I gave her a present and she hugged me, I said "easy now. I know you are not used to receiving gifts from attractive men...
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    Flirt heavily with girls you don't care about

    Exactly screw it. I was never able to tease girls I liked because I went all shy and was scared I would offend them. But when I started practicing by teasing girls I wasn't interested in, I not only learnt to relax around girls and slowly work up to the stage where I was comfortable teasing...
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    Flirt heavily with girls you don't care about

    Right, compliments burgeoning on flattery but based on truth. I think some people are reading too much into this tip. All it is designed to do is to get men used to getting positive reactions from girls via teasing, flirting and complimenting them. You make them feel good about themselves...
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    Flirt heavily with girls you don't care about

    I don't lie. The girl I said was prettier in the daylight was pretty. I would never say that sort of thing to an unattractive girl as they would realise it is obviously a lie. To clarify I do it with girls I am not interested in or are unavaliable but are pretty. I am well aware that...
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    Flirt heavily with girls you don't care about

    Yeah, I am not trying to pick up these girls. I wouldn't do it if I sensed the girl really liked me. It is just harmless flirting. I usually do it with female friends with boyfriends who know me well enough to know it is in jest. The point is to see how much you can get away with, by overdoing...
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    Can you salvage complete screw ups?

    Yeah, I do appreciate that it is her decision if she wants to start things off again as she blew me off. But I thought that if she saw that I had really changed and become more confident, less needy and altogether cooler she might give me another chance, as she showed high interest level...
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    Can you salvage complete screw ups?

    As I am sure a lot of you know, I have become incredibly infatuated with a Finnish girl. I made a great impression initially and chatted her up, got her number and had a fabulous first date, but I sort of lost it after that, and got incredibly insecure and lost my composure, getting cross with...
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    The essence of ****y and Funny: arrogant assumptiveness!!

    One of my favourite comebacks to I have a boyfriend is as follows: "Well, I am known as the man who makes boyfriends jealous" Another ****y and funny thing I like to do is to use very corny chat up lines on girls at bars, in a very smooth, come on fashion. For example: "So,....come...
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    Flirt heavily with girls you don't care about

    Something I find incredibly helpful for confidence is flirting heavily with girls I am not attracted to. Really go over the top and take the piss. For example give them extravagant compliments, tease them, and make really unsubtle sexual innuendoes at every possible opportunity. Use lots of...
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    Insecure about my looks

    Really Jariel. I thought i was the only one who looked terrible under bright light, as it shows all my red blotchiness from my acne and the few lines, wrinkles and slight bloodshot nature of my eyes. What is a fair representation of how other people see you most of the time? As for the...
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    Insecure about my looks

    Thanks guys, you are cheering me up a lot. Yeah, there is no way i can do pretty boy nivea visage, but i am sure i could carry off masculine looks. It is also possible i notice the redness a lot more than others. It is only really very noticeable in bright light at a very short distance...
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    Insecure about my looks

    thanks frivolous. I am lean at around 10% bodyfat and bigboned. I get a lot of compliments from women about my body. I dress nicely, but have never really found a haircut which suits me really well. I have thick, dirty blonde hair, and ears which stick out a little so i cannot really wear it...
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    Insecure about my looks

    Recently I have developed a lot more confidence, improved my social and conversational skills and started to get more positive results from women, but I am still very insecure about my looks, especially when I am hitting on good looking women. I had a few dates with a really gorgeous Finnish...
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    Lessons from Laura: the importance of keeping your cool

    yup, i basically put this up so others can learn from my mistakes. I think it is a good idea for DJ's to look at each relationship and look at where they went wrong and where they did well and learn the lessons and discard the painful memories from your mind. You will find that your...
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    Some simple lessons on manners

    Most quality girls like a classy man. I am not talking about a wimpy nice guy who goes out of his way to buy her lots of presents and spends lots of money on her and goes out of his way to please her. I am talking about a classy gentleman who knows good manners and displays them in a nonchalant...
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    Lessons from Laura: the importance of keeping your cool

    I maintain the best way is learning is from your mistakes. Here is a detailed discussion of how NOT to DJ discussing my mistakes and what I should have done. The essence of this post is that beautiful girls can be infuriating and it is your role as a DJ to stay cool and keep your composure and...
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