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    Bad bout of one-itis

    Thanks kaine. Yes it is the same girl! Yeah, I am hung up on her looks. Her personality is rather boring-very sweet but completely boring. She just was so my physical type it is incredible. And yeah, she majorly pissed me off-very few girls make me lose my composure and she did with her...
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    Bad bout of one-itis

    Yeah, she has faults. For example she is incredibly flaky and does not really return calls and is impossible to get hold of. She is also very inflexible and is rather the princess type. I suppose the reason I am set on her is she is the best looking girl i have ever dated and it just gives me...
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    Simple Tip on one-itis

    lol. If only you had written this tip a few weeks ago. I made all of these mistakes-let my emotions take over and started to obsess about a girl such that I lost control and composure and started to act like a jerk and AFC in alteration.
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    Bad bout of one-itis

    For the past few months something has clicked and I became more confident, more relaxed and achieved more success with girls. I wasn't really interested in a girlfriend and was just casually dating. I was getting a lot of female attention and enjoying myself a lot. Then I fell hard for this...
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    The importance of low pressure

    I am sorry sapphire. CAVEAT This post is describing how to go for the beautiful, rather shy sort of girl, where applying lots of pressure scares them off. A lot of guys including myself go for this sort of girl and you have to play it very carefully. If you want to go for party girl...
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    The importance of low pressure

    I dunno. A lot of guys come on far too strong and come across as desperate. I have done this a lot in the past-most notably with this hot blonde recently. Beautiful girls are used to men slobbering all over them and saying they love them a mere weeks after meeting them. If you come across as...
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    The importance of low pressure

    You can never go into a relationship too slowly. I used to a get into the friends zone far too quickly because I never used to make a move or even ask girls out. Now I have gone to the other extreme coming on far too strong and flirting far too heavily. Before I had no concept of how to tease a...
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    The Jerk Stage

    Well, it is not so much the ****y and funny stuff, as that usually works, it is more just being plain rude. For example, I sent a girl a message on her phone asking her whether we were still meeting up at a disco and also asking her to confirm if she was free the following wed when we were...
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    The Jerk Stage

    Having been a nice guy for most of my life, I seem to have gone completely to the opposite extreme and while it attracts girls it also means I usually offend them so much I drive them away. From putting the girls first, I now put myself first and show no respect to girls and their schedules...
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    The essence of ****y and Funny: arrogant assumptiveness!!

    Good point oneto one. I definitely would not overuse these lines. One of two each date is probably a good idea, and it is essential to make it obvious with your bodylanguage you are being completely tongue in cheek. Also definitely not if you are very good looking. Best used on good...
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    Developing a sexy voice

    If you are singing horribly, that implies you are not using the correct pitch or not breathing properly. Everyone should be able to discover a pitch range that when supported by proper breathing (from the belly) results in a lovely speaking voice and singing voice. Breathing is very...
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    The essence of ****y and Funny: arrogant assumptiveness!!

    Few more. A few lines I love are "you are ruining your chances with me" and "if we are to have a future together" For example: "If we are to have a future together, you really have to stop wearing those long skirts. I won't accept anything less than miniskirts" said in a stern serious...
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    The neglected art of a classy compliment

    Something that is neglected a lot on this site is that a rare and well-timed compliment delivered in a confident and charming manner can work miracles. The secret to a good compliment is that it shows you have noticed her and pay attention to her. All girls no matter how pretty are slightly...
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    Developing a sexy voice

    Yeah, public speaking did wonders for my shyness. If you can stand up in front of 100 people and make a speech then talking to a girl is a walk in the park. But the absolute best thing I have ever done is debating. This really teaches you how to think on your feet-excellent for any conversation...
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    Developing a sexy voice

    I never said you have to sing well. It is just a fabulous way of exercising the voice and learning how to project it. It also is good for teaching you how to breathe as you sing far better if you take a good breath of air once in a while.
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    Developing a sexy voice

    Here are a few tips on how to develop a sexy, confident voice. Props to Fingers for an excellent post which i would recommend to anyone. 1) Practice singing along to pop tunes and singing in the shower loudly. Most people make the mistake of speaking too softly and not using enough variation...
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    Look for disinterest, not interest!!

    Yeah, I am a huge fan of Doc Love and Antidump. Too many people are focused on signs of interest. e.g. She smiled at me does she like me. Basically the approach you need to take is provided she is reasonably responsive i.e. doesn't put a restraining order on you or run for the hills whenever...
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    Bit of a situation need some advice

    Have her number. Have already been out on two dates with her. Was looking to have a few dances, get a first kiss in and maybe more.
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    Bit of a situation need some advice

    I have had a little thought and I could probably arrange for a friend to come along to have a few drinks and to go back to if things aren't going really well with the hottie. That way when I see her I am not alone, plus it means I have a fall back option so I don't commit myself to spending the...
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    Bit of a situation need some advice

    I have had a little thought and I could probably arrange for a friend to come along to have a few drinks and to go back to if things aren't going really well with the hottie. That way when I see her I am not alone, plus it means I have a fall back option so I don't commit myself to spending the...
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