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    Advice plz!!!!

    It's self confidence. You don't have any - you need to drink to get inot the Zone. There's a lot of guys like that..... I used to need to drink to get my "Game" on. Now I can with or without drinking. It's a state of mind that will come with experience and time. Don't try and...
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    Not cut out to be a DJ?

    I'm lost what's the problem? Your jealous when your not around them - but you don't want to be around them 24/7. It's a mind game. She's mind fvcking you and your playing up to her tune. Your reacting to her is exactly what SHE wants. You've given her the power over you. you...
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    Ex - b#tch twisted the knife again...

    For what it's worth.... http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=34319
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    Ex - b#tch twisted the knife again...

    another piece of the ongoing saga... Yesterday was our anniversary - would have been 5 yrs. She calls me at work - tells me she's been thinking about me etc. etc. etc... Forwards a bunch of photo's on to me of her at her sisters wedding - all dressed up of course..... (yeah looking hot)...
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    The ULTIMATE Guide to Beating/Avoiding Oneitis! Revised Edition

    I'm with you guys here. You've probably read some of my post's on my ex.... It was out anniversary today and she called me. What a fvcking tease. I've been through 11 women in the last 7 months since we broke up - It still has not helped. It's like a piece of me is gone - we had...
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    What wrong with me

    This has happened to me. a long time ago I had broken up with a GF - and meet someone else quickly after that. I found that pre intercourse I was fine - my hard on was good to go - but as soon as I wrapped my d#ck - just before I was going to bang her - it became soft. It's anxiety...
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    Tick-tock

    I hear you. Look, you can't pre-determine who these girls are upfront. And, you don't want to rule out a perspective good LTR. So, you've got to play the game and move on if the noose becomes to tight a fit. Most of the girls I'm dating after my LTR are 25-27 area. I'm 33. I've...
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    How do you act around girls you've NEXT'D?

    Remember swinggers "You act like you don't need this sh#t, and they give you all of this sh#t" I've run into similar ex's.... Chasing or worrying about them - or expending energy on them is a waste. If you see her regularly then all the more to act like she's nopt there...
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    I really screwed up this time. I need some serious advice from the LTR guys.

    I agree with PRL I was in a similar situation. Yuo've hurt her - and she's not going to jump right back into this with you. Don't pressure her though - but take it easy. You know what to do - DJ her again. She will come back as long as you don't apply pressure, are not needy...
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    First Post

    You are old...
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    44 year old needs dating advice

    It appears to be over money and how she wants to spend his. Isn't that the truth.
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    Calling All TRUE Don Juans

    I think all of this is missign the point. "Looking" blew it by opening up way to quickly to this girl. If he had taken it slowly (His feelings for her) and not vocalized it to her - she would still be showing high interest in him. It's the fact that he caved to her "Womanhood" that he's...
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    What the **** is wrong with me?

    All I want is to be able to turn the table and be in control of the cards. I want people to feel great by my side, i want to be admired and I want girls to feel deeply attracted by me. I need to change. There is so much power inside me just waiting to be released, but its getting late. Im not...
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    Calling All TRUE Don Juans

    I think this woman is one of 2 types. 1) she's a manipulator - knows what to say and when to say it. Notice how she said she was shy, inexperienced a virgin. Yet meet him at this Rock concert and made the first move on him. If she was that hurt by the last guy - and that inexperienced, I...
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    Displayed jealousy. Heavy damage... How to recover?

    You got emotionally attached to a striper (ahem, Stripper). Knock, Knock, McFly is anyone home? You should have never gone this far with someone who's taking of her clothes for other guys!!!! Your not acting Jealous, your acting like any guy would, whose girl is taking off her clothes...
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    Serious help required

    How long were you with her? As a general rule - it takes half of the time you were with the girl to get over her - unless of course you dumped her and have some hate for her because of cheating etc. In reality perhaps she was the one. You may never find another woman like her again...
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    Calling All TRUE Don Juans

    Dude - this is an advice board. Many of the guys here may rip on you - so what? Many more will give you great advice - and it helps to get multiple opinions - you can weed through the advice and choose what will work for you.
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    The dreaded kid - anyone with experience?

    nice I hear you. My rule is not to get involved. I picked her up from a bar and didn't initially know about the kid. she's a hottie so I figured I'd hit it a few more times before I move on...
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    The dreaded kid - anyone with experience?

    It wasn't like I wanted the talk - we were laying there after the fact - and she brought it up. I don't care if she next's me - actually I eventually hope she does - it's just easy poon right now, thats regular. I don't want to meet the kid. I don't want to go around her house and sit...
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    Everyone knows the classic three-day "not too eager" rule, but...

    One more thing to add... It matters not so long as you have a PLAN... i.e. your not calling to BS
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