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Just the question I've been wrassling with too, or as a friend of mine put it better, "figuring out the solution to this problem". Because it occurs to me that I don't see them around much either, and I wonder where they are. And I live near NYC, so you'd think out of the millions of people...

Something like that. I mean, if she had the right stuff, she doesn't need anyone telling her ""Listen, NOW he is disrespecting me and our relationship. I won't tell you what to do." Which, in a way, is inferring to her what you'd like her to do. Not that I disagree with voicing your boundary. I...

How many emergencies do people have? How many times can a grandparent die, a car break down, or a kitty cat need a Vet, or a relative get rushed to the hospital? 4 or 5 times a week? A month? A year? Or four or five times in an entire lifetime? Or maybe, more realistically, just once? And...

In my college days, I lived near Kissena Blvd., where Simmons grew up. I know the type, so forgive me if I sound like I'm stereotyping... You haven't met many Israelis from Flushing, Queens, have you? To put it nicely, it's more of a cultural thing about them. If he hadn't become wildly...

That's true. They learn what things about them turn the men off and hide them. The answer is for the man to go s-l-o-w. Not enter relationships after a few dates, but to give a good amount of time for the guard to come down when she draws closer and feels freer to be herself and see how she...

Consider something closer to home: For example, say your wife is having an affair. You may not know about it. Yet, you've authorized her to make life and death decisions on your behalf should you become incapacitated when you took care of your Will and medical proxy arrangements. That...

I've got a different opinion about him, as I read a news story about him trying to pick up an airline attendant last fall. It was reported that he slipped her a note in which he had written, ""Would you like to get together??" Not very alpha. In fact, kind of weak, don't you think? No game. I...

So you said, "Tell you what: Give me your number now, and I'll call you in three weeks", right? You didn't? If you had, then you'd see her say "Uh uh uh uh..." Let me predict what will happen in three weeks if you go back. She'll tell you either that they didn't break up or that she has a new...

Lishy, a guy who's not empathic to the tragedy of a person's sudden death - a person you were friends with, and to whom his own comfort is more important in that moment than to "be there" for his girlfriend... I wonder: does he display other narcissistic traits?

You next her. The guys who posted that they didn't get a kiss at the first date but were successful with the second date were taking a chance. If it didn't work out, then they wasted a night and whatever the date cost them. It's up to you if you want to take another chance on someone who didn't...

That's what you think you realize, I get something else from your post. I get that you, first and foremost, select the right person to be with. A woman who doesn't have that inordinate need to flirt with other men, the woman who doesn't need to get undue male attention, a woman who knows to...

Ditto F'd, and just keep them talking about themselves.

1. did I **** up anything by not trying to kiss her on the first date? You missed the opportunity to find out if she's really romantically interested in you. Girls go out with guys for lots of reasons, like sometimes they just want someone to take them out. Going for a kiss on the lips (not a...

The reason to act as if nothing happened - and please remember this golden rule the rest of your life in your interactions with women - is because the moment you say ANYTHING about it at all, then they know they got to you PLUS then they'll know just what to do when they want to rattle you the...

You're missing the forest for the trees. "She also gave me her number and email address. It wasn't a throwaway email like yahoo, but a university email." And you wrote her an email and basically asked for a date in the email and are now having to wait to see if she answers your email... ...

You never even met her. You're developing feelings based on not even having met the person, which means you're developing an attachment to your perception of her that may not be realistic. Don't overlook that by not being physically present with each other and experiencing events together in the...

I'm sure there must be some flawless trans-whatevers out there that will fool you voice-wise as well. Some women do have more pronounced adam's apples, so you can't always go by that. And I was in an east village bar one night humorously watching some tourist dude thinking he had scoped big...

That's a cool answer, I like it. But what I wanted to touch on is that, sometimes, these aren't compliments. I was with some folks a few weeks ago and I noticed this one girl in the group had a habit of stating her itinerary just about every time she was planning something with someone. Along...

DON'T ask if they missed you or even jest about if they missed you too. I hate to report this, but it does send an underlying message that you're fishing to hear that they missed you, which can signal neediness, and if your gal is the type that likes a confident guy, that's not a good message to...

Ditto DJDamage - and if you do go for digits, do so inconspicuously, on the Q.T. so the other doesn't see. It's classier that way. (And it's okay if they talk to each other later and compare notes. If they're interested in you, they'll compete with each other for you. Plus bonus then you can...