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I guess she knows what to say to make you stick around for more.

Steve, getting your body into good, fit, decent, attractive, healthy shape (not necessarily the cut "model" shape) is the most visible thing you can do to improve yourself. A girl can't tell how great a guitarist you are by the way you look. But she may hang around a little bit longer and find...

"Listening", when it comes to relationships with women, entails displaying empathy and giving validation. It's like you have to step aside yourself and put yourself in their shoes and feel their pain along with them. They're VENTING. They want your ear. So, you have to affirm that you're...

I think you made several mistakes. 1. Shouldn't be calling her the day before to see if it the date's still on. You make a date, it's a date. It's not a "maybe" that you have to check. Checking is like saying, "Are you sure you wanna go out with me?" If they can't make it, they should call you...

That's the verbal equivalent of pouting. You don't tell your woman to go with another man, ever, unless you're kicking her out of your life. This is like an oxymoron. If she's been disrespecting you, there is no "and if this continues". She's ALREADY disrespected you and so, it's OVER...

The short answer is yes. The longer answer is: gotta be careful with emails and IMs and texts because the ****y/funny inflection doesn't transmit well and people pick it up as arrogant and get turned off. As you've just experienced.

What are you kidding, kid? Learn how to be a Man with maturity, wisdom, character, dignity and class.

Yes, and I had to kiss up to her...

Ask them both out.

You missed the most significant ones. That she has extreme low self esteem (what other person would agree to meet up with someone who's insulted them), and that she was horny.

The reasons it didn't work out with her and she didn't want to be with you anymore and voted with her feet, could probably still exist in the future as well. If in X years of not hearing from you she looks back and wants you, trust me, she'll contact you. Not that you may want that by then...

The thing is, it is something important - to her - and she's not letting you in on it and putting on a false front. But she's keeping notes. Women are like elephants when it comes to their memories. Your other big problem is that you've established a pattern in this relationship where you're...

Hey! The Greeters have to work somewhere to make their booze money! I think concepts are being confused here. To have zero expectations concerning outcomes is not to be confused with not having goals. Not having "high expectations" really means not tying your hopes or emotions to the outcome...

The thing is, maybe that's w-a-y more important to consider over whether you should message her or not. When I first read your post the other day, what struck me was that you couldn't recall why she had gotten angry or what you had done - two times - the night before. Granted you were drinking...

Maybe your "lets go to your place" was indeed too forward and that put her off (but now she's being brave and figures she'll turn you down at the last moment if she has to), and/or maybe she wasn't that into you and that's the reason why conversation got so strained. That's what was in my mind...

There's a type of personality aspect called the "Conflict Avoider". This may be her. If so, pay good attention to what I'm going to tell you. You see, those types claim on the surface that they agree "for harmony's sake". They want to "make everyone happy", they say. They want to "keep the...

Hey Mack, I'd say that she hasn't any other embers in the flame right now and so she's going down her list to see who's around that'll entertain her for the moment. Dinners before you've ever met them? Don't know if you care to hear it or not, but meet them first for a drink or coffee for just...

I'm in my early 50's and started working out back when I was around 39. If I tell a person who's just met me my age, their jaw literally drops. And it's not that I'm terribly muscular, but just slender and nicely toned and look much younger than you'd think. Though it does involve discipline...

But then there'd be no one left for me to laugh at. Hell no! I'm NOT gonna pay all that child support!

You're saying the real reason women get fat is because they overeat and engorge on empty caloried junk food. It also has to do with habitually using food for comfort, being mentally indoctrinated to accept obesity, making excuses why they can't or shouldn't be fit, and simply not caring for...