I agree with most of these posts....
But the thing to think of here - in stuart's position is this....
It's OK to do things that are percieved as AFC - calling and talking on the phone fopr an hour etc.... PROVIDED - you can walk away at the drop of a hat and get on with your life -...
I love to drink.
Go out, hit the bar scene with your buddies - drink, relax, have fun - perhaps get up to some crazy sh#t. Hook up with girls.... awesome.
I think this is to do more with your while personality. Drinking is just something thats easy to see - but I'd bet throughout your...
Some interesting posts and thoughts here.
Being in my early 30's and having gone through a breakup - I would say there are some valid points to this.
Many couples get so wrapped up within the relationship that they don't realize what they have until it's gone - and they've lived life...
This is a circle - that's keeps repeating.
It's totally in your mind - and you need to try and distant your thoughts from "Performance" and "Will I be able to get it up this time" into her - and how she looks/smells/taste's etc.
You've got to break this pattern - and your the only one that...
Well I was a virgin until March 5 of this month. Lost it at the tender young age of 20. Basically it was blind drunken luck.
I hadn't gotten laid before because my brain was flooded with all these false and mysogynistic ideas of women. I had rigged myself to "Not Be Myself" and to think that...
I agree with some of the posters above.
George forman grill is aweseome. I grill Filet Mignon, chicken breasts, turkey, pork. You name it. Boil some Broccolli - Or Asparagus - perhaps a salad and you've got lot's of protein. Whats more it's very quick. By you meet and freeze them...
are you telling me you were not using a condom when you were casually fvcking your ex?
Go see a DR.
You can also research on the web to double check that sh#t out.
Don't forget to wrap your d#ck
PRL has got it right...
She doesn't want anything expect for you to be there as a friend - emotional tampon. Your not going to be able to hit it again - and she's made that clear.
You should drop her.
Not time with you unless she's putting out - or you are getting something from it...
- don't judge it on the first time you did it. The first time I played Golf I was like - What the fvck is this? running around chasing this small little ball!!!! - with time you and it will get better.
- There are many different types of sex - maintenance sex, making love, Fvcking, revenge...
Tell her thats fine with you - but as a man you have needs.
She'll need to blow you on a regular basis....
Or - if she refuses, then tell her your cool with that if she's cool with you getting it elsewhere :D
Hell....
If you had not built up emtions for her I'd say all is good - and of course if you can protect yourself in the process. This would be a good relationship to experience some freaky sh#t - and have fun.
On the flip side - I would not be in an LTR with this girl. My belief is she has...
WTF?
You don't want her - but you do?
Just ignore it and keep getting the puss until you find something you do want.
It's just mind games is my guess - and so what if she's seeing someone else. You don't want it.
This IS your problem. Trust me.
It's nothing to do with you masterbating to much. Perhaps if you did it 20 minutes before - otherwise forget it.
It may continue to happen until you get more experience c#ming with a chick.
You probably need a regular lay in order to break your track record.
These things don't happen overnight.
Being a DJ doesn't mean you approach 10 girls every time you go out.
Perhaps the time was not right - sometimes things don't click - maybe just the fact that your feeling off.
It happens to everyone.
Next time just go out to have fun. Don't make...
how many times have you had sex with these women?
It's sometimes happens to me the first couple times (max) I have sex with a new chick - but after that I'm fine.....
So perhaps it's that?
It depends on the situation...
Define hanging out.
Did you meet her through work?
Were you going out on dates? to bars/clubs - to movies?
I've meet plenty of women through work - some I've done lunch with, some gone to drinks after work with - and this doesn't mean I want them...
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